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Infinite Hope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:16 AM
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Why I Support A Ban On Funeral Protesting
One's constitutional rights are guaranteed to the point where they violate those of others. It's a clear balancing test not only in fact, but in law. Restrictions on FUNERALS of soldiers are a mere recognition of that fact. I don't oppose anyone's freedom of speech. Freedom of speech was never protected everywhere in every circumstance.

Being in the rare position of being both an avid anti-war activist and sibling of a soldier who came inches from death (more than a dozen rounds came inches from his head, hit his upper vest instead and took a bullet and shrapnel to his arm), I have a unique perspective. A funeral is a family's final closure, including families like mine which oppose the war. To have the funeral become a piercing reminder of the senseless and needless loss of his life, to become a painful distraction from that family member and the times and memories past, to become a taint on the final goodbye is reprehensible. Whether intentional or unintentional, such a location for protest becomes not just a protest against the war, but a protest against the soldier who was forced to fight and forced to die.

There are many good places to protest without necessitating yet another painful dagger in the already-bleeding heart of the distraught and mourning family.
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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:17 AM
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1. This is a primary issue?
Anyway, I disagree.

As reprehensible as they are, they have a constitutional right to protest.
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Infinite Hope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:30 AM
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8. Actually they don't. As in the original post, one's rights are only guaranteed until they infringe..
...on the rights of others. That's constitutional law.
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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:32 AM
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10. And where do people have a right
to be free of protesters?

Sorry, if they're on public property, they have a right to protest, no matter how wrong-headed and despicable.
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unpossibles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:51 AM
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13. is a cemetery public property?
I am all for freedom of expression and will even support that right for people I can't stand, but I also believe that a funeral is neither the time nor place.
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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:52 AM
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14. I agree. There's no time or place to protest a funeral.
that's a different question from outlawing it.

The first amendment is not there to protect speech that everybody likes - that doesn't need protection.
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Fovea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 10:06 AM
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17. What needs protection
is the grieving process of those close to the departed.
Interfering in that process is like denying someone sleep against their will.

At the event of interment, or other disposition of the remains such as a memorial service, the funeral party should not be subject to harassment.

This sort of speech is no more protected than showing up with a burning cross at an AME church function, IMO. And anyone subjected to it could claim justifiably to have been damaged emotionally from it.

If I were on the jury of a defendant/family member-friend of the departed who later tracked a protester down and parked their car on them, I would more than likely find for the defendant.





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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 10:11 AM
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18. Sorry, you're just wrong
There's no constitutional right to have a funeral free of protest. There IS a constitutional right to assemble peaceably and protest.
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Infinite Hope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 11:46 AM
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30. Only with a permit. And if a statute restricts funeral protests, such protests are illegal.
And such narrow restrictions on protests at funerals are well-founded and constitutional.
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Fovea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 03:28 PM
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32. How about this?
http://www.law.com/jsp/article.jsp?id=1048518258780


So much for the absolute right of assembly and speech.
and Google Oliver Wendell Holmes and shouting 'fire' in a crowded theater.

The signs and slogans of the Westboro church are no different than a burning cross.
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:18 AM
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2. The whole concept of protesting at any funeral is abhorrent to me.
Prior to Phelps, did that ever even happen?
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:20 AM
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3. i have to agree. nt
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Exilednight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:22 AM
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4. They should be allowed to protest, as long as they can do it....
in a peaceful way. I have seen several videos on youtube where their funeral protests turn violent.

I would argue that phelps's church should be restricted from protesting due to their actions of violence, which they have a long history of.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:24 AM
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5. i dont like the kkk either. they have the right to speak out. i do NOT support the ban
on funeral protest. and i am disgusted by it. i am sorry for those caused more pain because of it
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GarbagemanLB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:25 AM
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6. If the protest is peaceful and on public property, they have every right to do it. They are disgusti
g, though.
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Ian David Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:28 AM
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7. I take a nuanced approach to the issue
Edited on Thu Mar-13-08 09:33 AM by IanDB1
On the one hand, we don't want Republicans claiming every parade, rally, and political meeting to be a "Memorial Service" of some kind, so they can bar protesters. We also don't want them turning actual funerals into a safe-haven where they can stand before the cameras to make unchallenged assertions.

