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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-16-06 11:52 PM Original message |
Opposing "Outing" Is, In And Of Itself, Homophobic |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-16-06 11:57 PM Response to Original message |
1. Well said! |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-16-06 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
2. I think it is the 'outing' part and not the sexual orientation people |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:39 AM Response to Reply #2 |
12. Being gay is about more than just your sex life. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:16 AM Response to Reply #12 |
33. What you said |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 03:16 PM Response to Reply #12 |
101. That comment just pisses me off no end. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:09 PM Response to Reply #101 |
104. Woah, settle down there sparky. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:38 PM Response to Reply #104 |
117. oops, sorry. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:28 PM Response to Reply #117 |
126. It's okay. nt |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:00 AM Response to Reply #2 |
46. Being gay isn't your SEX LIFE. Try to get that, please. |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:49 AM Response to Reply #46 |
60. Sexual orientation and sex life ain't the same thing. |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:05 AM Response to Original message |
3. Baloney. I have a problem because of privacy. |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:12 AM Response to Reply #3 |
7. The privacy thing is a smokescreen for homophobia |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:20 AM Response to Reply #7 |
8. No, I'm talking about Tom. It has nothing to do with me, but |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 01:04 AM Response to Reply #7 |
19. Your example is about acceptance, not about outing closeted gays |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:17 AM Response to Reply #19 |
23. your examples are about sexual actions, not orientation it seems |
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suziedemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:56 AM Response to Reply #19 |
42. Senator Tom would be committing adultery. |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:19 AM Response to Reply #3 |
35. Maybe if you were gay you'd understand |
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Cha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:48 PM Response to Reply #35 |
123. Thank you, it only |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:05 AM Response to Original message |
4. Unless you apply a prohibition on the discussion of anyone's |
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hlthe2b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:05 AM Response to Original message |
5. Interesting premise... |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:08 AM Response to Original message |
6. How about someone "passing"? |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:21 AM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Oh, boy, the Bob Barr jokes!!! |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:31 AM Response to Reply #6 |
24. Interesting question... |
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chill_wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:22 AM Response to Original message |
10. Thank you for this interesting thread. |
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Infinite Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:36 AM Response to Original message |
11. I would oppose outing on the premise that... |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:42 AM Response to Original message |
13. This is an interesting thread... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:43 AM Response to Original message |
14. Horse shit. The interrogation of the most intimate moments |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:52 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Since when is mentioning that someone has a partner or a wife |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 01:02 AM Response to Reply #15 |
17. You know, this argument doesn't work. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:13 AM Response to Reply #17 |
22. exactly. I believe in privacy. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:13 AM Response to Reply #17 |
52. I am thinking about the consequences, and they are good. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:38 PM Response to Reply #17 |
128. ok...you are a public homophobe |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:18 AM Response to Reply #14 |
34. Who the heck said anything about sex? |
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onenote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 09:05 AM Response to Reply #34 |
62. what other evidence is there of a closeted gay's orientation? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 09:08 AM Response to Reply #62 |
63. You may not know this, but in most outing cases it's an "open secret" |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 09:10 AM Response to Reply #34 |
64. Whether you're talking about orientation or practice or identity |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:45 AM Response to Reply #64 |
66. To the contrary: if they were truly private they couldn't be outed. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:04 AM Response to Reply #14 |
49. Your post is informed by homophobia. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:32 PM Response to Reply #14 |
127. what about people who are making personal choices for you |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:58 AM Response to Original message |
16. Opposing outing is honorable and I wish I was on their side of this |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:11 AM Response to Reply #16 |
51. "private matters should be private"? |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 01:04 AM Response to Original message |
18. I don't know.... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:21 AM Response to Reply #18 |
36. I would "out" a TG if they mouthed off about gender ID "freaks" |
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Infinite Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 01:27 AM Response to Original message |
20. Philosophically speaking... |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:47 AM Response to Reply #20 |
59. The argument that the world is fraught with homophobia |
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Infinite Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:55 PM Response to Reply #59 |
111. Believe me... |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 01:46 AM Response to Original message |
21. 'Outing' is using the homophobia of others to punish someone |
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spoony (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:00 AM Response to Reply #21 |
27. Precisely. It's not "freeing" anyone |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:01 AM Response to Reply #21 |
47. No, it's not. We don't even have the power to punish. |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:52 AM Response to Reply #47 |
70. I can't agree with you - outing is using bigotry to damage someone, |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:13 AM Response to Reply #21 |
138. I guess you didn't read carefully enough |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:54 AM Response to Reply #138 |
145. I think I read it just fine... |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 01:14 AM Response to Reply #145 |
146. The OP is referring to outing in general |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 01:59 AM Response to Reply #146 |
148. I agree - there is no reason in the world why the congressman in |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:47 AM Response to Reply #148 |
156. Glad you agree |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 11:22 AM Response to Reply #156 |
161. Strawman? |
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unblock (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:54 AM Response to Original message |
25. is keeping secret the judaism of someone in nazi germany anti-semitic? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:21 AM Response to Reply #25 |
37. Not the same thing at all -- strawman |
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onenote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:41 AM Response to Reply #37 |
39. why is it a strawman? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:15 AM Response to Reply #25 |
