Can someone help me with this New Moon

[Sweet Freedom]

and tell me how/what/where it affects me? Sorry, I never know how to figure this out!

Thanks! :hi:

Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Capricorn 12°27'38 end of house 5 direct
Moon Cancer 4°15'53 in house 11 direct
Mercury Capricorn 27°42'07 in house 6 direct
Venus Aquarius 27°56'58 in house 7 direct
Mars Scorpio 2°19'43 in house 4 direct
Jupiter Libra 5°34'19 in house 3 direct
Saturn Aries 18°50'27 in house 9 direct
Uranus Libra 3°59'43 in house 3 stationary (R)
Neptune Scorpio 27°50'13 in house 4 direct
Pluto Virgo 25°05'58 in house 2 retrograde
True Node Aries 4°08'33 in house 9 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Leo 13°38'26
2nd House Virgo 4°23'14
3rd House Libra 0°07'14
Imum Coeli Scorpio 2°18'47
5th House Sagittarius 8°59'40
6th House Capricorn 13°57'11
Descendant Aquarius 13°38'26
8th House Pisces 4°23'14
9th House Aries 0°07'14
Medium Coeli Taurus 2°18'47
11th House Gemini 8°59'40
12th House Cancer 13°57'11


FYI: According to http://www.marymaclean.com/--

This New Moon is at 26 degrees of Aquarius. It is conjunct the Sun, Chiron, and Neptune...This NM sends you in a new direction but not without fear. (Neptune) In what house does this land for you? This will tell you where this new beginning will take place.

Mars in Leo at 4 degrees is making a quincunx aspect to Pluto and a similar quincunx aspect to the Venus Jupiter conjunction in Pisces. They call this The Finger of God aspect. Two quincunxes and an opposition are the makings of The Finger of God aspect. The opposition is Mars opposing Mercury. What does this aspect mean? This aspect gives energy and originality in solving difficult situations. The Finger of God aspect points to Mars in Leo. Leo is the house that will experience an influx of energy and originality. Mars also makes a sextile to Saturn supplying you with some structural opportunities. On the 16th and 17th of February there will be a wonderful Venus conjunct Jupiter. Depending on where it is located in your chart will bring concentrated good news. This New Moon is decisional as it is leading to March 10th when Mars will go direct and certain situations will become solidified. Mars will be a 0 degrees for 3 weeks which will slow things down considerably.

[Sweet Freedom]

1. Am I looking for

Aquarius or Neptune in my chart? If it's Aquarius, does this affect my 7th house of partnerships/marriage? If Neptune, my 4th house of home?

And then how does Leo in Mars fit in? :crazy: :)

[stellanoir]

2. The New Moon is conjunct transiting Neptune and transiting Chiron in your 7th house .

Transiting Mars is in your 12th house.

It's an opportunity to heal old patterns (karmic & current) in relationship. If there is anyone with whom you'd like to make peace, it's a great time for doing so.

On edit- The New Moon is on your natal Venus and will square your natal Neptune.

If you choose to do any body work or visualizations around your heart chakra you may be amazed by the healing energies available to you at this time.

What a fantastic cosmic Valentine's gift for you.

[OneGrassRoot]

3. stellanoir, YOU are a fantastic cosmic gift....

:)

:hi:

:hug: :hug: :hug:

[stellanoir]

5. as are you

& thanks

:hi: & :hug: & :hug: & :hug:

right backatchya

[Sweet Freedom]

4. Thank you for clarifying Stellanoir.

Maybe someday I'll look at it as a gift, but I think I'm going to be telling my Scorpio friend goodbye and I don't know if he's going to fight for another chance, let me go, or never speak to me again, so I'm terribly brokenhearted. I like him so much...it's like I'm going to lose something I can never replace. And the worst part is, I could lose a friend, lover and my favorite coworker all at the same time. :(

[stellanoir]

6. welp

I sorta get the impression that he might be unclear about the degree of your dissatisfaction. If there could be any combo of astro forces to heal a dynamic this New Moon in your 7th would be it. Do be mindful that we are at the dark of the Moon now so it's easy to look at things in terms of a worse case scenario. Maybe wait until Saturday night and see if you feel differently.

At the very least, this New Moon on your Venus will help to make it easier to know and speak from your heart.

The urge to merge and the urge to separate are within each and every one of us. With three planets on the Aries/Libra polarity it's especially strong in you.
It's a matter of finding the appropriate rhythm.

With an uber sensitive Cancer Moon you take in a whole lot and then your Mars in Scorpio can just blow like a pressure cooker.

Use your Mercury in Capricorn wisely and keep asking for the "right words, right words, right words." Mercury in Cap can be a bit glib so remember, it's largely all in the delivery.

This trick might help. . . It's from a lengthy piece I crafted about four years ago that was entitled "19 Tricks or Weapons of Mass Creation for Global Amelioration"

"17. This one is from a
lady visionary activist who is most inspiring.
(http://www.visionaryactivism.com)
Whenever a dynamic with another breaks down and reaches an impasse, sit
down and write them a letter, and don't hold back anything you feel.
Then read the letter aloud, then burn it. As ever, be cautious with
fire. I employ the use of pliers and a cast iron skillet when I do
this. Then release the ashes into moving water. It's nice to do in
nature, but a sink or toilet will do just as well. This is how one
sends another a spiritual fax. It is great magic as it moves the
restrictions in the dynamic through all of the four elements and
purifies the emotions and sends a great healing to both you and the
higher self of the person with whom one is hassled. It works."

