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Edited on Tue Jul-12-05 01:38 AM by Wetzelbill
So, I've gotten a bit of racism from both sides. On my reservation, I'm light skinned and was bussed to school in the "white" town, plus my grandfather was a prominent tribal leader who left the reservation to work as an Indian Liaison in Washington. There are a select group of Indians who are racist towards myself, and people who are like me. Not even because I'm light-skinned, mainly because I'm someone who doesn't live up in the sticks and stay there. If you leave home to become better, or you live in a non-reservation town with lots of white friends, then somehow that makes you an apple. (red on the outside, white on the inside)
On the other side, in HS I was a terrible student, mainly because I had nobody who would reach me. The teachers that did reach me were very good at it. Many Indians are considered to be dumb or ignorant. Lots of kids fall through the cracks, in my small community. I was bored with school frankly because it's easy for me. My test scores were out of sight. I had the highest ASVAB score in recent memory when I was a junior, yet I had the worst GPA in my class. I had an incident in which the guidance counselor's secretary wouldn't allow me to enroll in an English class because she thought it was too hard for me. I had all the prereqs and everything. She made me go get special permission from the teacher, and he was incensed about it. It isn't a secretary's job to tell a student what they can or cannot take. But, she's a known racist - I suspect very anti-feminist too - who did her best to make me feel dumb. Take this into context. She tried to stop me from taking an English class because she thought it was too tough. Ok, fast forward about ten years. I'm a published author with a book out, a political columnist and have written essays for magazines and had a short screenplay made into a short film. Where did she get the nerve to think I couldn't handle a HS English class? Some things are so absurd you learn to laugh at them later.
Most men, even pro-choice ones, don't even understand the argument on abortion. Republicans have framed the issue and demogogued it to such a degree that nobody even knows why they are pro-choice in the first place. Most male Dems are pro-choice, pretty much just to be pro-choice. I rarely hear a good argument put forth on why they are. John Kerry said he personally was against abortion, but couldn't legislate what for him was an article of faith. That's fine, but what about the morality of the issue? I often hear men say that they believe a woman has the right to decide her own health care. Yes they do, but why? It never is articulated very well. (I'll get to why I am for a woman's right to choose in a bit)
Republicans, on the other hand demogogue the issue. They bring about emotional arguments about conception, and murder and supporting a culture of life. Abortion is bad....yadda, yadda, yadda. Well, duh, abortion isn't a good thing. Nobody is arguing that it is, you know? The debate becomes a fight about what everybody agrees on, abortion is not a good thing. Nobody wants women to have more abortions. Nobody thinks they should happen a massive scale. But, that is what the debate has become about, because Republican's want to focus on something they can use politically rather than the safety of a woman.
The real issue here, and this is why I am pro-choice, and I'm not comfortable with any of the terms used to label a person, which is another debate altogether, but the real issue is that abortions will occur no matter what. As long as humans exist, as long as people have sex, as long as men treat women as objects, then unwanted pregnancies, therefore abortions will exist. Overturning Roe v. Wade will not magically stop abortion. The true issue is that because women seek abortions, for a variety of reasons,it is our obligation to make the procedure safe. As a society it is our obligation to make it not only safe, but legal and rare, as well. Over one million women a year die worldwide because of non-medical abortions. That to me was the showstopper. I am pro-choice because I could never in good conscience allow women to suffer the barbarity of back alley abortions.
I have a friend who is a Fox news junkie, a military guy, from the same reservation I am, but he is of the much more conservative mind set, not dumb, but not much of a free thinker at all. He was spewing out all this vitriol at me about abortion, and he has done it a few times, usually he's had a few beers in him so I just let him rant on. But he's accused me of advocating murder a couple times. He's actually said to me:"People say that abortion is part of women's rights, but I don't see how that is at all." That is what I'm dealing with. But, he accused me of advocating murder this last time and I blew up. So I got harsh, I said the stat about women dying of non-medical abortions etc. And, I know his cousin recently had an abortion, and he was bitching about that. So, I said, I don't advocate death, but it sound like you do. Would you rather have had some guy use a bicycle spoke or a coat hanger on your cousin? Would you have wanted her to suffer that? I just laced into him. I got a bit ugly because these people need to get hammered on. They really do, I mean it's ridiculous the lack of respect and empathy a pregnant women gets. Many times not even a woman, we are often talking about a child who is pregnant with a child. Poor things don't know what to do, you know?
The other aspect of the true issue is how do you reduce abortions? Bush, who is the most pro-life president ever with the most pro-life Congress ever, has somehow managed to significantly increase the amount of abortions in this country. When Dems like Carter and Clinton are in office abortions go down, but when Reagan and the Bushes hold office they shoot up. The issue is socioeconomic. When times are good women don't have abortions. When they don't have a job, the prospects are bleak, they made a mistake, well then they feel like they have no choice.
I say we improve our economy. Get good jobs that pay well. Work towards evening up the gender pay gap. I think we should subsidize - or at least make more affordable - child care and health care for pregnant women and young mothers. Especially the single ones. Make sure they feel that they can have a baby and finish school too. That they can have a baby and finish college. Or enter the workforce. That their husband's or boyfriend's are able to do the same. I believe promoting abstinence is important, as is condom use. I also believe education on other means such as adoption is in order too. But this isn't a simple issue meant for simple solutions. It is about a woman's safety and a whole change in how we approach their socioeconomical role in society.
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