Ok...let me preface this by saying that I've always had cats, my whole life, and know next to nothing about owning a dog. My hubby and I have 2 cats, Abigail is the calico, she's 9, and Roger is the black and white kitty, he's 3 (his mom was a Maine Coon). I don't think Abby has ever completely forgiven us for bringing Roger into the family, though she tolerates him. So 2 weeks ago we decided to adopt a dog from the local shelter. He was an animal control pickup and was very shy at the shelter. They think he is about 3 years old, he's a black lab mix, but small, weighs only 35 lbs. They warned us that he probably wasn't trained and might not know how to play...so we brought him home and named him Rigby (we're huge Beatles fans :)) and have been trying to integrate him into the house. As he's relaxed around us, we've found out that he knows how to sit and give paw, and sometimes stays. He seems to like to play, though he won't drop a ball when he brings it back to you most of the time. He doesn't seem to pay much attention to commands when he's distracted though, whether its by Roger or by another dog on a walk or whatever.
So, we've been keeping the dog on the first floor of the house, he sleeps in his crate at night (though we'd eventually like to have him sleeping upstairs and not having to be in the crate at night) and most of the time that we are home he is out of the crate, but on his leash (though we aren't always holding on to it) because he gets really excited when Roger creeps downstairs to check things out. Poor Abigail hasn't left the upstairs bedroom since we got the dog and we've taken to feeding both cats upstairs. Roger has gotten braver and braver and comes downstairs more often, staying longer and getting closer, but there is always a point where the eye contact or proximity seems to be too much for Rigby and he lunges for the cat, making all sorts of noise on the wood floor and generally scaring the crap out of the cat, who runs upstairs.
We're afraid to just let the dog go, because we don't want him to hurt the cat in any way, and I just worry that we'll somehow traumatize the cat(s) if we let him run free before he calms down more, especially Abigail (if she comes out from under the bed).
On top of that, the dog seems to be getting more and more spazzy when we are outside the house. He gets all riled up by other dogs when we are walking him, and last night my neighbor walked up the driveway to talk to me and the entire few minutes we were talking, Rigby was barking pretty ferociously at him. We're signed up for a 6 week obedience type class at the shelter we got him from, which starts tomorrow, and I think that will help a lot. But I'm just looking for some advice on all of this, if anyone has any to offer...
TIA! :hi: