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My husband and I went through precana with a deacon as well. It was a series of four or five sessions (if memory serves) and they were quite helpful. (Some people, I think, may not take them very seriously, but if you do, I think you will gain better insight into both yourself and your fiance.) Mainly our sessions focused on topics like sex, kids, and money, and the deacon and his wife shared their experiences in the subject area, then we had some conversation. Then my husband and I were given an exercise or questionnaire to fill out separately and then discuss with each other. We learned nothing really new (we were both in our late 20s at the time, so we weren't exactly kids heading blind into marriage), but I think we both found the process helpful. If anything, it enhances your communication skills as a couple, and brings out those areas where you may have disagreements on, and offers a safe forum to discuss those differences.
Best wishes to you on your marriage!
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