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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:50 PM Original message |
When you have been rejected by your own family because of how you were born, then you can tell me |
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yourguide (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:52 PM Response to Original message |
1. I was rejected by my family for being born |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:55 PM Response to Reply #1 |
7. My parents gave me away when I was born. |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:00 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. Did they give you away because you are gay? |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:03 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. How the hell should I know why? |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:12 PM Response to Reply #16 |
21. You contradict yourself... |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:15 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. I was born poor. |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:24 PM Response to Reply #23 |
28. Not even close to what the OP is talking about... |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:28 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. I don't think the OP is talking about himself specifically. |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:31 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. That may be so, but it's beside the point... |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:35 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. check your inbox. I sent you a pm |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:45 PM Response to Reply #37 |
42. Check yours... eom |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:50 PM Response to Reply #42 |
46. gotcha. n/m |
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northernlights (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:51 PM Response to Reply #28 |
48. what if you can't change the fact that you're alive |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:53 PM Response to Reply #48 |
54. You couldn't possibly be further from the truth... |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-31-08 01:46 PM Response to Reply #21 |
205. the poster was taking issue with the idea that one could be rejected from birth |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-31-08 03:48 PM Response to Reply #205 |
206. demdog and I sorted this out via PM |
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Merlot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:26 PM Response to Reply #13 |
29. What difference would that make? |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:29 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. Are you serious? |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:30 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. But the OP didn't say it happened to him. |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:31 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. How does that matter? |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:57 PM Response to Reply #35 |
59. ; ) |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:07 PM Response to Reply #59 |
66. Back at ya, pal... ;) eom |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:32 PM Response to Reply #33 |
73. Actually, I am a her. |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:47 PM Response to Reply #73 |
81. Oops... sorry. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:52 PM Response to Reply #81 |
85. No problem. |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:55 PM Response to Reply #85 |
91. Well that's good then. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:56 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. Deleted sub-thread |
northernlights (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:45 PM Response to Reply #1 |
43. same here |
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grantcart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 06:34 PM Response to Reply #1 |
195. I think we would form a very large club lol |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:52 PM Response to Original message |
2. Is this a contest for you? |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:54 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Or those with PDDs, learning disabilities, physical disabilities... |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:56 PM Response to Reply #2 |
9. If you read my post, you will know I am not comparing, not wanting a race to the bottom |
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Dawgs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 08:25 AM Response to Reply #9 |
164. I read your whole post, and the entire thing was a comparison. |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:57 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. I'm convinced that black lesbians are the strongest people on Earth! |
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JohnnieGordon (415 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #10 |
198. Especially the out ones, let's hear it for Wanda Sykes!..nt |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:54 PM Response to Original message |
4. I didn't see anyone saying that. |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:58 PM Response to Reply #4 |
12. I've seen plenty of it here... |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:03 PM Response to Reply #4 |
15. You must have missed this thread: |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:11 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. "Human rights are not a consolation prize for past oppression." Exactly~ |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:12 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. that OP is saying you shouldn't compare and contrast the two. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:15 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. I think that the use of the word "offensive" - and all in caps - hurt some folks. |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:18 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. Yes... there are lots of ripples lately. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:20 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. If everyone on DU agreed on the need for equal rights for all, there'd be no disagreement. |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:26 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. I really don't think there IS a disagreement on that. |
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yourguide (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:50 PM Response to Reply #30 |
83. I fully agree. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:39 PM Response to Reply #30 |
138. Well, I've seen a lot of posts - many of them deleted - that indicate otherwise. |
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Grateful for Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:37 PM Response to Reply #27 |
76. I don't think that this is the issue here |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:16 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. I think that OP eventually said he disliked metaphors in general. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:40 PM Response to Reply #25 |
40. Useful tidbit? |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:37 PM Response to Reply #40 |
125. It is in reply to #20, which is a reply to #15 |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 09:32 AM Response to Reply #125 |
169. Doh! Did it again, sorry. |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:56 PM Response to Reply #20 |
