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Perky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:12 AM Original message |
The reality is that in the eyes of the state. All Marriages are Civil Unions |
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crappyjazz (886 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
1. So religious people are against anyone getting married at City Hall? |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:36 AM Response to Reply #1 |
8. Yes, in fact. When I first came up with the idea of Civil Unions for everybody, I found that Fundies |
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Perky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:51 AM Response to Reply #1 |
12. I think Opposotion to Civil Unions is limited to about 25% of the religious |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 12:08 PM Response to Reply #1 |
27. Many of my DH's family didn't consider our civil ceremony |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
2. i disagree that people who voted for prop 8 aren't anti-gay |
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kennetha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
3. Well-reasoned |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:31 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. The Religious Reich would fight that tooth and nail |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:34 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. You are wrong. Fundies believe TRUE marriage is performed by the Church and don't |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 12:13 PM Response to Reply #7 |
28. The flaw in your argument is |
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RichardRay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:49 AM Response to Reply #3 |
10. It should require two actions, the religious imprimatur |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 11:10 AM Response to Reply #10 |
17. Amen. |
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RichardRay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 11:16 AM Response to Reply #17 |
20. The company here I work just published a 'Total Compensation' |
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marimour (696 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 11:15 AM Response to Reply #10 |
19. Totally. People who "shack up" or stay single get nothing. |
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RichardRay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 11:16 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Yep - absolutely NONE. n/t |
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amyrose2712 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 04:11 PM Response to Reply #10 |
42. THANK YOU! Rarel y does anyone point out the |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 02:18 PM Response to Reply #3 |
30. Well I don't like it. I say screw that. |
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Perky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 03:26 PM Response to Reply #30 |
34. Ease up.... I used the term "civil marriage" with good reason |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 03:59 PM Response to Reply #34 |
39. Well, ease up. I wasn't responding to you. n/t |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 07:22 PM Response to Reply #30 |
49. Yeah. *No one* should have to give up the terminology. |
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marimour (696 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
4. i agree with a lot of this. |
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crappyjazz (886 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:39 AM Response to Reply #4 |
9. What if some gay people would like to take their vows before god? |
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Perky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:57 AM Response to Reply #9 |
15. Are you talking about metaphysically or by clergy? |
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RichardRay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 11:19 AM Response to Reply #15 |
22. If they want an officiant just find one that will do it and have at it. |
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Perky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 11:28 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. Well there is a legal requirement that people who want to bevome a union |
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RichardRay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 11:30 AM Response to Reply #25 |
26. As long as the union has no standing in the eyes of the state |
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No Elephants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 11:20 AM Response to Reply #9 |
23. I agree, but there are clergy who will marry gays "before god." I am not Catholic and no Catholic |
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marimour (696 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 11:21 AM Response to Reply #9 |
24. You dont need a church to take your vows before god and there are churches that will do it. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 09:24 PM Response to Reply #9 |
51. No problem. There are quite a number of churches that would accommodate them |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:32 AM Response to Original message |
6. Totally agree. Although I prefer Civil Unions for everybody and ditching the word Marriage |
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suston96 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:49 AM Response to Original message |
11. Religious officials performing marriages are generally licensed by the state. |
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Perky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:56 AM Response to Reply #11 |
13. But the state provides the marriage license, |
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Perky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:56 AM Response to Reply #11 |
14. But the state provides the marriage license, |
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No Elephants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
16. I don't care what you call it, as long as it is called the same for EVERYone. No one used the term |
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Moloch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
18. I agree with you 100% |
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Perky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 01:38 PM Response to Original message |
29. kicking for more dialog |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 02:21 PM Response to Original message |
31. The reality is some citizens can marry and some cannot. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 02:29 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. Yes. What I was trying to say only so much better. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 02:27 PM Response to Original message |
32. It is not a battle over semantics. |
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Perky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 03:38 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. "Marriage is not a religious union. It is a legal contract. That is a fact" |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 03:56 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. Based on the fact that it's a legal contract. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 04:26 PM Response to Reply #36 |
43. Look. The thing is |
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lib_wit_it (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-09-08 04:44 AM Response to Reply #43 |
52. Wow, Pithlet, great job hanging in there to make the point. I was |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-09-08 02:20 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. Thanks. |
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yowzayowzayowza (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 03:33 PM Response to Original message |
35. "What's in a name? |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
37. I am not going to pander to believers by pretending there is any reason to oppose gay marriage... |
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nichomachus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
40. "Marriage is a civil contract" --Brigham Young |
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tandot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 04:08 PM Response to Original message |
41. Gay people don't like "Civil Unions" not because it "seems second class" but |
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Perky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 04:33 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. and if those issues were overcome in the context of "civil Unions"? |
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tandot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 04:57 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. I am actually straight and married here in CA and I would be totally fine |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
46. Simply put, "marriage" is not a word that belongs to religions. |
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Perky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 08:14 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. I understand the argument and I think it is sound. The problem is that religious people |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
47. but, but, but.... a civil union, as some states have for gays, is not the same as a marriage of an |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-08-08 07:21 PM Response to Original message |
48. Well, it's *part* of The Reality, anyway. |
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