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"Winning is the only thing that matters."
I won't quote directly the three posters in this thread who expressed this sentiment, but I think the way I paraphrased it above accurately states their position. I'm not interested in a flame war or irrational arguing.
When people say, in one form or another, that winning is the only thing that matters, they always do so with an air of finality, implying they have just spoken some sort of universal truth which cannot be denied. Their thinking seems to stop there. Nothing more needs to be said, they believe.
Even if they have done or said nothing to prove their point, they nonetheless seem to believe that it's an accepted fact or a universal principle that no one disputes. And if anyone does dispute it, then such people (they think) should just reject their own beliefs and accept their word on it, as if they were omniscient, or at least more brilliant than anyone they're speaking to, and therefore should be considered infallible.
Yes, infallible. Like the Pope. Or God. All-knowing, all-seeing, unable to make misjudgments or mistakes.
But wait, do they really expect us to believe that? Do they honestly think no one will argue the point with them or try to prove them wrong?
"Winning is the only thing that matters."
Let's examine that statement, in the context of sports and the broader context of life. Let's see what it is we do believe as a culture on this point.
Rather than writing many pages to illustrate my argument, I'll keep it shorter and simply employ the method of asking questions -- questions which should elicit the truth in the answers that come immediately to mind.
Does the history of sports bear out such a maxim as "Winning is the only thing that matters"? Do the fans of sporting games admire players on teams (or individuals for that matter) because they win -- and only for that?
Does "playing fair" not matter? Does having character not matter?
Is retaining one's self-respect not important? Does respecting one's opponents not figure into the game?
And how about obeying the game's set rules? Why do we have those rules in the first place? Why do they call certain actions by players "unsportsmanlike conduct" and penalize the participants who perform such actions, with the severity of the punishment being matched to the degree and flagrancy of the violation?
What is the source of the term "unsportsmanlike" and others like it, revealed in such comments as, "That's not very sporting of him," or "She's not a very good sport"?
Why don't we admire players who persist in repeated acts of unsportsmanlike behavior?
Why are they eventually barred from ever playing the game again with others who will obey the rules?
Why was Haynesworth penalized so heavily after stomping on the bare head of an opponent who was down on the turf? And why do fans and observers get angry when clearly unsportsmanlike infractions go uncalled by a referee or the perpetrator goes unpunished or punished far too lightly -- as in the now infamous brawl between two college teams last Saturday?
Is it more important that Miami win games for the rest of their season than that terrible displays of unacceptable behavior by some individual team members draw appropriate punishment and thereby set the standard for other players?
As I wrote this, the answers to all these questions that occurred to me more than sufficiently belied the accuracy of a statement like "Winning is the only thing that matters."
As a culture, we Americans have long believed in curtailing inhumane and unfair conduct -- even in warfighting, the most extreme and REAL "game" there is.
Now with an unscrupulous administration in power in our nation, inhumanity and "unsportsmanlike" conduct has been unleashed as national policy. The Republicans have demonstrated that they will do anything to win, and to this point they have succeeded in grabbing and holding power.
But the vast majority of Americans, even those who once supported the ones in power now, are finding they can no longer accept the unfair tactics, the disreputable, deceptive behavior, and the criminal practices of those who "reign" over us.
Americans have stomached all they could of such thuggery, and they are fed up with the cheaters' behavior -- and with them.
This is why I believe Americans will seek to replace these dishonorable ones -- the ones without true character -- with others who they feel would more accurately represent our basic values and beliefs.
Of course, if the "incumbents" lie again, cheat again, and retain their power by stealing it, then perhaps the maxim is proven, and "Winning is the only thing that matters."
I just happen to belief this isn't true. Or possibly it's only true of Republicans!
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