57. ...by comparing and contrasting the two. |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:02 PM Response to Reply #57 |
63. I didn't say I agreed with the methodology. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:33 PM Response to Reply #4 |
36. Then you need to look more carefully. |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:38 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. Excuse me Balderdash?! |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:46 PM Response to Reply #39 |
44. Buddy, I've read more of your posts than I could |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:53 PM Response to Reply #44 |
53. As I've said... It's not black and white. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:53 PM Response to Reply #44 |
140. Thank you so much for saying what many gay folks have noticed around here. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 09:30 AM Response to Reply #140 |
168. I know, it's crazy. nt |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:04 PM Response to Reply #4 |
97. Here is one take on it that might help you understand. |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:57 PM Response to Reply #4 |
128. Of course you didn't. |
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DaveinMD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:55 PM Response to Original message |
5. I can't imagine |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:55 PM Response to Original message |
6. I won't tell you the discrimination against you is bullshit |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:03 PM Response to Reply #6 |
14. Thank you. |
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vicman (373 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
11. I grew up... |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:04 PM Response to Original message |
17. I don't know why people play that game anyway. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:09 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. Exactly. |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:52 PM Response to Reply #18 |
51. I wonder if that would make a good poster. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:57 PM Response to Reply #51 |
58. Go for it man! nt |
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LiberalinNC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:12 PM Response to Original message |
22. If you were my child, I would love you for who you are, not what I hoped you'd become |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:52 PM Response to Reply #22 |
50. Thank you. |
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LiberalinNC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 06:09 PM Response to Reply #50 |
192. Sure!!! |
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AntiFascist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
38. Heterosexual blacks have it much better today... |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:47 PM Response to Reply #38 |
45. Like abused children abusing their own children |
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HamdenRice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 07:50 AM Response to Reply #45 |
163. So you think African Americans are the oppressors in American society? All I can say is ... |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 06:12 PM Response to Reply #163 |
193. Anyone who votes to take away the rights of others is an oppressor, by definition. |
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HamdenRice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-31-08 07:31 AM Response to Reply #193 |
200. Oh, I forgot, "it was teh blacks fault" |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:09 PM Response to Reply #38 |
99. It all boils down to united we stand, divided we fall. |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 12:20 PM Response to Reply #38 |
176. You've seen black people in your own community |
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peace13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:42 PM Response to Original message |
41. My family has rejected me over and over again. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:50 PM Response to Reply #41 |
47. What forum would you suggest? nt |
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peace13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:54 PM Response to Reply #47 |
56. GD n/t |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:51 PM Response to Reply #41 |
49. Why do some people only read the title? |
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peace13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:53 PM Response to Reply #49 |
55. I read it. n/t |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:58 PM Response to Reply #55 |
60. Then tell me why I can't talk about discrimination in this forum, especially since Obama has |
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peace13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:02 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. Oh.... |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:05 PM Response to Reply #60 |
65. Because you didn't use the Warren Loophole. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:36 PM Response to Reply #65 |
75. That's not what my OP is about. It is about the fact the some threads compare |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:42 PM Response to Reply #75 |
80. Yes, I know |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:54 PM Response to Reply #80 |
88. Oh. Ok. |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 07:52 PM Response to Original message |
52. I think the biggest difference with Black folks is that they can't get lost in a crowd...... |
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bitchkitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:02 PM Response to Reply #52 |
62. You forget an important difference - |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:10 PM Response to Reply #62 |
68. I believe that I said that Civil Right are Civil Rights, period. |
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bitchkitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 12:03 AM Response to Reply #68 |
142. Actually, that wasn't what I was trying to convey. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:05 PM Response to Reply #52 |
64. But your church doesn't tell you you are evil, demonic. |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:12 PM Response to Reply #64 |
69. Suffering is suffering..... |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:25 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. Despite worldy prejudice, you can have hope for your soul; I am consigned to hell before I start |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:33 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. By saying that Gays go through additional discrimination, you were comparing. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:41 PM Response to Reply #74 |
79. I compared because you did. Your post needed a response. |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:53 PM Response to Reply #79 |
86. Fail. Your OP and posts throughout this thread compare |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:59 PM Response to Reply #86 |
94. My OP rejects comparison. I compare because Frenchie Cat did. It's a losers game to compare. |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:04 PM Response to Reply #79 |
95. My response spoke of the biggest difference, not the only difference. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:14 PM Response to Reply #95 |
101. You compared. So I compared in response. That is all. |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:26 PM Response to Reply #101 |
106. Look....the comparisons have to stop. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:58 PM Response to Reply #106 |
