Good for them! :applause: Now, if only American women would do the same.
"I have never met a Japanese man who did not want me to be his mommy."
That is the reason, Takako Katayama says, that she has not married. At 37, she has carved out a comfortable life here in Tokyo, with her own apartment, a good job at a cable television network, and a network of family and friends.
She has not closed the door on marriage and children. When she meets girlfriends for dinner, they ask each other, "Where are the good guys?" But she refuses to settle for a man who works long hours, declines to share in child-rearing and sees marriage mainly as a way to acquire lifetime live-in help.
"I want a mature, equal-partner kind of marriage," she said. "Anyway, there are complete lives without a baby."
Therein lies a dismal prognosis for Japan and for many of the other prosperous nations of East Asia. In numbers that alarm their governments, Asian women are delaying marriage and postponing childbirth.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/08/27/AR2008082703194.html?hpid=topnews