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TooRaLoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:17 PM
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This is where I hang out, so I hope it's okay to post this here.
My boyfriend was walking to work this morning because I have had a monster sinus infection this week. Until today I have been in bed for a few days.

Anyway - He was struck by a car while crossing the street (at an intersection crosswalk, using the button to change the light first, and all that). This was shortly before 6am, although I didn't know until 3 hours after it happened.

Currently he's waiting to go to surgery for a broken arm and a broken leg. A witness came to visit, and his description of what happened was horrific. We are all just SO lucky that he is alive. He will have to wear a neck brace for the next 2 months. He probably won't be able to work during that time.

I just wanted to ask you all for prayers/good thoughts/whatever you're inclined to send his way. It's going to be rough. But I'm so freaking grateful. It could have been so much worse. I don't even know if the lady who hit him has insurance.

I have a lot of phone calls to make but I will be back this evening hopefully. I just had to ask for help. I am so freaked out.

Thank you :grouphug: DU is my sanity.
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soleft Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:18 PM
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1. Sending good vibes your way
hope his recovery is speedy and complete!
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The Wielding Truth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:19 PM
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2. I don't think I missed this, but did the police take a report?
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TooRaLoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:20 PM
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4. Yes, in fact I'm abotu to call them now about it. I have the report #.
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The Wielding Truth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:27 PM
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18. Do you have someone with you to help you?
Edited on Wed Oct-22-08 02:29 PM by The Wielding Truth
If it is easy, take some quick pictures of your boy friends leg before treatment.
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:20 PM
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3. Sending white light and positive energy for his quick recovery...
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asdjrocky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:21 PM
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5. Sending good thoughts your way.
Take care of him, and yourself.
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mamalone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:21 PM
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6. You and your boyfriend have my prayers...
and here's a couple of these as well:hug: :hug:

Keep us updated, OK?
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:21 PM
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7. Sending good thoughts your way.
May he make a swift recovery. :hug:
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okieinpain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:22 PM
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8. will keep you in my prayers. n/t.
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SpiralHawk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:22 PM
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9. Sending prayers to BF and you and family
May healing come swiftly and completely.
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HughMoran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:23 PM
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10. Glad he's OK - whew!
I had a brother hit and killed by a car - it sucks :(
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bunnies Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:23 PM
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11. oh my!!!
:cry: I'm so sorry that this happened. Good vibes to both of you. :grouphug:
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democrank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:23 PM
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12. Hope everything turns out okay.
Take care....
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peace13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:24 PM
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13. Esuna, I am so sorry to hear this.
Love and energy are sent your way. I hope that he has a speedy recovery. May your witness have the information needed to find the person who did this. Take care and keep us informed. Peace and love, Kim
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stillcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:24 PM
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14. damn..so sorry for him..
for you. I will keep you both in my thoughts.
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:24 PM
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15. {{{esuna and boyfriend}}}
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renie408 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:25 PM
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16. Holding you both in my thoughts and sending you good wishes. n/t
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:26 PM
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17. best wishes to him and you. Hope he heals quickly, and a big hug
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:29 PM
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19. Sending the best of wishes for a speedy recovery and good vibes
your way. I'll send you some Lounge vibes too, because those are extra special. :hug:
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steve2470 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:29 PM
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20. I send good vibes to you and your bf nt
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:30 PM
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21. I'm so sorry and am sending good thoughts to him for a speedy recovery.
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Debi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:30 PM
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22. You both are in my thoughts -
positive energy and vibes on their way to you!
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Cha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:30 PM
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23. Poor things..I'm so
sorry and hope your bf gets all the excellent help he needs for a healthy recovery, esuna! :grouphug:
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:32 PM
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24. your bad luck is over, honey. ONLY good things forever now. Hugs
to both of you.
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Chloroplast Donating Member (723 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:37 PM
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25. I said a prayer for the both of you. Stay strong and keep us posted.
:hug:
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Ozma Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:42 PM
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26. Best wishes and thoughts to you and your boyfriend.
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kestrel91316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:44 PM
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27. What state are you in? In CA we have a crime victims' compensation
Edited on Wed Oct-22-08 02:46 PM by kestrel91316
that pays medical expenses and lost wages (to a point) for crime victims. I don't know if other states have the same thing. It gets paid into, not from taxes, but from penalties against criminals assessed by the courts. You definitely want the police involved.

So sorry to hear about this. It could have been even worse than it is.

