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Edited on Sat Nov-26-11 07:05 PM by MarkCharles
or someone you wish to be close to, I would handle this differently than simply handing them a book, or even a list of web sites.
If I were you, I would not look at the Christian holiday season as the time to spring this on someone. There is a bit of resentment present when emotional moments are met with the distress of logical realism overpowering wishful thinking.
If this is your relative or friend who is open to new ways of thinking, FINE! Shower them with books and links to whatever favorite web sites you have explored in the last month. But don't do this as a "gift", do this as a dialog some other night than Christmas eve or Christmas day.
If this is someone you want to show your real self to, who is of another persuasion, a theist, don't mix this up with their Christmas, do your own reading, and bring it up in January.
If this is someone who has expressed an interest already in learning more about atheism, or about non-believers, fine, give them one of the books you found, along with something a little more personal and more emotion-laden as a second gift, even if it's a box of chocolates, if that's what they like.
Christmas is a fine time to talk about not being Christian, but not as a "gift" to some Christian....just as a time to talk and be close to them, and give them what they need.
By the way, atheists like me DO GIVE GIFTS to both Christians and to fellow non-believers at Christmas, it's one of the best things Christianity ever came up with. But we don't mind giving gifts on other days of the year, either, any day, any time, when we think a gift is a good thing to give.
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