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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-17-07 10:01 AM
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A tribute to my brother-in-law, Ken Ervin
This past weekend, the disabled of America lost a hero and a champion. He born with cerebral palsy, and he died this past weekend at the age of 45. He was married to my sister, who was also born with cerebral palsy, and leaves behind a great legacy and a torch for all of us to carry on from here.

This is an excerpt from the newspaper editorial column about his life. Please keep my sister and her son in your hearts right now, because they are devastated.

(from The Dominion Post, Wednesday Oct 17 2007)

One who lived what he believed

Ervin's advocacy, contributions to state's disabled won't die with him

Political, physical and all other realities were something that Ken Ervin believed you rise above.

Born with cerebral palsy 45 years ago, Ervin died quietly in his sleep last weekend. But his life and his advocacy on behalf of the more than 400,000 disabled residents of West Virginia were anything but quiet.

...

A point he never tired of making: Disability rights are civil rights, too. And he insisted that people with disabilities may have a medical condition, but it is also really a social condition. "We're not Medicaid numbers, we're human beings," he was quick to note. But words and working from within were not his only tools in promoting equal access and fair treatment.

Protests that ran the gamut from shackling himself to the White House fence and a local school's flagpole, to demanding governers and presidential candidates to attach their signatures to political promises, also figured in his advocacy as a citizen.

After spending much of his childhood in and out of state facilities, Ervin, who organized the West Virginia chapter of Americans with Disabilities for Attendant Programs Today (ADAPT WV) constantly lobbied for allowing the disabled to live in a home of their choice.

...

"It's not a matter of nursing home quality. Would you rather live in a community or a place where you lose contact with family and friends? People can go from being a productive citizen to being locked away in a nursing home," he said in October 2000.

...

Our state has Ervin to thank for many changes that no longer allow for ignoring or disregarding the disabled. Of course, he would be the first to point out that more needs to be done, but his contributions have made a real difference.

Although Ervin lived with some harsh realities, it never stopped him from fulfilling his dreams.



Rest easy, Ken. You died a conquerer.

:cry:
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-17-07 10:04 AM
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1. My condolences, oktoberain.
Peace to you and your family. :hug:
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Traveling_Home Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-17-07 10:08 AM
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2. Ken was a real hero - an ADAPT Warrior
adapt@adapt.org

Here are the final arrangements for Ken's funeral

Visitation will be on Wednesday evening at the Heavner Cutright Funeral Home
on Rte. 20 in Buckhannon from 6-8:30. Funeral services will be held at the
funeral home on Thursday at 2:00 pm Thursday with Reverend Donald Butcher
and Pastor David Jessie. A graveside service will be held immediately
following the funeral at the Sand Run Baptist Cemetery .

Vicki
----- Original Message ----- From: adaptmt@aol.com
To: adapt@adapt.org ; bob.adapt@sbcglobal.net
Sent: Monday, October 15, 2007 12:45 PM
Subject: Ken Ervin


He may not have made it to national actions, but from a short google search
it is clear that he was most proud of his affiliation with ADAPT, and he was
a constant voice in WV for the civil rights of pwd, and "nothing about us
without us." He was a regular contributor to the newsletter of the
UAP/Center of Excellence in WV, a continual presence at the Governor's
office and every other place where the rights of people with disabilities
were at stake or being discussed. Eight articles and more were found.

I recently hooked him up with the sister of a staff person at the
SSAB....she has CP, lives with her parents, and had encountered some
discrimination. He visited immediately, helped them fix the problems, and
gave the sister a glimpse of what's possible in life.

With a heavy heart at yet another loss...

Marsha

SUPPORT THE COMMUNITY CHOICE ACT - OUR HOMES NOT NURSING HOMES

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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-17-07 10:10 AM
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4. Are you a friend of Ken and Darla's?
It's wonderful to meet other people who were touched by him. He was a man who will never be forgotten.
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Traveling_Home Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-17-07 10:53 AM
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6. I'm a fellow traveler in ADAPT .......
ADAPT sent out a notice to their national mailing list noting the passing of a hero of our struggle. I was probably at some of the same actions he was at but do not think he and I ever directly crossed paths. I've posted a number of links with photos of ADAPT actions. Perhaps there is a picture?

timwheat.com
adapt.org/reports.htm
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annabanana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-17-07 10:09 AM
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3. A noble warrior, in the best sense of the word. . .
RIP
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stillcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-17-07 10:19 AM
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5. Sometimes it amazes me...
the profound impact one person's life can have on so many others...and how that one life can restore one's belief in the best traits of human-kind inherent in us all. I'm sorry for your family's loss.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-17-07 11:03 AM
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7. So sorry to hear that. He sounds like a real hero.
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DRErvin Donating Member (2 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-22-07 06:43 PM
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8. Tribute to Ken
THanks You for writing this for us.

love you darla
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Traveling_Home Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-22-07 10:15 PM
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9. Glad to see you here Darla

Ken was quite a person from what I've heard. Made a real impression on people.

Glad you joined us here!
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DRErvin Donating Member (2 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-22-07 10:25 PM
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10. Tribute to Ken
Someone asked in an earlier post if the person who wrote this knew Ken & I, yes she does it is my sister.
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marcicj Donating Member (13 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-10-10 04:39 PM
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11. My thoughts are with you
In life he touched those close to him....in death he touches us all...Marci
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