[Sweet Freedom]

7. Words are torturing me.

I thought I had everything figured out...I've known exactly what I was going to say for quite a while, and I was going to get it all out there and heal my wounds. But now, I'm thinking, forget it. Just get to the end point which is he doesn't want (or isn't ready for, or most likely is afraid to be in) a relationship and just say goodbye. The end.

If I can find the strength, I'll try the spiritual fax.

Thank you :hug:

[I Have A Dream]

9. I hope that you're able to find peace soon, Sweet Freedom.

In honor of your name, I hope that you're able to be free of this torment very soon, whether it's with or without him. Peace be with you so that joy can return to your life. :hug:

[Sweet Freedom]

16. Thank you

I'm just so angry. I waited 4 years to be with someone. And the universe sends me a friend I already loved and some crappy lesson I've already learned. I wish it had been anyone else but him. My first dive back into the dating pool, where I finally decided to trust someone and now I'm back to just wanting to be alone. And I don't even know what the hell went wrong with us.

I thought this was to be a passionate love affair to remember. It sounds like it should have been. Two of the most likable coworkers --the computer geek and the computer goddess-- unknowingly pine for each other for years and finally after escaping abusive marriages find one another and...oh, sorry, he's busy.

I was so ready to finally surrender. :(

[I Have A Dream]

17. You so deserve happiness, Sweet Freedom.

I remember all of the pain associated with your divorce; how you had to fight tooth and nail to be free from those abusive bonds.

I wish that I could fast forward time to a place where you could look back and see what this was really all about. To a time when you're happy. I hope that that time comes very quickly and that you end up with a person who is very much "into you" -- heart, mind, body and soul. Until that time, I ask that you be surrounded by love to buffer the pain that you're feeling.

:loveya:

[Sweet Freedom]

18. Thank you, sweetie. /nt

[OneGrassRoot]

10. I'm sorry you're in such pain....

I truly am. :(

I hope you find the strength and the peace you seek.

:hug: :hug: :hug:

[Sweet Freedom]

15. Thank you. /nt

[stellanoir]

11. You are very welcome. If your going to do the spiritual fax then

try and do it as close to the New Moon as possible (11:51 pm EST on Saturday.)

Also be mindful of the fact that Mars is retrograde so actions may require some recalibration and refinement and may not be absolute or resolve matters.

As for strength, you're stronger than you know, if anything you'll feel liberated and clearer by doing the fax, having transformed what you've been mulling over for so long.

There are so many commitment phobes out there. Yikes.

That's not to say he truly qulaifies as one.

If you want me to look at the synastry and composite chart PM me with the data.

[Sweet Freedom]

14. Thank you, but I don't know his birth time.

I can send you what I know, but I don't know how the missing info affects the chart.

[stellanoir]

20. Lacking a birth time creates an approximate 12 degree variable in terms of

Lunar placement and a 360 degree variation in the rising sign and house cusps.

Very simply, it still will reveal the "what" (planetary sign placements), and the "how" (the pattern behaviors as indicated by the aspects), but not the "where" (arenas of life as predicated by sign rulership of the houses for manifestation of phenomena).

Still, one can glean a fair amount of info especially with the synastry in relation to your chart.

So it's worth a look.

[Sweet Freedom]

25. I sent you a pm. /nt

[I Have A Dream]

8. Mercury in Capricorn can be a bit glib. Who'd a thunk it? nt

[stellanoir]

12. With your stellar stellium in Cap that glibness is mollified considerably silly :)

Mercury in Cap alone can have a very dry sense of humor as well.

Your's is certainly softened by Juno & the Sun and the other planets compel you to maintain a certain civility which belies the tendency of Mercury in Cap to be too much of a wiseacre.

:hug:

[I Have A Dream]

13. Edited: Not really the right thread for levity.

:hug:

:loveya:

[stellanoir]

19. Oh Dream

you are just so-o-o. . .so-o-o. . . so-o-o. . . terribly, though terrifically. . . *civil*.

Yeah, not to minimize in any way shape or form the sometimes soul rending angst of trials and tribulations of the heart, especially approching this particular somewhat contrived holiday.

Still, the wiseacre in me can't resist injecting levity wherever possible. I figure it's okay as long as it's not bereft of compassion that is.

:loveya:

[I Have A Dream]

21. Oh stella

Your response wasn't at all inappropriate. Mine felt as though it was after I realized what thread it was in. (I threadjacked a serious, sensitive thread where someone was in pain. I can threadjack with the best of them -- as you know, my friend, but I decided this one should be completely honored.) I wasn't at all rebuking you but rather myself.

:hug:

[ricochetastroman]

22. the MAIN thing about the New Moon

is that it is TRIGGERING transiting Neptune/Chiron/Jupiter

good stuff

look for REALIZATIONS

[ricochetastroman]

23. Aquarius-Leo

rise up, be proud of yourself :hi:

[Sweet Freedom]

24. I'll try

but I'm so confused. My head says, he keeps going away so forget him, he doesn't care...let him go and move on. My heart says he keeps coming back and deep down, he's just scared and needs to be pushed off the love ledge. And my heart wants him back, but maybe my heart is naive. :cry: