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Edited on Thu Apr-23-09 08:42 AM by imdjh
If you can't think of anything to post, then maybe that's as it should be. What do straight people do with this board? Do they post stuff about their families?
Something I noticed working in a large corporate environment is that a lot of gay people in particular and liberals in general (and I realize it's something of a leap that gay = liberal) just don't get it. I know this, because I didn't get it. We buy into our own bullshit, aka the way things OUGHT to be. We buy into "theory". But mostly, we have been excluded from a way of doing things that we are now at the mercy of.
Liberals in general want to be "fair". We want to avoid the appearance of being "unfair". These are handicaps in the corporate environment because the corporate environment is an illusion of civility painted on to a very real life microcosm of human nature. It's a survival game.
Two straight guys, or frat brothers of any sexuality, from FSU will form an immediate bond. They have no problem with working together to promote themselves or exclude others. The same thing with ex-marines, born again Christians, and all kinds of folks. Republicans will hire a relative without compunction, because in their world that's what you do. Liberals want to be fair. The problem there is the presumption of fairness or that this environment ever was or ought to be fair.
But you don't do this kind of stuff on a bulletin board. You don't network on a bulletin board that everyone else in the company can read. It's called a network, not a road system. Nets have predator and prey. It's time that gay people became the predators we have always been accused of being, but not in the way the word has traditionally been used.
This is why some in the military are afraid of us. They are afraid that openly gay people, people who cannot be destroyed simply by revealing their sexual orientation, will take over. Little do they know just how inept we are at taking over. But why do they think this will happen? BECAUSE IT'S WHAT THEY WOULD DO. These are the guys who are already in power, learn from them.
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