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SHRED Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 08:01 AM
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Circumcision
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A co-worker's wife had a baby boy recently.
Two other co-workers were talking about it and I overheard one say, "John (Dad) saw the circumcision" and the co-worker discussing it went into detail and laughed.
Like it was a big joke.

It was all I could do to stay out of it. I did say, "Why did he have that unnecessary operation performed?" and "They don't put babies under general anesthesia"...but they ignored me like I was speaking a foreign language.

What a cruel "tradition" and if the decision is based on religious grounds then I would want NO part of a God that approved of this torture.

GRRR....



:grr:
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jhain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 08:02 AM
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1. in agreement
it is tortuous
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 08:03 AM
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2. You did the right thing
Edited on Thu Aug-07-08 08:54 AM by Richardo
You stayed out of it. :thumbsup:


Sort of. :eyes:



On edit: Maybe they ignored you because they couldn't believe that you'd insert yourself into a conversation that was none of your business.
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TechBear_Seattle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 08:05 AM
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3. Ritual genital mutilation
In the United States, they don't even bother with the ritual part any more; it is done solely because it is a meaningless tradition despite being expressly forbidden by the religion that most Americans profess.
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sharp_stick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 08:06 AM
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4. Here we go
:popcorn:
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SHRED Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 08:08 AM
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5. What's the controversy?
Why not let the male child decide for himself when he gets older?
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Orrex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 09:17 AM
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11. Sure
And let him decide whether to get vaccinated when he's older, too.

It's absolutely horrible that parents should presume to make medical decisions for their newborn children.
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TechBear_Seattle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 11:56 AM
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13. It is EXTREMELY rare for circumcision to be a matter of medical necessity
And even then, circumcision is never, EVER a matter of community health. You will have to do a lot better in constructing a straw man comparison with vaccinations.

Or do you have no problem with parents to demand that their daughters undergo the equivalent surgery of removal of the clitoral hood, which is almost universally decried as barbaric and unecessary?
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Orrex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 01:42 PM
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14. The two procedures are not equivalent
And you should ready Warpy's reply below. It nicely sums up the position and is basically unassailable.

But please feel free to continue to fulminate.
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TechBear_Seattle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 04:23 PM
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17. Yes, they are equivalent: clitoral hood = foreskin
It is exactly the same tissue, the only difference being female sexual development versus male sexual development. And please see my response to Warpy's reply.
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Orrex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 05:38 PM
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21. Whoops--my mistake
I thought you were referring to complete removal of the clitoris, which is often the example offered up in arguments against circumcision. But it's clear that that's not what you meant.

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bdf Donating Member (430 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 02:45 PM
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15. Depends how you define "medical necessity"
It is a necessity for the medical doctors because it a piece of purely elective surgery that they can do cheaply and charge a lot for. That's basically the only reason it is performed so frequently in the US. In countries where healthcare is state funded this operation is very rare and only performed when it is necessary actually necessary because the doctor receives no additional income for doing it.
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 08:12 AM
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6. Fasten your seat belts and put your tray in the upright and locked position.
Might want to assume crash positions as well.
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zbdent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 08:22 AM
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7. I find it interesting that people who applaud a video put out that has a
"fetus" screaming are more than happy to, without anesthesia, mutilate a sensitive part of a newborn's body ...
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Kittycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 08:24 AM
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8. Because they're ignorant of how the 'tradition' was started and so they carry it on
Also for idiotic reasons such as, to look like daddy, what will boys in the locker room say, etc. etc.
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 08:38 AM
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9. ...
:woohoo: :popcorn: :woohoo:
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Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 09:16 AM
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10. hope you brought a lot of popcorn
:popcorn:
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 10:09 AM
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12. It's a personal decision you have no say in, so butt out
If the dad in question is circumcised, it was a wise decision. Little boys want to look like Daddy.

They don't use general anesthesia, that's high risk. They do use local anesthesia, a great improvement over what they did when I was in school.