109. "and how The Gay Community had it worse. " NO, I definitely did not do this. |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:23 PM Response to Reply #109 |
133. When you post things like your post#72, it's hard to get a different impression! |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:04 AM Response to Reply #133 |
146. Reaching for straws Frenchie Cat. I already said I compared because you compared. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:08 PM Response to Reply #52 |
67. Maybe we can talk when the first openly Queer |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:13 PM Response to Reply #67 |
70. Perhaps. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:54 PM Response to Reply #70 |
89. I know what the marches were about, I lived them. |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:31 PM Response to Reply #89 |
107. I agree..... |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:14 PM Response to Reply #67 |
71. How about when it's agreed upon that the majority... |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:39 PM Response to Reply #71 |
77. Wow! You caught me off gard with that one and |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:48 PM Response to Reply #77 |
82. As I said... |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:51 PM Response to Reply #82 |
84. Where is your unity thread? |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:23 PM Response to Reply #84 |
103. Right here dropping like a stone. |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:58 PM Response to Reply #52 |
129. Until a "lisp" is detected. Or a 40 year old is unmarried and questioned. We are not lost in crowds |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:11 PM Response to Reply #129 |
132. yeah...ok. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:00 AM Response to Reply #132 |
145. No, it's a reference to being perceived as gay |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 02:02 AM Response to Reply #132 |
159. "Gaydar": people surmising sexuality based on stereotypical "evidence" |
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musicblind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-31-08 07:53 AM Response to Reply #159 |
202. Which has actually been backed up by research |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 08:32 AM Response to Reply #132 |
166. as a 40 year old unmarried man who sticks up for gay rights |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:41 PM Response to Original message |
78. It's a no win situation. |
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Yes We Did (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:55 PM Response to Reply #78 |
90. What it mean.... |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:13 PM Response to Reply #90 |
100. There is value in comparing and contrasting. |
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Doctor_J (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
87. Does this have anything to do with the inauguration? If so, what? |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:57 PM Response to Reply #87 |
92. It's the right forum. nt |
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Doctor_J (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 08:58 PM Response to Reply #92 |
93. So I guess it has something to do with jan 20. Please explain. |
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HelenWheels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
96. You forgot - you can be beat up and bullied in school because you're gay |
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Politicub (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
98. Thank you for this post |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:15 PM Response to Reply #98 |
102. Thank you for your support. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:23 PM Response to Reply #102 |
104. Heh! This is sweetness and light compared to |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:02 PM Response to Reply #104 |
110. Well, then I'm glad I wasn't here then. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:06 PM Response to Reply #110 |
113. I know, I've been a little distressed too |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:09 PM Response to Reply #113 |
115. The first few answers I got to this post were really off the wall |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:26 PM Response to Reply #102 |
105. GD-P does. |
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comrade snarky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
108. Screw it |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:03 PM Response to Reply #108 |
111. What post did you put up? |
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comrade snarky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:45 PM Response to Reply #111 |
126. Arguments over whose pain is worse |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:12 AM Response to Reply #126 |
148. I agree with you. The OP was not about whose pain was worse but how it might be different. |
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Kucinich07 (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
112. Sorry to hear that |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:16 PM Response to Reply #112 |
118. Mine was a very traditional family |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:07 PM Response to Original message |
114. oh ffs, this isn't a pissing contest now, is it? |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:13 PM Response to Reply #114 |
116. No it isn't, try reading before replying. nt |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:20 PM Response to Reply #116 |
120. I read the OP. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:15 PM Response to Reply #114 |
117. No. It's to counter the idea that gays don't have as much to worry about. |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:20 PM Response to Reply #117 |
119. Well, that OP was stupid to begin with. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:22 PM Response to Reply #119 |
121. Mine? |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:26 PM Response to Reply #121 |
122. The OP that I called stupid? wndycty's. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:26 AM Response to Reply #122 |
154. Ok. Thanks. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:38 AM Response to Reply #122 |
156. You know that thread got 122 recommends. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 09:28 AM Response to Reply #156 |
167. Well you need to be more of an attention whore like wndycty |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 02:39 PM Response to Reply #156 |
186. A thread saying that we need to immediately seize all of the assets of the wealthy got over 100, too |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 03:51 PM Response to Reply #186 |
189. Oh, Ok. |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 06:39 PM Response to Reply #189 |
197. It often doesn't. I've seen some loathsome posts get recommends. |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
123. Some things that shouldn't be forgotten, GLBT people were, in the past forced into therapy... |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:39 AM Response to Reply #123 |
157. Yes, Solon. Excellent point and thank you! |
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we can do it (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
124. Wow - Thank You, I Was Trying To Think of a Way To Say This |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:05 AM Response to Reply #124 |
147. Thank you for your support. |
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we can do it (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:33 PM Response to Reply #147 |
