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WillyT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:47 PM
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Could Someone Please Explain To Me Why We Are Supposed To Be Gracious And...
lay off of Hillary and her campaign\supporters???

Does she have a secret plan to bring the Democrats together ???

:shrug:
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rodeodance Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:48 PM
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1. cause it would show you are a mature human being for starters.
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islandmkl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:50 PM
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...who would not resort to snide innuendos in responses.
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rodeodance Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:15 PM
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33. what is snidy about the truth??
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hokies4ever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-08-08 06:22 AM
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54. You can't handle the truth
Hillary is finished. :rofl:
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Boz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:57 PM
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11. Typing kind of has a good start on that, At least shows dexterity.
Edited on Wed May-07-08 06:02 PM by Boz
The mature part you have to grow into and earn, Hillary Clinton is not doing that when it comes to being a Democrat.

She never learned her lesson from grade school.

It was just because she was a girl then too.

Some people never leave grade school and get stuck around third grade behavior.

Those that do, earn the right to be treated maturely. those that don't, get what they deserve.

We will be gracious when she stops throwing her tantrums, holding her breath until she gets what she wants.

Until then reap what you sow.
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baldguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:49 PM
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2. Be gracious once she & her supporters gracefully acknowledge defeat.
Until then, keep whacking them in the head & once they're down drive a stake through their heart.
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onenote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:52 PM
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5. Many of them here have done exactly that.
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scheming daemons Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:53 PM
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8. And we're gracious to those ones
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:34 PM
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40. They should either join in on the head thwacking or excuse themselves from the room while we finish
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:33 PM
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38. yup.
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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:50 PM
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45. "Whacking them in the head". Grow up.
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baldguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 08:11 PM
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48. No gracious acknowledgment of defeat from you then, huh?
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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-08-08 06:17 AM
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53. You've been watching too many gladiator movies, dude.
This is a political election.
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NewHampshireDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:50 PM
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3. No, but in the event that she does win the nomination
they have a secret plan to go over to Freeperville and convince them to go easy on her. :yoiks:
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onenote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:51 PM
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4. Because our candidate is about change. Not the old style take no prisoners politics
Its one of the things that attracted me to Obama and I'm not about to suddenly turn into the opposite of what he stands for.
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LisaM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:56 PM
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10. LOLOL
Yeah, right.


With all of the hate Hillary crap I've read here today, I really believe that?

If he is really a candidate of hope and change, he would be inspiring a different breed of supporter.
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Cant trust em Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 06:01 PM
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18. or perhaps it's something about Hillary that inspires such intense dislike
I do believe that Obama is a candidate of hope and change. But he's up against a candidate that has always had likeability problems, so it's not surprising that she isn't liked here either. DU is my only access to the blogosphere, but I suspect that there is a type of anonymity bravado that goes on here. Obama supporters I've met in the real world are not like this.
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NewHampshireDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 06:01 PM
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19. Talk about sounding like a troll
That's the same old smear that the RW has used against DEMOCRATS for years. That we somehow don't live up to our ideals, that we can't be progressives if we don't X. Well, I for one do not let the Right Wing define what it means to be a DEMOCRAT and I do not think it is your place to define what it means to be an Obama supporter.
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onenote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 06:21 PM
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21. I have said consistently that I would support HRC if she was the nominee
The fact that anonymous posters on an internet website act like children sometimes isn't a reflection of the candidate. My 93 year old father and his 91 year old lady friend are both HRC supporters; my wife and I are Obama supporters. We discuss the campaign civilly and without rancor.
On this site however, I've been called all sorts of names -- and by Obama supporters who think I am not righteous enough in my opposition to HRC and by HRC supporters who think I'm some sort of tool for supporting Obama.

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scheming daemons Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:52 PM
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6. I'm gracious to any Clinton supporter who admits defeat. I'll be gracious to HRC when she does....
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:52 PM
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7. Because, although difficult, taking the high road is in itself its own reward.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:53 PM
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9. It's in our self interest to do so. We ain't doin' it for them, but for us.
It's their job to roll over and show signs of submission, after having lost, and it's our job to accept that signal of concession. The problem is some of them are not ready to roll over. They are still showing their teeth, and that means more scent marking and growling by our side until they do.

Simple pack animal dynamic.
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FlyingSquirrel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:58 PM
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14. That may be one of the best posts describing GDP that I've ever seen.
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The Night Owl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:16 PM
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34. As I suspected, the apology you posted earlier was a bunch of bullshit.
In the span of one day, you have gone from rightly apologizing for being rude to Clinton supporters to lauding a post which describes them as animals which need to be forced into submission.

:yoiks:
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FlyingSquirrel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 08:14 PM
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49. No dude, you totally didn't get it. I was saying that GDP is pack mentality at this point.
NOT that anyone should really be acting that way.
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The Night Owl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 08:48 PM
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50. Okay. I apologize. I thought you were praising TO for comparing Clinton supporters to animals. {EOM}
Edited on Wed May-07-08 08:51 PM by The Night Owl
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:59 PM
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15. Spot on. (nt)
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 06:49 PM
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26. Discovery Channel, Animal Planet, and National Geographic RULE!!
Whiskers!!