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TechBear_Seattle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 04:22 PM
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16. In infants, they use a weak topical anesthetic, that's it
My mother worked for a large medical clinic in the California Central Valley as a medical assistant. Most of that time was working with one of the two urologists the clinic had. In that capacity, she assisted at quite a number of adult circumcisions.

Adults are given full, knock-out anesthetic before the procedure. Afterwards, they are given a prescription for very high doses of ibuprofen because the pain is excruciating for several days afterwards. The pain from an erection stretching the raw flesh is considerable, and getting it wet with urine (which tends to be midly acidic) apparently creates a whole new category of pain. When it scabs over, any kind of movement makes the pain unbearable. It is typically two to three weeks before it heals over to the point where a man is able to function, in any sense of that word. This I have from my mother, who was occasionally on hand when the doctor passed the info on to patients, and she was sometimes requested to pass it on to patients herself. (You probably don't want to hear about my own experiences with a related procedure, but trust me: my mom is not exagerating.)

In contrast, infants are given little more than Bactine and get no after care at all. After assisting at her first adult circumcision, my mother has voiced STRONG opposition to my brothers' plans to have their sons circumcised, despite her having had all of her own sons circumcised because she and my father wanted us to "look like daddy."
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 04:26 PM
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18. It's a completely different operation in adults and
it's extremely dishonest to compare it with the operation in infants.

Shame.
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TechBear_Seattle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 04:53 PM
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19. Why should I believe you over the opinion of a medical professional?
Particularly, a medical assistant with experience assisting at circumcisions?
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 05:16 PM
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20. How about a surgical RN?
Here's something to read up on: the cephalocaudal development of the myelin sheath of both afferent and efferent nerves and what that means for pain transmission.

You might also check out the recovery rates for both infants and adults.

Then again, you might just want to hold onto your position through ignorance.

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SHRED Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-08-08 07:31 AM
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23. Ignorance?
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NickB79 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-11-08 12:44 AM
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28. Maybe because many millions of men have been circumsized for millenia with no ill effects?
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-07-08 05:57 PM
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22. It's less dramatic in adults.
In infants, the glans and foreskin are fused, so they have to be torn apart before the foreskin can be cut or crushed away*, leading to more pain and also a larger raw area at risk of infection.

*depending on the method of circumcision
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Fire_Medic_Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Aug-08-08 01:03 PM
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24. A few problems.
Ibuprofen is not used to treat excruciating pain. Vicodin, Percocet, Oxycodone are a few drugs of the many drugs that are. Most of the medical literature says that the procedure is usually performed under local anesthetic. Newborns don't get many erections so it seems like that wouldn't be a problem as opposed to any male past puberty.

David
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WildClarySage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-09-08 09:43 AM
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25. newborns don't get many erections? heh
wow, someone forgot to tell my sons that. My husband was soooooooo proud! rofl
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Fire_Medic_Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-09-08 02:36 PM
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27. Well you can't really blame him can you.
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chicagomd Donating Member (437 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-11-08 11:14 AM
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30. I know I am late to this party, but
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Crunchy Frog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-11-08 03:42 PM
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31. How do AAP recommendations compare with actual practice?
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sakabatou Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-09-08 02:19 PM
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26. *drinks*
I was circumcised as a kid, as well as every guy in my family since we're Jewish.
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FlaGranny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-11-08 07:30 AM
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29. Circumcision and sensitivity question.
I would be interested in hearing from any men here who were circumcised as a teen or adult how much difference circumcision made in sensitivity and sexual pleasure. My husband is very upset that he was circumcised as a baby. My brother was circumcised when he was in his early 20s from medical necessity, but I don't really feel comfortable asking him. I have 3 grandsons and one of them had to be circumcised at the age of 7 - also due to medical necessity.

And to whoever said that baby boys do not have many erections - yes indeed they do. Every diaper change and every urination brings on a firm erection.
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