Edit: OK has a program, not sure if it applies in this case:
http://www.ok.gov/dac/Victims_Services/Victims_Compensation_Program/
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mrreowwr_kittty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:47 PM
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28. I am soooo sorry!!
I hope your b/f makes a quick recovery. :hug:
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VWolf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:47 PM
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29. Hope he recovers quickly n/t
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Dem_4_Life Donating Member (710 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:52 PM
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30. Oh my, I am sending some positive thoughts your way.
I hope the surgery goes well and hopefully the lady that hit him has insurance. In the mean time here is a :hug: and I will keep you and your boyfriend in my thoughts and prayers.
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Redbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:54 PM
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31. Prayers and good vibes sent to both of you.
It seems to me he is also very lucky to have you.
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goodgd_yall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:54 PM
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32. You and your boyfriend will be added to my prayer intentions
Thank god it wasn't worse.
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Norrin Radd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:56 PM
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33. Get better esuna's boyfriend!
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Lucky 13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:56 PM
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34. How scary!
I'm so sorry that happened to him! I'm glad he's ultimately going to be ok... it could have been much much worse. So just try to stay focused on the positives and take everything one day at a time.

And know we're all pulling for him and thinking of you.
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:57 PM
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35. Positive Vibrations.
I hope for the best.
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a kennedy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:57 PM
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36. *hugs* and prayers for you and your boy friend.....
:hug: :grouphug:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:57 PM
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37. My best wishes for your boyfriend and you.
Take care. Hope you both feel better quick.
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helderheid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:58 PM
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38. keep us posted - healing vibes coming his way
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bushisanidiot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:58 PM
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39. Sending prayers your way.
I hope he heals soon. :(
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ourbluenation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:59 PM
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40. hugs for you both.
:grouphug:
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City Lights Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 02:59 PM
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41. So sorry to hear your news, esuna.
:hug: Sending good vibes to you and your boyfriend for successful surgery and speedy recovery. :hug:
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grantcart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 03:00 PM
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42. how frightening and you have our best wishes
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 03:01 PM
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43. I hope he heals quickly. And that you nail the person
who did it. How hard is it to obey the street signals?
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TooRaLoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-23-08 03:43 PM
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54. delete
Edited on Thu Oct-23-08 03:50 PM by esuna
I'd probably better not comment too much... Will PM you.
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Ichingcarpenter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 03:03 PM
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44. Get a lawyer if you can now.... Hang in there and good vibes sent... n/t
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foxfeet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 03:03 PM
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45. Sending healing energy to you both.
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bleever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 03:07 PM
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46. Best wishes for a speedy recovery.
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Aloha Spirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 03:14 PM
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47. I send you Positive Vibes!! And hugs!

I live in a congested small city and am contemplating getting a reflective jacket for walking around town.

Hope you and your boyfriend can keep a positive spirit through the recovery.


Love love love

-Tara
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StrictlyRockers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-22-08 03:16 PM
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48. Hey we're all pulling for you and you bf!!
Keep us updated, and avoid busy interections at six in the morning.

:hug:
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ClayZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-23-08 04:17 AM
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49. How scary! I am glad he is OK!
We wish him a speedy recovery!:grouphug:
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FrenchieCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-23-08 04:25 AM
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50. I am praying for the both of you.
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flygal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-23-08 06:08 AM
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51. I hope he'll be ok - that's horrible
:grouphug:
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mcg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-23-08 11:22 AM
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52. I wish him a good recovery and that the surgery goes smoothly,
I'm praying for him.

Be strong and supportive.
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renate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-23-08 11:34 AM
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53. I'm so glad it wasn't worse... it's these close calls that remind us of the important things in life
:hug: and my prayers for an easy and speedy recovery.
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TooRaLoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-23-08 03:47 PM
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55. Hi, all! Thank you SO MUCH!!!
Surgeries went smoothly last night. He will still stay in the hospital for several days. He's been very popular today, lots of visits and more coming. He won't be able to come home because we live upstairs, but we have lots of options. We have an attorney and all that good stuff now.

*whew* I am exhausted. :blush:

Thank you SO MUCH, everyone. It's been nice to carry DU with me through all this. Too bad I don't have a laptop.

Gotta go now. :yourock:
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The Wielding Truth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-08 03:49 AM
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56. Wonderful. Maybe you can rest now.
:hug:
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Hepburn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-24-08 03:52 AM
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57. OMG....so sorry....
...and kind thoughts going your way for both of you!

:hug:
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