Flower was my favorite. Mom was all business.
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The Night Owl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:07 PM
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30. COMPARING HUMAN BEINGS TO ANIMALS! YOU ARE CLASSY!
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gravity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:57 PM
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12. We can't win the GE without Clinton supporters
People are emotionally attached to these campaigns and it takes time for people to get over them. Attacking Hillary's side now will just make this process worst, and it will just make the general election harder.
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Lucky 13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:58 PM
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13. Explain to me why they continue their fight, but we have to stop ours?
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4themind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:59 PM
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16. She may not, but some of us want to start it on our own
Edited on Wed May-07-08 06:02 PM by 4themind
from the "grassroots" level so to speak, that's been the theme of obama's campaign, and the way we should move forward to bring more people into it, and yes DU is a part of that netroots/grassroots IMP. We know that we will need support from the clinton side and some of us are tired of waiting for her, to conceed, if we can bring more to our side, it won't matter if she's the only one still standing when the music stops, and she has the free choice as to whether she wants to join as well. But I'll do my part by BEING the change that obama is asking for, changing the tone HERE, like he wants to change the tone in washington, and yes there are times whenI've failed at this in the past, but now seems as good a time as any to do my small little part to bring the party together.
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Catherina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 05:59 PM
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17. I wouldn't recommend being gracious to anyone still hurling invectives
Edited on Wed May-07-08 06:02 PM by Catherina
but all Clinton supporters who are being gracious, either in defeat or even in supporting her, deserve to be respected. OTOH, the loudmouth, asshole, war shills who have a bizarre affinity for McCain and have problems being just another color in a Benneton world deserve only scorn.

Full grace can come when Clinton sets the tone by acting with graciousness towards the nominee, the voters and the DNC.

As long as she's out there mercilessly whacking knees and hurting the party, she deserves no mercy.
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 06:09 PM
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20. In order to lead. For the sake of change.
The usual election year vindictiveness isn't very pretty, is it?
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WillyT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 06:28 PM
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22. So... What Exactly Is Her Resposibility To The Democratic Party ???
:shrug:
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-08-08 06:14 AM
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51. The same. n/t
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searchingforlight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 06:30 PM
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23. Because our candidate is a uniter not George Bush
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 06:33 PM
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24. You're supposed to be gracious
because you're a human being interacting with other human beings.
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:10 PM
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32. Thank you.
Jeeeze, when did "gracious" become something we have to justify?

Can someone please tell me why I shouldn't kick my neighbor's dog?
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:38 PM
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42. Why be gracious when you can be a "fighter", which is the most exalted a human can be!
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:44 PM
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43. For what it's worth JVS, after the game is over you get to quit scoring touchdowns.
You can run around holding that ball of yours all you like; the game is still over.
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:58 PM
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46. nothing is over yet
Edited on Wed May-07-08 07:58 PM by JVS
it should/could be, but it isn't
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Raine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 06:36 PM
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25. I take my cue from them...
when they are civil I return the favor but if they give me crap they get it back.
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Cosmocat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 06:58 PM
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28. You might want to take your cue from BO ...
Notice how he gave the Indiana call to Hillary last night during his NC speech, while the networks still gave him a fighting chance ??? And, how he spoke about her in general then, and 99 percent of the time this campaign ...

Hill got on my LAST nerve a LONG time ago ...

But, with the MSM FINALLY calling it for BO, it is over ... Follow BOs lead, he is secure and magnanimous enough to let her have a soft landing, so should every other democrat ... HE needs it, he needs her to land softly, IF she will allow it, to help ensure he has her supporters on board to make sure McCain does not get the white house ...

Long view ...
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varelse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 06:52 PM
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27. She isn't responsible for YOUR divisive actions
YOU are. If YOU want your Democratic nominee to win the General Election, YOU can best serve this goal by being gracious and respectful of all your fellow Democrats, Hillary and her supporters included. You'd be following her example if you did so. Hillary has already said that she will work to get her rival elected in the GE, if the party nominates him.

That is why it is being suggested that Obama supporters behave graciously.
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:00 PM
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29. Because we aren't the fucking enemies,
Edited on Wed May-07-08 07:00 PM by Jamastiene
for starters. You keep going with the hate-fest though, and that may all change.
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NorthernSpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:29 PM
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35. No, only some of you are.
I remind myself of that often.

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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:09 PM
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31. Because (1) you're supporting a candidate who's campaigning on unity, and (2)...
... you don't want to be dick.
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SaveOurDemocracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:31 PM
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36. How about you just treat people the way you'd appreciate

being treated 'if the shoe was on the other foot'.

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Bensthename Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:31 PM
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37. Because it is a good thing to continue to spend money on this campaign while McCain
continues to raise money for the gen election. He made 7 million just today..

No this shit needs to end now.

Staying in any longer is a waist of time and resources.
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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:34 PM
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39. No one expects you guys to be gracious
I expect you to continue being the same assholes you've been all along.
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crankychatter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:35 PM
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41. You have to drop your guard to make it easier to get kicked in the nads
not joking, that is really why
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gcomeau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 07:46 PM
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44. Because we're grown-ups. -nt
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knight_of_the_star Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 08:00 PM
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47. Because we're going to need every Democrat we can use for November
Even with the GOP down and on the ropes they're still not out and we're going to have to pull out all the stops to cream them. Certainly some of Hillary's campaign staff aren't needed but you do need the activists, the rank and file, and the voters and supporters for any kind of major election campaign to succeed. These are people who make up a large chunk of the Democratic Party, if you want to run with a divided, half-hearted effort then you deserve the defeat that will result.
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Enrique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-08-08 06:16 AM
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52. it won't be secret
she'll be publicly helping Obama beat McCain. You can do what you want.
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LWolf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-08-08 06:27 AM
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55. I don't know about HRC and her supporters,
since I'm not one of them. I do know, though, that your post illustrates that Obama, and his supporters, don't exactly have "bringing Democrats together" as a high priority.
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