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Ok, here's the deal. My little brother (18) has turned out to be hugely racist - we're talking two steps shy of seeking out a neo-Nazi group. I'm only recently learning this, because he's pretty quiet about it for the most part, but it all came out when I started trying to talk to him about political stuff. Apparently according to him, everything wrong with America is the fault of affirmative action and minorities. :puke: Of course, he's "earned" his place in life "through hard work."
I tried to talk to him a little about institutionalized racism, but since he (astonishingly) actually holds the belief that on average, white people are smarter/harder-working/whatever than anyone else, the things I point out to him as examples just reinforce his screwed-up beliefs. Like the fact that at my university on any given day at lunchtime, 90% of the people buying lunch are white, and 100% of the people making, serving, and ringing up those lunches are black...he just takes this as evidence that most black people are lazy.
SO...I'm going to attempt the incredibly huge task of showing him how WRONG that is. I'm not sure how much of it he will believe, or how much of what he believes will sink in, but I have to try. But being a white girl who has a long way to go in her own understanding of just how ingrained racism can be, I'd appreciate any help you can give.
I'm planning to start out with a simple list of things, like, "being white, you can do the following things":
1. Open a history book and find people of your race described on every page, without having to turn to a special section or wait for a special month. Read how people of your race "discovered" and "settled" areas already where others were already living. 2. Buy "flesh-colored" band-aids that roughly match your skin color. 3. Go to the Galleria (a nice area mall), alone, in pretty much any kind of clothing you wish, without being followed or harassed by security, and without any salespeople suggesting that you might have better luck finding clothes "in your style" at Northwest Plaza (a mall that's fallen victim to the retail version of white flight). 4. Succeed academically, at your job, or wherever without being called a credit to your race.
etc., etc.
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