A Poll: regarding being stuck

[Ricochet21]

I am stuck because...

[Howler]

1. I am free !!!!

to feel stuck! :)

[Ricochet21]

2. Great for you girl

Howl away....

[MorningGlow]

4. LOL! Best answer!

:thumbsup:

[Ricochet21]

3. When I'm stuck, I'm just holding on

it's just that sometimes it's hard to identify

[MorningGlow]

5. I voted that I'm hanging on

because I am. Silly me, I keep waiting for a clear path to reveal itself. :eyes:

[Ricochet21]

6. When you find one

can I go too? :hi:

[MorningGlow]

7. You betcha!

And welcome! :hi:

[WhiteTara]

8. I actually stepped in that space beween

the action and the reaction and now I know how it's done. I'm free.

[Ricochet21]

9. I'm not sure what you mean

but that's great! Wahoo! congrats!

[WhiteTara]

11. philosophers are always talking about that

brief instant between the action and the reaction...i.e., my beloved says something that triggers me. Between the words, the desire to retaliate with more words and the actual reaction, is that space to make new choices. I'm in that groove and to me it is a very big Woohoo!

Thanks for the congrats! My ego loves that stroke!

[southerncrone]

10. I'm holding on until I can retire in May, then

I'm freeeee to do what I choose. :)

[Oak2004]

12. I'm not stuck

though I did have a confrontation a few days ago with someone who wanted me to be stuck, which nearly turned violent.

[Ricochet21]

13. I really should have rephrased this poll

I meant to say, "Of those of you that claim to be "stuck", what is the reason." Oh, well, it's still been an interesting response.

[Myrina]

14. Becoming unstuck ...

... this is how I can best explain what it's been like, trying to rid myself of all my old baggage (Spiderman vs. 'the bad suit').

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2ADn71ao9w

[Ricochet21]

15. What I sensed is

with the TON of Cancer you have in your chart is that you "want to want to let go" vs "letting go"

I got that from a Ram Dass book somewhere. There's a big difference.

Lunar people (those strong with Cancer) actually believe they're gonna die if they let go. It feels real, but it isn't true.

[Myrina]

16. very accurate!

... its always been easier/"safer" for me to hang onto the self-preserving behaviors that I learned as a child (become 'invisible', detach, have a very small circle of trusted friends, don't make waves) than it was to realize that there is no safety in that kind of safety and that only by letting myself be terrified and step out of the shadows, could I become free.

Still working on it, to this very moment. Sometimes I still want to hide, or self-sabotage, or stack the bricks back up so everyone goes away, but I am trying mightily to call it out when I see it. A work in progress.


:hug:

[Dulcinea]

17. Holding on.

I hope to start graduate school in 2011. I'm stuck till then.