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11 Bravo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 11:29 AM
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Holy Shit! With her bare hands!
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Rainscents Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 11:34 AM
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1. Scary indeed.
:scared: :scared: :scared:
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MadHound Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 11:40 AM
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2. OK, that's got me crossing my legs right now
I'm glad that he was successfully re-attached, and that he's not going to try and patch things up with his wife.

Just damn:wow:
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:16 PM
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7. Sad thing is, he probably will take her back....
...once the stitches are out.
It's easy to believe somebody you're married to when they say they're sorry.
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MadHound Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:21 PM
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8. *Sigh*, yeah, you're probably right
I just hope that the guy doesn't take her back before he's absolutely sure that she is getting treated for her bi-polar disorder, which seems to have played a huge role in this case. Oh, that and get an iron cup before she walks back in the door.
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Clark2008 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:31 PM
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12. Um... if he's a cheater, what makes you think SHE wants
Edited on Fri May-19-06 12:33 PM by Clark2008
HIM back?


As a wife who was cheated on, let me tell you, the pain of having your balls ripped off MAY compare to the heartache of both being lied to and losing trust in the person you vowed to spend your life with, faithfully. But I don't know.

Why do people attribute more concern toward the physical pain than the mental pain (and, no, I'm not justifying her alleged attack. I'm just wondering why having his balls ripped off is worse than what he allegedly did. It's all very painful).
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:39 PM
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yella_dawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:50 PM
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20. During twenty one years of marriage
my ex-wife confessed to literally dozens of affairs, both "one night stands" and long term affairs. I raised two children that she admitted were not "mine" biologically. Would you defend me had I violently attacked her and ripped away parts of her body?

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MadHound Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:51 PM
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21. Well, first off
It is his mentally ill wife who is claiming that he is cheating, the man in question says that he's not, that he's in bed at eight pm every night. Having lived with and grown up with an untreated bi-polar father, I'm fully aware of how easily a delusion becomes implanted and fixated on in a bi-polar person. I'm putting much more crediblity with the husband because of this.

But quite frankly, even if the guy was going out and cheating on her night after night, that is no excuse to try and kill the guy, and yes, before you roll your eyes and protest, any serious injury to the male genitalia can and has caused death, simply due to the fact that there are so many blood vessels down there. In fact, if you will read to the bottom of the article, you will see that the police were initially charging the woman with attempted murder for this very reason, but later modified their charges pending a psych eval.

And yes, I've been on the wrong end of an unfaithful relationship, and yes, it hurts, and it took me years to get over the pain. However that is absolutely no excuse to attack somebody with that sort of deadly fury. Sure, scream, cry, throw things, I'll even allow you the singular slap(or something comparable), but to attack with such deadly force is completely over the top.

And as a man who has been cheated on, let me tell you, I'd rather deal with the pain of a disloyal spouse than to have my genatalia ripped off. Having had the experience of getting knocked around down there a few times myself I can just imagine what sort of pain this man experienced, and will continue to experience throughout his recovery. And he may never recover fully ever, how would you like your sex life diminished or gone permanently:shrug: One can get over mental anguish, he may never get over this physical anguish.
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Teaser Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:54 PM
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23. We know she committed assault.
What do we know he did?
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 03:20 PM
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24. He says he wasn't cheating.
But that may have been after they hooked his nuts back up, and we all KNOW what kind of liars we men are....

It's tough having to deal with "the Other Woman"...

I know.
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LostInAnomie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 11:43 AM
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3. Damn!
Maybe you should change the title of this thread to "Holy Shit! With her BEAR hands!"
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XboxWarrior Donating Member (369 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:36 PM
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15. Mrs Bobbitt...
step asside!

"who we are only identifying by his first name, Howard"

and a picture for inquiring minds......
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 11:45 AM
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4. Get a grip lady
:yoiks::hide:
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Bozita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 11:46 AM
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5. painful reading that article
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 11:48 AM
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Clark2008 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:34 PM
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14. Why? She already had her heart ripped out.
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mmonk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:21 PM
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9. Sick.
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bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:28 PM
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10. after reading the article it sounds like they have had problems
for some time and that she may be mentally ill... I feel bad for him and I think she needs a nice long stay in a pyschiatric hospital.

What I wonder about is the fact that when you have a spouse who is teetering on the edge of reason...why not get them help sooner?
but then I know the answer...my old college friend was married to the nicest guy but she has grown progressively more mentally ill as they have been married and he does nothing because she gets even angrier with him if he tells her that "we need help"....
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Clark2008 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:28 PM
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11. I think nearly every married woman on DU
is probably sending this story to her husband about now. LOL. I know I did. :evilgrin:
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bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:37 PM
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16. and my husband thinks I am mean when I won't give him ideas
for dinner.....

:eyes:

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TexasLawyer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:33 PM
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13. And it all happened in "Nicetown"!
You can't make stuff like that up.
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meow2u3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:39 PM
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17. She won the "bronze" on KO's Worst Person in the World
a couple of nights ago.
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IChing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:42 PM
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19. I wish it had been Laura instead of Monica
and George instead of Howard
but then again he could have been Bill.
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lonestarnot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-19-06 12:53 PM
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22. wooowee! Dat was one mad ass woman!
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