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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:27 PM Original message |
OK, who the fuck thinks "Civil unions for all" will actually be acceptable to heterosexuals? |
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DailyGrind51 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
1. Hey, my marriage was anything but a "civil" union, that's why we got divorced! |
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rebel with a cause (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:20 PM Response to Reply #1 |
118. Yours and mine also. Marriage was uncivil, divorce is uncivil, |
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renie408 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
2. I wouldn't care. My husband and I have often contemplated WHY we got married. |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:33 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. The point isn't how YOU feel, but how the REST of the nation would feel about this.... |
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renie408 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:50 PM Original message |
I am really wanting to clear this up in my own head.... |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:54 PM Response to Original message |
15. I'm not talking about those who advocate for "separate but (un)equal"... |
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renie408 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:59 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Why would civil unions be unequal? |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:05 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. Civil Unions, right now, are not recognized federally... |
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renie408 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:22 PM Response to Reply #22 |
87. I thought we were talking about some kind of federal mandate |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:41 PM Response to Reply #87 |
93. In this thread, we are talking about Replacing Marriage with Civil Union on legal documents... |
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renie408 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:49 PM Response to Reply #93 |
97. Ok, sorry. There have been several threads today dealing with this subject |
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Erin Elizabeth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:53 PM Response to Reply #3 |
14. No that very much WAS part of your point. |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:56 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. Only for themselves, and DU isn't mainstream... |
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fifthoffive (210 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:58 PM Response to Reply #2 |
99. You have stated my view so well, |
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Cronus Protagonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
4. Let people choose the name for the same thing and we're all good |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:40 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. The federal government would have to recognize civil unions first... |
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kirby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
5. Marriage is a loaded term... |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:42 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. And its even less likely to be acceptable... |
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kirby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:47 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. I disagree... |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:50 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. There is no "forcing of agenda" here, and redefining marriage isn't a new thing... |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:49 PM Response to Reply #5 |
10. Religion doesn't own marriage. |
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krawhitham (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
8. Civil unions is all the government should allow for EVERY COUPLE |
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vaberella (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:51 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. Exactly. Hey, wait a sec...something just crossed my mind...huh.... |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:22 PM Response to Reply #12 |
30. What I've been saying for years. . . n/t |
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vaberella (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:17 PM Response to Reply #30 |
45. I get it now. That would be excellent. Gays would be happy and everyone else could shut up. n/t |
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LittleClarkie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:51 PM Response to Reply #12 |
69. But it should be up to the individual couples to decide |
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chiefofclarinet (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:32 PM Response to Reply #69 |
91. I agree, to a point |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:27 PM Response to Reply #12 |
107. no matter where you are married, you still need a license - |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:58 PM Response to Reply #8 |
17. And in an Ideal world, that would already be what's in place, I live in the real world... |
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GirlieQ (141 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:04 PM Response to Reply #8 |
21. Why should religious groups get to decide that? |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:15 PM Response to Reply #8 |
43. Or to the individuals involved. I had a civil ceremony. I'm married |
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Erin Elizabeth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
13. I don't care, I think what my husband and I have is a civil union, |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:00 PM Response to Reply #13 |
19. Jesus, you don't get it do you... |
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kirby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:11 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. Oddly... |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:21 PM Response to Reply #23 |
29. Again, the "separate but unequal" advocates are NOT who I'm arguing against in this thread... |
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abumbyanyothername (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
20. Personally . . . |
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NotThisTime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
24. I'm sorry, other countries do this, they have a civil service and they have a religious service |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:16 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. Most of them had legal traditions about this dating back centuries, and so does the United States... |
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NotThisTime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:38 PM Response to Reply #26 |
60. There should be no civil difference between Unions recognized by the Government & religious Weddings |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #60 |
65. And in an ideal world I would agree, but how long would it take to convince the middle... |
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NotThisTime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:52 PM Response to Reply #65 |
70. Honestly, my father has been waiting 29 years, I don't know, but I just have to hope it happens |
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LittleClarkie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:52 PM Response to Reply #24 |
