Haven't Posted Here In A While

[Dinger]

Just feelin' kind of worn out, down, etc. I live in northern Wisconsin, and my sisters & brother live inn the southern part of the state, and my brother lives in the Denver area. Both my parents live near me, and I feel blessed to be near them in their golden years. I am feeling more than a little overwhelmed right now. My dad is having some health issues (nothing serious, as far as I know.) I'm taking him for a doctor appointment next month. My stepfather is having a biopsy, and also might have a stent put in. Mom is doing o.k. I love them all, but it also happens to be the end of the school year (I am a teacher) and it feels like things are piking up. Oh, I forgot to mention that my son is getting married in late July (That's a good thing. My future daughter-in-law is simply wonderful, and we love her so much. I am starting to wonder how one knows when or if their parent(s) need assistance, either at-home, or maybe some other placement. I know this happens every day all over the world. I know I am a strong person, but it's gotten to the point where I'm not sure I can handle this. Also, my husband is having rotator cuff surgery next month, and our income will be cut in half for 2-3 months (right before our son's wedding, not good timing), but he needs it, so that's a good thing. It also means more responsibilities for me.
Sorry to be such a whiner, but I would greatly appreciate any prayers you have to offer.

Thank you in advance,


Dinger

[Critters2]

1. You're in my prayers, Dinger.

Dealing with aging parents is tricky. My mom died at 73 three years ago, of a brain tumor. It came on pretty quickly, and her illness only lasted 6 months. Now that she's gone, I'm constantly reminded that my dad is living alone (also in Wisconsin, btw), and that sooner or later decisions will need to be made about his care. Happily, he's healthy now. But the day will come.

My advice is to be in touch with your area agency on aging (not sure what they're called in WI), to find out what resources are in your area, and to get some help in knowing when to make the hard decisions. I'm hoping RevCheesehead will see this thread, because she's in ministry in WI, so probably knows more.

As to whether you're a strong enough person, you'll only find out what you can do when the events arise, I'm afraid. That's why it's a good idea to start learning about resources and marshalling your forces now.

You have a lot on your plate, so look for any help that might be available.

And enjoy that wedding, and your new daughter-in-law.

I'll keep you in prayer!

Critters

[Dinger]

2. Much, Much Appreciated. Thank You

I mean it. I can't sleep right now, so I'm posting here. Again, thank you so much.

My condolences to you my friend. My prayers and my heart go out to you too.

[RevCheesehead]

3. Ding!

Hey, sweetie - believe me, I can relate to much of the stress you are going through.

Just remember that even though the wedding is a really GOOD thing, it is still stressful. That's because it's a major transition in your family, and your life will change because of it.

You are most def in my prayers, hon. :hug:

[Kajsa]

4. Dinger, you are going through so much right now.

Take good care of yourself.

Don't forget to get enough rest
and healthy food. it really makes
a difference.

You are in my prayers and good thoughts.

Congratulations on your son's ( upcoming) marriage to a wonderful lady.

:)

:hug: