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One of the senior technicians on our team's wife had just gotten pregnant when I first started here. They are adamantly pro-life.
They had done a quad-screen on her, and there were some concerns, so they did an ultrasound to scan. And discovered that the quad-screen had unusual results because their child had complete bilateral kidney agenesis -- the results were bad because her amniotic fluid was very low.
In other words, their baby would never be able to survive after the cord was cut as it was her body that was cleansing it of toxins, not its own. Amniotic fluid is partially produced from a fetus's urine, and low amniotic fluid can cause many other issues. They also learned it was a boy, would have been their first son.
They chose to continue the pregnancy despite no hope of a good outcome whatsoever. Their son was born during her 7th month of pregnancy, and lived for all of 12 hours.
By knowing in advance that their son was going to die, they got to make plans for how they wanted to spend his life. They were able to do their grieving earlier, get support from their friends and relatives and "church family", prepare their two daughters for the fact that their little brother wasn't going to be coming home from the hospital, and so they got to spend the entire time they had their son focused on him and not dealing with the shock right then.
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I personally don't think I could EVER do what they chose to do. Yes, their baby was loved and held for its entire, very short time outside of the womb, but if you've seen someone die of kidney failure, as I have with two of my grandparents, it is a painful miserable condition. I strongly believe that the right to make the choice is of crucial importance.
The fact that Sarah Palin believes that a woman and a family should be forced to continue a pregnancy that has no possible chance of a good outcome for the child, and endure the weeks and months of waiting for the child to be born just to die anyway, is horrific. My coworker and his wife made the choice they did because they believed it was right, and that faith was the ONLY thing that got them through it. If you DON'T believe that it is right to do what they did but yet are forced to, it would be 100 times worse.
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