On the other hand, any time we limit free speech somewhere, it is a threat to free speech everywhere.

I would like to see some kind of funeral-protest law upheld, to protect the rights and privacy of mourners, but I would like the law to be defined and interpreted as narrowly as possible, to avoid having it abused and misused.

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Infinite Hope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:32 AM
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9. I whole-heartedly agree. n/t
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:34 AM
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11. As soon as we allow this, you and I won't be able to take to the streets either
Edited on Thu Mar-13-08 09:34 AM by proud2Blib
It's about free speech; whether we like the message or not isn't the point.

And yes, this hits close to home for me. I live in Phelps' backyard.
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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 10:38 AM
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19. Agreed.
Thank you.
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Fovea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:46 AM
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12. I think that funeral protesters should be allowed to protest
Edited on Thu Mar-13-08 09:51 AM by realpolitik
if and only if the friends and families of the departed are allowed to use temporary insanity as an absolute defense for premeditated murder.

I've been to a funeral that was the scene of an early Phelps 'protest'.
Fred Phelps is about as reverend as OxyRush's draft deferral.
It is rare to see so much evil in one small knot of protoplasm.

The first amendment is about communications and the public square. There is nothing about Fred Phelps message that a first amendment zone a required 500 yards from a funeral would be diminished. I feel the same about any protester at any funeral.

I would not protest @ Dick Cheney's funeral. It is not only a sacred rite in all formal religions, it is a deep human need, the denial of which is the abrogation of a fundamental human right, IMO.
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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:53 AM
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15. I don't see "temporary insanity"
being a defense for "premeditated murder". That seems sort of oxymoronic.
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Fovea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 09:56 AM
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16. There you go
you clever little monkey.
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yurbud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 10:39 AM
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20. ...uh, who is doing this besides Fred Phelps?
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 11:32 AM
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21. There is a copycat church here in KC
So I would imagine there are others.
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yurbud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 11:37 AM
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23. starting the thread here made me think you meant some lefties were doing it.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 11:41 AM
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26. Not that I am aware of
But I am not the one who started the thread.
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Ichingcarpenter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 11:35 AM
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22. Totally agree with the exceptions of Dick Cheney's funeral
or Donald Rumsfeld.
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 11:40 AM
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25. wait till the people leave. then you can shit on his grave
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Ichingcarpenter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 11:45 AM
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28. Can I shit in his burial hole before it starts too?
Just wondering the protocol for a War Criminal.
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 11:46 AM
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29. sure. if you have a wide stance
:rofl:
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 11:40 AM
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24. I support funeral protester snipers
bullet in the head. done.
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MadHound Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 11:45 AM
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27. I have to wholeheartedly disagree
As much as I abhor Phelps and his ilk, he does have the right to assemble and demonstrate at funerals(as long as he follows relevant rules such as remaining on public property, etc.). Does it suck, yes, but then again so did the Neo Nazi march in Skokie Illinois thirty years back. But the point of the matter is that if we start limiting the free speech of those groups that we abhor, before you know it, our own free speech will also be dramatically limited, and do we really want to go down that slippery slope.

Yes, I realize that this is painful for the family, yes I realize that it is an abomination, but it is better than the alternative, watching our free speech rights disappear.
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 11:48 AM
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31. Military funerals are paid by taxpayers
and happen on federal land.

But there is the Skokie arguement - deliberately causing mental distress.
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walldude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 03:30 PM
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33. Oh shit.. now you did it.
You got Obama and Hillary people agreeing on something. I think the space/time continuum is about to collapse in on itself.. :rofl:
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JimGinPA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 03:40 PM
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34. Is Anyone Protesting Funrerals Besides That Homophobe "Church" In Kansas?
Pardon my ignorance, but I haven't heard of any other funeral protests.


I just can't see any reason to cause further grief to the families of fallen soldiers for policies the soldiers themselves had no control over.
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Infinite Hope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 10:47 PM
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35. Some groups tried in Minnesota before it was banned about 2 years ago. n/t
Edited on Thu Mar-13-08 10:51 PM by Infinite Hope
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Infinite Hope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-13-08 10:56 PM
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36. I didn't realize the U.S. House of Reps. passed a ban in 2006.
It came up in a google search just now...it must not have passed the Senate...anyone?
http://www.gay.com/news/article.html?2006/05/10/1
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