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Edited on Fri Dec-19-08 06:00 PM by Mike 03
Every since Proposition 8 passed and there have been these very poignant outpourings of emotion that speak directly to how important this is to the GLBT community, it has caused me to reflect back on my marriage and how much I took it for granted.
I almost envy the respect and reverence that has been expressed here by this community for that right to marry--and the intense yearning to have that and have it respected.
So, my thought is: Could some people be so "appalled" at the notion of Gay Marriage because it makes them feel guilty for not truly treating it as sacred? Their argument is that it is so damned sacred, but Americans haven't tended to treat marriage as sacred, really. Our divorce rate is over fifty percent isn't it? I know people who have been married three times.
Maybe what is really going on here is a kind of "overcompensation" for our (straight) lack of really revering marriage and appreciating its importance. The Gay community seems to get it, and how important it is to this community just reinforces how frivolously it has been treated by a majority of our population.
So, they take that guilt out on GLBT.
Just a thought. Maybe I'm way off base, but I sure have been ruminating over my marriage and how I conducted myself during it since Prop Eight passed and you all have made some of the amazing, passionate, poignant posts you have made on this issue.
The moment one realizes this is a civil rights issue, it really forces you to look at yourself in the mirror.
Edit for spellcheck.
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