71. The couple should be able to decide what they want |
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Stop Cornyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:15 PM Response to Original message |
25. I've been to weddings in Mexico and Germany, and that's the law there. You get a civil license. The |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:19 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. The only difference between them and the United States, is that here, the officiate... |
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Stop Cornyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:48 PM Response to Reply #27 |
35. I don't think you have to police what word people use to describe their relationship. In Mexico and |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:59 PM Response to Reply #35 |
36. People will use whatever terms they want to describe their relationships... |
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Stop Cornyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:12 PM Response to Reply #36 |
40. I'm glad that laws on the books in the 1940s which referred to "Negroes" have been re-written to |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:14 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. I have no clue how that would apply to what I'm referring to. |
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Stop Cornyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:17 PM Response to Reply #42 |
46. I misunderstood you to say what the state uses as the term on the license itself was the issue. If |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:20 PM Response to Reply #46 |
49. No, that is the point, the point I had was that it would be extremely unpopular for the State... |
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Stop Cornyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:29 PM Response to Reply #49 |
55. My point was that re-writing the laws to use a different terminology (e.g., eliminating the term |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:32 PM Response to Reply #55 |
57. Of course it would be earth-shattering... |
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NotThisTime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:39 PM Response to Reply #25 |
61. Exactly, Bolivia is exactly the same |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
28. It's perfectly OK with me. The State makes it a legal union, and |
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Teaser (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
31. When I'm through with em, they'll all see things my way |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
32. Did anyone in this thread read past the title of the OP? |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
33. I believe its easier to ask do you believe in equal protection under the law? |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 05:46 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. The question is HOW you go about it, what's practical and what's not practical... |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:06 PM Response to Original message |
37. I understand that it's not my cross to bear, but I really believe this way is the right way |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:12 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. To make a comparison Interracial Marriages didn't obtain majority support until the 1990s... |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:26 PM Response to Reply #39 |
52. I think two states is a woeful minority |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:29 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. Uhm, back then, people were debating whether blacks had the right to even be allowed to live... |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:42 PM Response to Reply #54 |
62. You know what, I wasn't around then, so maybe you're right |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:46 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. The North was just as segregationist as the South, it just wasn't codified into law... |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:55 PM Response to Reply #64 |
74. I guess I still think there is a difference between views people are publicly embarrassed to hold |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:59 PM Response to Reply #74 |
76. Well, I live in a border state, so I'm not sure, and I didn't live back then... |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:03 PM Response to Reply #76 |
78. Let me just stick to one comment- |
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Skidmore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
38. My husband and I were married in a civil ceremony by a JP, not a |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:14 PM Response to Original message |
41. Fine with me. We had a civil ceremony. The Catholic Church |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:16 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. Ugh, again, this isn't the point, its not a "big whoop" to you, but it would be for the majority... |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:19 PM Response to Reply #44 |
47. Really, I understand what you're saying. I just think that those people |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:24 PM Response to Reply #47 |
50. Most people in this country care about what's on the legally binding document... |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:31 PM Response to Reply #47 |
56. I think the problem is that people are confusing religion with marriage. |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:33 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. Exactly, for some people, the terminology isn't a big deal... |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:50 PM Response to Reply #58 |
67. Yep. Words have meaning. |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:00 PM Response to Reply #56 |
77. Wait - are you religious at all? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:06 PM Response to Reply #77 |
80. Not religious in the least. |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:17 PM Response to Reply #80 |
84. I think you're underinformed here |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:47 PM Response to Reply #84 |
95. In American history. This is GDP, here. |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:59 PM Response to Reply #95 |
100. Ugh, you made a silly statement about religion, and then you admitted |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:09 PM Response to Reply #100 |
101. Whoa.... What silly statement about religion did I make? |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:21 PM Response to Reply #101 |
105. Just reread what you said - I quoted it for you: |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:34 PM Response to Reply #105 |
108. Sorry. But I stand by what I said. |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:42 PM Response to Reply #108 |
112. That's just ridiculous |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:57 PM Response to Reply #112 |
113. How was it unfair, when you came right in swinging at me |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:05 PM Response to Reply #113 |
116. Reread what you said, though - you said marriage is not a religious institution |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:30 PM Response to Reply #116 |
119. It is correct. Sorry. |
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jsmirman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:46 PM Response to Reply #119 |
122. I'm telling you, we're just talking past each other |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:20 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. Don't worry. Not everyone. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:24 PM Response to Original message |