53. Being asked to keep a confidence has nothing to do with this. |
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unblock (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:25 PM Response to Reply #53 |
125. uh, keeping a confidence is what not outing is all about. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 09:20 AM Original message |
Sure it is. |
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unblock (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:40 PM Response to Original message |
166. this is a distinction without a difference |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 06:39 PM Response to Reply #166 |
175. Big difference. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:55 AM Response to Original message |
26. There is always a difference between what is and what ought to be |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:21 AM Response to Original message |
28. I disagree |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:35 AM Response to Original message |
29. When people in Florida found out Republican Charlie Crist was gay |
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terrya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:00 AM Response to Original message |
30. I cannot add anything else to your brilliant post. Recommended. |
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Puglover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:12 AM Response to Original message |
31. I have always thought this. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:16 AM Response to Original message |
32. I've said this myself -- right on! |
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onenote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:40 AM Response to Original message |
38. Disagree, and here's why: |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:07 AM Response to Reply #38 |
50. But the outed figures are NOT - as you say, "very private". |
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onenote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 09:02 AM Response to Reply #50 |
61. The OP wasn't particularly clear on this point |
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suziedemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:43 AM Response to Original message |
40. Well said - I totally agree. |
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pampango (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:46 AM Response to Original message |
41. Fundies will be surprised that they are not homophobes when the out gays. |
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Stockholm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:21 AM Response to Original message |
43. What if my starting point is that my sexuality is my |
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City Lights (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:24 AM Response to Original message |
44. Nicely stated! |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:58 AM Response to Original message |
45. Arrant nonsense. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:02 AM Response to Reply #45 |
48. "Right to privacy"? Privacy from whom? |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:34 AM Response to Reply #48 |
55. Debateable. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:36 AM Response to Reply #55 |
57. I asked about a right. And I'm asking again. |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:43 AM Response to Reply #57 |
65. Ah, sorry. In which case I don't know. |
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BlueEyedSon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:32 AM Response to Original message |
54. Nah... outing repubs/conservatives/fundies is OK |
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Jokerman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:34 AM Response to Original message |
56. I never thought of it that way. Thanks. |
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rman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:44 AM Response to Original message |
58. Gays who do not want to out themselves are homophobic? |
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Brazenly Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
67. Bullshit. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:50 AM Response to Reply #67 |
69. They put themselves at risk by taking public office. |
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Brazenly Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 11:01 AM Response to Reply #69 |
71. It's not about them. It's about you. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 11:48 AM Response to Reply #71 |
72. That's a funny standard. It may have eluded you, but these are |
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Brazenly Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:05 PM Response to Reply #72 |
75. Ridiculous |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:09 PM Response to Reply #75 |
77. Outing generally has so far refered to public figures. |
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Brazenly Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:23 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. Thank you for making my point. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:37 PM Response to Reply #78 |
80. The point - re: orientation tells you nothing about their sex life |
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Brazenly Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:39 PM Response to Reply #80 |
89. I never said any such thing. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:41 PM Response to Reply #89 |
90. "We have no 'right' to know who's zoomin' who" |
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Brazenly Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:47 PM Response to Reply #90 |
95. Yes, you are misunderstanding. |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:43 PM Response to Reply #69 |
122. You just made up my mind on this |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 08:02 PM Response to Reply #67 |
132. What an inane comment |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 10:49 AM Response to Original message |
68. Ridiculous. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 11:53 AM Response to Reply #68 |
73. Really? Let's put it to the test. |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:14 PM Response to Reply #73 |
86. Well |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:18 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. So at first your argument was that these are private matters. |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:31 PM Response to Reply #87 |
88. You'll have to be insulted then. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:43 PM Response to Reply #88 |
92. I notice you don't even try to align your disjointed |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 09:21 PM Response to Reply #92 |
133. Whatever. Put your meaning and accusations where you want. |
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onenote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:47 PM Response to Reply #87 |
94. whoops. Now we're back to saying everyone should be outed? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:51 PM Response to Reply #94 |
96. Public vs private is, I think, a reasonable distinction. |
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onenote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:58 PM Response to Reply #96 |
97. is someone who goes to a gay bar public or private? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 03:00 PM Response to Reply #97 |
98. In general as regards outing I am always talking about public |
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onenote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 03:03 PM Response to Reply #98 |
99. thanks for the clarification |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
74. Interesting discussion |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
76. I have a firm position on this |
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Infinite Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:02 PM Response to Reply #76 |
113. Yes... |
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rinsd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
79. There is the world we want and the world we live in |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:18 PM Response to Reply #79 |
106. But they are the ones causing and/or fostering the hatred n/t |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 01:38 PM Response to Original message |
81. We can't really "out" someone's ethnicity, religion, or gender |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:45 PM Response to Reply #81 |
