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groovedaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-19-10 12:02 PM
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Is Marriage Good for Your Health?
In 1858, a British epidemiologist named William Farr set out to study what he called the “conjugal condition” of the people of France. He divided the adult population into three distinct categories: the “married,” consisting of husbands and wives; the “celibate,” defined as the bachelors and spinsters who had never married; and finally the “widowed,” those who had experienced the death of a spouse. Using birth, death and marriage records, Farr analyzed the relative mortality rates of the three groups at various ages. The work, a groundbreaking study that helped establish the field of medical statistics, showed that the unmarried died from disease “in undue proportion” to their married counterparts. And the widowed, Farr found, fared worst of all.

Farr’s was among the first scholarly works to suggest that there is a health advantage to marriage and to identify marital loss as a significant risk factor for poor health. Married people, the data seemed to show, lived longer, healthier lives. “Marriage is a healthy estate,” Farr concluded. “The single individual is more likely to be wrecked on his voyage than the lives joined together in matrimony.”

While Farr’s own study is no longer relevant to the social realities of today’s world — his three categories exclude couples living together, gay couples and the divorced, for instance — his overarching finding about the health benefits of marriage seems to have stood the test of time. Critics, of course, have rightly cautioned about the risk of conflating correlation with causation. (Better health among the married sometimes simply reflects the fact that healthy people are more likely to get married in the first place.) But in the 150 years since Farr’s work, scientists have continued to document the “marriage advantage”: the fact that married people, on average, appear to be healthier and live longer than unmarried people.

Contemporary studies, for instance, have shown that married people are less likely to get pneumonia, have surgery, develop cancer or have heart attacks. A group of Swedish researchers has found that being married or cohabiting at midlife is associated with a lower risk for dementia. A study of two dozen causes of death in the Netherlands found that in virtually every category, ranging from violent deaths like homicide and car accidents to certain forms of cancer, the unmarried were at far higher risk than the married. For many years, studies like these have influenced both politics and policy, fueling national marriage-promotion efforts, like the Healthy Marriage Initiative of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. From 2006 to 2010, the program received $150 million annually to spend on projects like “divorce reduction” efforts and often cited the health benefits of marrying and staying married.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/04/18/magazine/18marriage-t.html?th&emc=th
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virgogal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-19-10 12:09 PM
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1. Hmmm, So I could have stayed in a miserable marriage and gained a few
miserable years.

No thanks.
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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-19-10 12:15 PM
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4. Have read several studies that married men were healthier than single men
but single women were healthier than married.
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virgogal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-19-10 12:19 PM
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6. You know,I truly believe that. Women do quite well by themselves.
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-19-10 02:03 PM
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7. I'd be dead if I'd stayed in my marriage
Living with an alcoholic correlates with higher morbidity and mortality for the sober partner, and I started out ill.

My health improved greatly within weeks after I left.
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virgogal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-19-10 06:20 PM
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8. Alcoholism affects far more people than the alcoholic,as you well know. My mother suffered
from alcoholism and she didn't drink.

It was awful to watch but she was of a generation that believed it was "her cross to bear".

In my own situation it was mental abuse-----utter,complete control of everything. I lasted 27 years and never looked back after I finally left.

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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-19-10 12:14 PM
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2. Just read about loneliness link to high blood pressure
http://www-news.uchicago.edu/releases/06/060328.loneliness.shtml

Hmmm, it was during a divorce that mine skyrocketed, and hasn't been controllable since, despite years of walking 25-50 miles a week, eating very sensibly, learning many new and wonderful life skills.
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Speck Tater Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-19-10 12:18 PM
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5. It was only AFTER I got divorced that my blood pressure went back to normal.
I am MUCH happier being single and celibate than I was being married to an abusive wife.
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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-20-10 01:23 PM
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10. One can be loney while married if spouse was abusive. Married doesn't always mean not lonely.
One could imagine being married to an abusive mate might be one of the loneliest situations to be in.

I am glad you got out and got healthier as a result :hug:
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Speck Tater Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-21-10 12:12 PM
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11. I am often alone, but NEVER lonely. I enjoy solitude. nt
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no_hypocrisy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-19-10 12:15 PM
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3. I'd say it's cohabitation and sharing germs and bacteria, thus elevating your resistance
Edited on Mon Apr-19-10 12:17 PM by no_hypocrisy
rather than marriage. You could reside with someone without "the benefit of marriage" and have the same results. Same thing for blood pressure and cognition enhancement. Just having someone to talk to and listen to you keeps you engaged and your mind active.
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EvolveOrConvolve Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-19-10 07:10 PM
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9. Don't let the family values cult see this
If you do, they'll make the leap from "married = healthy" to "married = a cure for cancer". Cuz' they're fucking idiots.
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