This might be of interest to parents. The message: your kids suffer from homophobia, too - and need your support with that -- even if they are straight.
From Abigail Gardners blog:
http://damnstraight.oversampled.net/page/2/"I was recently asked to speak on a panel of “allies” to the LGBT community. The panel’s focus was about how straight people could support LGBT families, by hearing first-hand from heterosexual allies.
I declined. Actually, I explained why I thought I was leaning toward declining, with a suggestion for how I might still participate. Here’s what I wrote:
While an important topic, I can hardly stomach being called an ally. Like most kids of queers, I find that being grouped with allies to the very community we grew up in is patronizing and insulting. It’s not that allies aren’t important; heaven knows we need them, but this myth that straight kids of queers are “allies” is a myth that allows queer communities to minimize the impact of homophobia on our lives, and to dismiss the need for them to be accountable to serve our specific needs.
If you want me to participate, the perspective I will bring is what makes someone an ally AND how I don’t consider myself one. That could be useful to the audience since presumably they will be hearing a perspective on the topic they probably didn’t anticipate — thus effectively educating and shattering presumptions, but it might throw your focus off too much."
SNIP