51. Altho I have a "marriage license" I feel like I have a Civil Union and that's just fine withme! |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:26 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. *SWOOSH!* |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:36 PM Response to Reply #53 |
59. I prolly should have added that I agree that civil unions should have the protections and privileges |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:44 PM Response to Reply #59 |
63. And again, *SWOOSH*... |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:53 PM Response to Reply #63 |
72. Hey, don't overdo this with ME! I get it, totally. I am fine with your idea too. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:17 PM Response to Reply #63 |
85. AND, one other thing. I believe in separation of church and state. |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:30 PM Response to Reply #85 |
90. And what does that have to do with this argument? |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 08:30 AM Response to Reply #90 |
132. Marriage is a sacrament in the Roman Catholic Church, I believe. |
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krkaufman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:49 PM Response to Original message |
66. I'm against it. I don't want to be married *or* civil unioned. n/t |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:50 PM Response to Original message |
68. I am curious |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:55 PM Response to Reply #68 |
75. I'm for it, technically... |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:21 PM Response to Reply #75 |
86. My experience is that it does matter. |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:27 PM Response to Reply #86 |
88. But most of those arguments boil down to having civil unions that are SEPARATE from Marriage... |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:37 PM Response to Reply #88 |
109. And that is where I |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:06 PM Response to Reply #109 |
117. See, that's where I diverge from you, I don't see it happening, ever.... |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:35 PM Response to Reply #117 |
120. You may be right |
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chicagoexpat (843 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 06:54 PM Response to Original message |
73. I'm voting Democratic because the GOP says |
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Undercurrent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:06 PM Response to Original message |
79. I'm heterosexual and have entered into a civil union twice. |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:08 PM Response to Original message |
81. That's why I said what I believe about it *is* controversial. |
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vanderBeth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
82. That's how it's done in other countries. |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:15 PM Response to Original message |
83. I am a retired atty and I did family law for a very long time. |
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Goblinmonger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:28 PM Response to Reply #83 |
89. And Biden made it clear that his stance is |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:26 PM Response to Reply #89 |
106. Both marriage and civil union should be available to ALL couples...PERIOD. |
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Goblinmonger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:38 PM Response to Reply #106 |
110. I agree with you completely |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:02 PM Response to Reply #106 |
115. And again, that's in an ideal world, not our real life one... |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
92. The legal contract between couples, regardless of orientation, |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:43 PM Response to Reply #92 |
94. Marriage isn't strictly a religious institution, never was, so I don't understand... |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 10:59 AM Response to Reply #94 |
134. There's the matter of getting the marriage license from the STATE, |
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faithfulcitizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:49 PM Response to Original message |
96. I do, soon. |
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chiefofclarinet (516 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
98. Are you asking for ALL heterosexuals to accept it, or just a majority? |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:10 PM Response to Original message |
102. In all likelihood Obama's court appointments would simply maintain the balance we have now. |
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progressivebydesign (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:15 PM Response to Original message |
103. Divide and conquer is working well on DU tonight. How many threads do we have today on this? |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:18 PM Response to Reply #103 |
104. Well, my thread just went over your head as well. |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:40 PM Response to Original message |
111. Your thread didn't go over my head |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:59 PM Response to Reply #111 |
114. What don't you agree with? |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
121. Jumping through rhetorical hoops |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:49 PM Response to Reply #121 |
125. Damn right! |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:47 PM Response to Original message |
123. "Demoting"? LOL! It'd be changing the words on a piece of paper. This is the perfect solution |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:51 PM Response to Reply #123 |
126. Its a perception we would have to fight in this country, and it would be an uphill battle... |
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Meshuga (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 11:12 AM Response to Reply #126 |
136. Do it like in Brazil, allow clergy to let people get their marriage before god |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
124. I couldnt care less what you call it. |
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RhodaGrits (688 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 10:06 PM Response to Original message |
127. Fine with me. |
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chicagoexpat (843 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 02:48 AM Response to Original message |
128. Why do these selfish assholes vomit threads that are NOT RELATED to "PREz ELS? - take ur shit elswhr |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 02:51 AM Response to Reply #128 |
129. OK dude, I have no fucking clue what you are on, but learn how to post, for Christ's sake... |
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chicagoexpat (843 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 02:53 AM Response to Reply #129 |
130. Buy a clue & figger out the world ain't centered around whatever u feel like today |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 02:54 AM Response to Reply #130 |
131. How can it be self centered if it doesn't apply to me in the first place... |
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chicagoexpat (843 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 01:37 PM Response to Reply #131 |
137. u raised it -- why don't u go to the GOP & feel their welcoming embrace? |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 09:02 AM Response to Original message |
133. I don't care what is acceptable to anybody... |
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Meshuga (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 11:04 AM Response to Original message |
135. It is not a demotion |
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