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Edited on Sun Oct-23-05 12:39 AM by friesianrider
It's 1:20 am here on the east coast and she's been doing this since early this morning. I left around 1 pm for a horse show and thought she was doing ok, but when I got back around midnight she seemed the same or even a little worse. She just walks through the house like she is restless and she'll start wailing every 10 minutes or so. She's still jumping into the bathtub and up onto the sofas, but doesn't want to be pet. I saw she used her litterbox so she is urinating ok, but I don't know about the other way. I am pretty close with our vet who said several months ago that when it was Buffy's "time" she would come to the house to put her to sleep. Thing is I don't have a way to contact my specific vet (the vet office has about 5 so I don't know who is on-call). I thought I could wait to call until Monday morning but I think I'll have to call first thing tomorrow morning.
She is 20 years old and has had some mild problems over the years with diabetes and her kidneys, but I'm worried that she's finally starting to descend on the downward slope. Although she is still maneuvering pretty well it is obvious she is trying to tell me something and that she is at least uncomfortable or possibly in pain. She is acting very abnormal and is wandering around the house wailing every so often for a few seconds, then wandering some more and repeating this.
God, I hate having to make the decision of "when" to do something like this. You don't want to wait until it gets to the point that they are really suffering (or that she dies in a lot of pain and possibly alone while I am sleeping or whatever), but of course you also do not want to feel like they had more time left and you cut their life short. I hate not knowing if she wants to go or not. For awhile though, I have gotten the sense from her that she is just "tired" of everything - if you know what I mean.
I just remember my first horse Tammi, who had who had a tumor in her trachea. We had it removed, but learned it would grow back. I left her on a Wednesday for a 3-day trip and when I came home she was EXTREMELY bad. Her airway was so blocked we had to stop her every two steps out of the barn to let her calm down and catch her breath. I felt awful for not relieving her suffering before it got to that awful point.
Is it wrong to help her pass on, even if she isn't to the point yet where she is really, really bad? I keep feeling like if I don't wait until that time comes that I am essentially killing her and not doing it out of mercy for her suffering. I hate seeing anything's life end, and I hate being in the position to decide when she dies.
Ugh. Sorry for the diatribe, but if anyone has some helpful words of wisdom I could really use them now. I have a hard decision to make soon. :cry:
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