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Edited on Sun Jun-12-05 02:23 PM by Eloriel
And SemiCharmed explained it fairly well in just one sentence:
Well, it turns out that's the case with race That people unconsciously succomb to the stereotypes even if they believe they are above them. I wouldnt be surprised if it was true for sex.
It's true, AFAIK, for all oppressed peoples. Think of the self-hating gays (the mayor of Spokane, for example, Jeff Gannon for another) who are in the GOP and who are therefore actively working against themselves; think of self-hating African Americans like Clarence Thomas; think of women who don't leave their abusers due to "learned helplessness" (they end up believing they are worthless and not able to make it on their own and will never be loved by anyone else, etc.), or spokeswomen like Anne Coulter and Phyllis Schlaffly.
It is such a blessing when you are able to identify and work through bits and pieces of whatever leftover misogyny lurks in your head, but it's damned difficult to get ahold of most of them.
I KNOW I've got lots of internalized beliefs that have held me back all these years. I can feel it. But the only one I can identify (and it hasn't yielded to conscious intellectual arguments to myself so far) is that I have trouble imagining a woman President, any woman strong enough to fulfill that role. Doesn't help that I don't know of any I consider strong enough for that -- OR is that inability a symptom of my problem? (And please, don't bring up Hillary -- she might actually be "strong" enough, but I can't stand her pandering, DLC-style politics. I can't stand her -- and I tried for the entire duration of the Clinton administration, finally giving up after 8+ years.)
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