182. Hang In There |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 10:49 PM Response to Original message |
127. The key point from your OP |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:03 PM Response to Reply #127 |
130. If I read the OP correctly |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:30 PM Response to Reply #130 |
136. well, I agree with that |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:59 PM Response to Reply #136 |
141. The OP in the other thread did say the same thing, yes. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:20 AM Response to Reply #130 |
151. Thank you, lwfern. You got the message! |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:06 PM Response to Reply #127 |
131. When I read a post like yours all I get out of it |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:23 PM Response to Reply #131 |
134. I'm not saying they are completely different |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:46 PM Response to Reply #134 |
139. I appreciate your acknowledging that similarity |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 12:10 AM Response to Reply #139 |
143. my frustration comes from a different direction |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 12:19 AM Response to Reply #143 |
144. I don't know if you saw my post over here: |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:25 AM Response to Reply #143 |
153. Kwassa, the same argument can be made for gays: People don't know about gay history at all |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 02:16 AM Response to Reply #153 |
160. That's a strong point, there. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 12:45 PM Response to Reply #160 |
179. OK lwfern, I'll take your word for it |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 02:37 PM Response to Reply #160 |
185. you have it. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 03:54 PM Response to Reply #185 |
190. What exactly does that mean in regard to the gay community? |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 06:34 PM Response to Reply #190 |
196. Many in ALL communities |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:23 AM Response to Reply #134 |
152. Kwassa: "The types of discrimination experienced were very different, though." |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:19 AM Response to Reply #127 |
149. I didn't draw a comparison. I showed you some different ways in which gays are discriminated against |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:23 PM Response to Original message |
135. anti-gay bigotry is is so entrenched in every culture around the world -- |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:19 AM Response to Reply #135 |
150. Oh, exactly, exactly!! THANK YOU! |
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Undercurrent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-29-08 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
137. . |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:27 AM Response to Reply #137 |
155. Mental illness is poorly understood by the general public |
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Undercurrent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 04:19 AM Response to Reply #155 |
162. Thanks, but no need to feel sorry for me. |
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Stellabella (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:54 AM Response to Original message |
158. You're absolutely right. |
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Two Americas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 02:39 AM Response to Original message |
161. this is a good post |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 12:43 PM Response to Reply #161 |
177. Thank you. |
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Dawgs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 08:27 AM Response to Original message |
165. Another post that doesn't help anything. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 09:42 AM Response to Reply #165 |
171. You never have anything of worth to say |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
170. Great post. But frustrating how many people are criticizing you for it. |
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marimour (696 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 10:04 AM Response to Reply #170 |
172. not compare, equate, but I'm sure you knew you were quoting inccorectly. |
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Balderdash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 10:34 AM Response to Reply #172 |
173. This thread is NOT A PISSING CONTEST |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 12:51 PM Response to Reply #173 |
181. Thank you. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 11:47 AM Response to Reply #172 |
175. "Don't equate" = "our suffering is worse than your suffering;" It's inherently comparative |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 02:47 PM Response to Reply #175 |
187. You are really going down the wrong road on this. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 03:50 PM Response to Reply #187 |
188. But that was what was said to me. That was what was meant. And a threat was made. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-03-09 06:37 AM Response to Reply #187 |
209. You have mail |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 11:36 AM Response to Reply #170 |
174. I know. I think when they say we're not supposed to compare, they mean |
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tbyg52 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 12:44 PM Response to Original message |
178. Thank you. |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 12:46 PM Response to Reply #178 |
180. I know. It's amazing what parents will do. |
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OwnedByFerrets (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:42 PM Response to Original message |
183. Great Post!! |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 01:45 PM Response to Original message |
184. This country's treatment toward homosexuals and minorities is disgusting and embarassing... |
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Rosa Luxemburg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
191. Gays are blamed |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-03-09 11:48 AM Response to Reply #191 |
210. Gays are blamed BEFORE anything is done: like child molestation |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
194. One point for your consideration, |
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JohnnieGordon (415 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-30-08 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
199. Thanks for providing some very much needed balance on this..K&R |
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Jester Messiah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-31-08 07:36 AM Response to Original message |
201. This "who's the bigger victim" pissing match is getting tiresome. [nt] |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-03-09 06:20 AM Response to Reply #201 |
208. Not bigger, equal. All we are asking is to be seen as equal. |
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stillcool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-31-08 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
203. I had no family to be rejected from.. |
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jeffrey_X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-31-08 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
204. Can you be perceived as black? |
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Spectral Music (349 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-03-09 04:47 AM Response to Reply #204 |
207. Me? |
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