93. Straight opinions simply won't decide the issue. |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:10 PM Response to Reply #93 |
105. of course |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 03:31 PM Response to Reply #81 |
102. If you discovered a rabidly racist politician |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:05 PM Response to Reply #102 |
103. You're damn right I would nt |
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WilliamPitt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
82. I disagree completely |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:05 PM Response to Reply #82 |
85. You nailed it. |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 09:25 PM Response to Reply #82 |
134. Took the words right out of my mouth. |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:20 AM Response to Reply #82 |
141. This thread isn't about Foley |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:27 AM Response to Reply #141 |
143. Or you can read Will's first paragraph |
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cui bono (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
83. Who are you to decide how someone should live their private life? |
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Tigress DEM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 01:49 PM Response to Original message |
84. We here at DU would prefer there be NO closet to be "outed" from.. |
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DRoseDARs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
91. So gays who don't appreciate involuntary "outing" are homophobic? |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
100. So, what other private details of a person's life are fair game? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:20 PM Response to Reply #100 |
107. Ridiculous post n/t |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 09:20 AM Response to Reply #107 |
158. I notice you can't refute it, either |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:38 PM Response to Reply #100 |
108. What gives us the right to expose it? |
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cui bono (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:42 PM Response to Reply #108 |
109. So your right to free speech *about someone else's life* trumps their |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:51 PM Response to Reply #109 |
110. Yes, it certainly does. |
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cui bono (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 04:59 PM Response to Reply #110 |
112. Glad to hear it. But that is what the OP said, outing *anyone* is good. |
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Infinite Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:09 PM Response to Reply #108 |
114. Wrong... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:21 PM Response to Reply #114 |
116. To the contrary, the press has considerable latitude |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 09:20 AM Response to Reply #108 |
157. You really think |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 09:39 AM Response to Reply #157 |
160. Being gay isn't "dirt". |
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happydreams (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
115. ..... |
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GreenEyedLefty (708 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
118. Well... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:04 PM Response to Reply #118 |
119. How did you feel about outing George Allen as a Jew? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:04 PM Response to Original message |
120. What A Bunch Of Malarky. |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:17 AM Response to Reply #120 |
140. You don't have a clue what you're talking about |
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JackDragna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 06:09 PM Response to Original message |
121. It's not a matter of what we'd like society to be.. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:47 PM Response to Reply #121 |
129. and what if that person just happens to be a public homophobe |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:55 PM Response to Reply #121 |
131. If you treat it with a double standard it will never be equal. |
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krkaufman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
124. Nonsense. "Outing" someone is a violation of their privacy. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 07:54 PM Response to Reply #124 |
130. Nonsense. Heterosexuality is "outed" with great frequency. |
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jsamuel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 11:57 PM Response to Reply #130 |
137. great frequency does not mean that it is not private |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 07:55 AM Response to Reply #137 |
151. Public figures do not enjoy the same level of privacy. |
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jsamuel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 11:28 AM Response to Reply #151 |
162. Doing that to our public figures still creates the same fear in people who |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 11:41 AM Response to Reply #162 |
163. There's a simple way to handle that fear and eliminate it. |
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krkaufman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 01:55 PM Response to Reply #130 |
165. Two wrongs doesn't make a right. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 06:35 PM Response to Reply #165 |
174. Aer you suggesting heterosexuality shuold not be discussed |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 11:45 PM Response to Original message |
135. I wish all gays would come out of the closet |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-17-06 11:49 PM Response to Reply #135 |
136. If all did, "outing" wouldn't be an issue and thus, |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:16 AM Response to Original message |
139. I hate to point this out but |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:26 AM Response to Reply #139 |
142. We all agree that "outing" shouldn't have to occur in a perfect world |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:37 AM Response to Reply #142 |
144. I understand the double standard |
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Neshanic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 01:22 AM Response to Reply #139 |
147. Our little gay paradise. |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:28 AM Response to Reply #147 |
154. Interesting dilemma. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 07:02 AM Response to Original message |
149. I oppose outing. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 07:50 AM Response to Reply #149 |
150. Being gay isn't "their sex life". |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:10 AM Response to Reply #150 |
152. Sure it is. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:12 AM Response to Reply #152 |
153. Nope, and I can prove it. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 06:31 AM Response to Reply #153 |
168. Your sexual activity doesn't matter |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 07:33 AM Response to Reply #168 |
169. I see you are evading the question. You said sexual orientation is sex |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 09:03 AM Response to Reply #169 |
171. How does an argument about your sex life |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 06:29 PM Response to Reply #171 |
172. Because it's not about my sex life. |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 08:38 AM Response to Reply #152 |
155. A person doesn't have to even have a sex life |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 06:27 AM Response to Reply #155 |
167. You mean |
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robcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
159. This is a cowardly way to discuss the subject... |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-18-06 12:51 PM Response to Original message |
164. This is why there are gay "pride" parades every June. |
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CGrantt57 (245 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-19-06 09:21 AM Response to Original message |
170. Basis premise error... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-20-06 06:30 PM Response to Reply #170 |
173. If it were just "the privacy of your own bedroom" you'd have a point. |
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