Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Hi, I'm Ron, and I have a problem

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
Home » Discuss » DU Groups » Support Groups » Addiction/Recovery Group Donate to DU
 
liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-25-06 12:48 AM
Original message
Hi, I'm Ron, and I have a problem
I don't know if I'm an alcholic or not.
No DT's when I don't drink....but.

I know-same shit, different boozer.
The thing is, I know I have a problem,
just not entirely sure I'm addicted.

Let it be known now: Y'all know my occupation.
I NEVER, EVER drive my rig(or any other vehicle) after even just one.

I know the saying: Denial ain't just a river in Egypt.
I'm not denying I have a problem.
Emails and PMs are most welcome.

Ron
Refresh | 0 Recommendations Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
NMDemDist2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-25-06 08:21 AM
Response to Original message
1. you don't have to answer this, but take a look
1. Do you lose time from work due to your drinking?

2. Is drinking making your home life unhappy?

3. Do you drink because you are shy with other people?

4. Is drinking affecting your reputation?

5. Have you ever felt remorse after drinking?

6. Have you gotten into financial difficulties as a result of your drinking?

7. Do you turn to lower companions and an inferior environment when drinking?

8. Does your drinking make you careless of your family's welfare?

9. Has your ambition decreased since drinking?

10. Do you crave a drink at a definite time daily?

11. Do you want a drink the next morning?

12. Does drinking cause you to have difficulty in sleeping?

13. Has your efficiency decreased since drinking?

14. Is drinking jeopardizing your job or business?

15. Do you drink to escape from worries or troubles?

16. Do you drink alone?

17. Have you ever had a complete loss of memory as a result of your drinking?

18. Has your physician ever treated you for drinking?

19. Do you drink to build up your self-confidence?

20. Have you ever been in a hospital or institution on account of drinking?

If you have answered YES to any one of the questions, there is a definite warning that you may be an alcoholic.

If you have answered YES to any two, the chances are that you are an alcoholic.

If you have answered YES to three or more, you are definitely an alcoholic.
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 
demosincebirth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-25-06 01:31 PM
Response to Original message
2. An old friend of mine told me years ago...people who don't
have a problem with alcohol don't show up a AA meetings. As in your case, don't ask questions on the addiction/recovery group.

Try going out and having a couple of drinks and stop abruptly and go home. Do that a few times and if you can do that, "our hats are hats are off to you." Good luck.
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 
liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-28-06 02:57 AM
Response to Reply #2
3. OK here goes
Hi, I'm Ron, and I'm an alcoholic.

"Just" beer, but alcohol nevertheless.
I could go into all the excuses, but you've
heard them all. Fact is, I need a drink at a
certain time. I can do my job all day, but if I
can't have a drink by 11PM Central, I go apeshit.

No DT's, yet, thank God. Just agitation.
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 
NMDemDist2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-28-06 06:42 AM
Response to Reply #3
4. I didn't get any DTs til I was 4 days sober
you're in a really bad way to get DTs at all

call AA Ron, they'll have lots of info for you or check your health insurance and see if there is a treatment option that you can take advantage of. hang in there!

:hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 
KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-28-06 12:19 PM
Response to Reply #3
5. You have my support and friendship!
Just take it a day at a time.
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 
yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-20-06 08:35 PM
Response to Reply #3
8. Hi Ron!
Welcome to recovery! You've taken the first and most important step, which is to admit that you have a problem.

It took me forty years to admit I was an alcoholic, but I finally did, and that was the last day I took a drink, almost six years ago.
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 
vademocrat Donating Member (962 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-01-06 08:51 AM
Response to Original message
6. I've been there too - there IS life after alcohol
even "just beer" - by the way, to the body it's all just alcohol!

AA has worked for me for 17 years - hope you give it a try.

"Willingness is the only key"
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 
faithnotgreed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-14-06 02:43 PM
Response to Reply #6
7. well said vademocrat - we are glad you (and ron and everyone else)
are here with us

you are most certainly not alone
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 
Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 11:17 PM
Response to Original message
9. Welcome, Ron.
To the group, and to recovery. :hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 
mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-08-06 09:14 PM
Response to Original message
10. hey ron
Hang tough... peace to you and yours.
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 
jschurchin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-10-06 10:55 AM
Response to Original message
11. Hi Ron.
Glad to see you here.
Find a god of YOUR understanding, talk to him and ask for his help and guidance.
Only you know if you have a problem, if you feel you do, we are here.

Be safe in that rig my friend.

Peace,

John
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Tue Apr 30th 2024, 07:38 PM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » DU Groups » Support Groups » Addiction/Recovery Group Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC