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ProSense Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:39 AM
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Rutgers team: We accept Don Imus apology

Rutgers team: We accept Don Imus apology

By DAVID PORTER, Associated Press Writer
22 minutes ago

NEW BRUNSWICK, N.J. - Rutgers women's basketball coach C. Vivian Stringer said Friday the team had accepted radio host Don Imus' apology. She said he deserves a chance to move on but hopes the furor his racist and sexist insult caused will be a catalyst for change.

"We, the Rutgers University Scarlet Knight basketball team, accept — accept — Mr. Imus' apology, and we are in the process of forgiving," Stringer read from a team statement a day after the women met personally with Imus and his wife.

"We still find his statements to be unacceptable, and this is an experience that we will never forget," she said.

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The team members respected Imus' willingness to apologize, but they also wanted him to understand how they were hurt, said the Rev. DeForest Soaries, Stringer's pastor, who joined the meeting. Imus tried to explain what he meant, "but there was really no explanation that they could understand," Soaries said on NBC's "Today" show.

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Imus' program is off the air, that's a good thing considering the format of the program and the comments he made. The team has accepted his appology. Still, I believe it's strange how this incident blew in the national media, especially given this, and these points: here and here. Learning about DeForest Soaries' involvement make me even more suspicious.

More about DeForest Soaries here.

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Ninja Jordan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:41 AM
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1. Imus was a leading voice against Bush's war crimes.
That can't stand.
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IronScorpio5 Donating Member (299 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:22 PM
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24. Actually you are 100% correct.
and he supported harold "houdini" ford,jr

and he had all races at his ranch

and he supporrted sids reasearch.


so therefore he had to lynched for words that were so called "offensive" except on mtv and bet.
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mtnsnake Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:42 AM
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2. Did anyone really think they wouldn't accept it?
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MH1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:56 AM
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14. They didn't coome out with a statement after the meeting.
That tells me they had to think about it.
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mtnsnake Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:12 PM
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20. Wasn't the meeting just last night?
That's pretty quick. Perhaps they were going to try and keep it all private, including whether or not they would accept his apology, but maybe the press insisted on hounding them right away for a verdict.

Anyway, it's good that it's out. Otherwise the nation would be dying of anticipation for months, until the DNA results came back on whether or not any apologies were accepted. :)
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PresidentObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:44 AM
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3. Good. Now hopefully the media will focus on the REAL problem on television with racism and sexism.
Or was Imus just the fall guy? Just the man they made an example of?

Anyway, I'm glad they accepted the apology!!
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KittyWampus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:45 AM
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4. Good, now Imus can apologise to the public for polluting our airwaves with his filth
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PresidentObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:47 AM
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6. He didn't ask you to listen. Now did he? n/t
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KittyWampus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:50 AM
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8. So we should allow GE to pollute the Hudson even if we don't live in NY?
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PresidentObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:52 AM
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10. That is the worst example I've ever heard in my life.
Edited on Fri Apr-13-07 11:53 AM by Kerry2008
Are you serious? Come on now. You know how easy it is to not listen to Imus?!? Flip the channel. That easy. Especially when their is worse on the radio and television. Why aren't you bitching about the racism and sexism in shows like MadTV which is on network television and World Wrestling Entertainment which is seen by millions and millions of children every week? There is more filth out there than one slip of the tongue from a shock jock going over board, like he has in the past. And it sadly gets ignored, while Imus is made the fall guy for the wrongs of television.
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KittyWampus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:58 AM
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15. You know how easy it is to ignore strip mining or clear cutting rainforest? Just flip the channel
and ignore the reports on what's going on with environmental degradation.

Oh, that's right. The Corporate Media doesn't really cover that issue anyway.
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PresidentObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:02 PM
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17. I would suggest the situations are far different. Your example is lame.
If they're going to hold Imus accountable, why aren't they holding others accountable?

Is it that Imus is just the fall guy for all the wrongs of television and radio? Is the non-racist Don Imus now the public face of racism and sexism in television, and now that he's gone problem solved? I don't think so!!
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notundecided Donating Member (86 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 01:25 PM
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28. Imus back on the air Monday; Google kcaa Los Angeles
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rurallib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:47 AM
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5. Heard some of the players have received death threats
This is most disgusting. The players were only peripheral players in Imus' little joke. It scares me that some RW knucklehead will feel the need to even the score by harming one of these totally innocent players.
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PresidentObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:48 AM
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7. Wow, death threats? I'm sure Imus would even be pretty damn outraged about that.
Wow.
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ProSense Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:51 AM
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9. Here's what the article said about that:
Deirdre Imus also said that the Rutgers players have been receiving hate e-mail, and she demanded that it stop. She told listeners "if you must send e-mail, send it to my husband," not the team.

"I have to say that these women are unbelievably courageous and beautiful women," she said.

Stringer declined to discuss the hate mail Friday. Rutgers team spokeswoman Stacey Brann said the team had received "two or three e-mails" but had also received "over 600 wonderful e-mails."


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PresidentObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:54 AM
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11. Deirdre Imus is a class act n/t
Edited on Fri Apr-13-07 11:54 AM by Kerry2008
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:07 PM
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18. Deirdre Imus is an enabler...
The question raised all week is, "Would you want these things said about your daughter, wife, mother?"

I watched "Imus in the Morning" every day for the past three years. I know what Deirdre Imus has done to raise the awareness of autism, kids with cancer and greening the environment. I also know what enabling behavior is.
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PresidentObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:10 PM
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19. That is bullshit. Lets take the outrage about Don Imus and place it on his wife now.
This is so incredibly lame. Enabler my ass!!
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:17 PM
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PresidentObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:20 PM
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23. I don't like baseless charges against others. Nice work calling ignorant. Name calling seems to be..
...your game of choice!!

Pretty lame if you ask me.
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WhaTHellsgoingonhere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:38 PM
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26. Awe, man, that's just bullshit...
Edited on Fri Apr-13-07 12:39 PM by WhaTHellsgoingonhere
Time to tap out.
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DURHAM D Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:55 AM
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12. The info on Soaries is interesting - I saw him on tv (MSNBC Hardball)
the other night when he kept referring to Imus as a liberal. I immediately became suspicious of him but did not do any research.
The walking around money from Repubs explains his odd bias.
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theoldman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 11:56 AM
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13. I took a survey among my friends and we all agreed that
Rush should also be fired because he has never apologized for any of his insults. BTW, none of us thought that Imus should be fired because he is no worse than the others. We do not think he is a nice guy but why should he be fired and none of the others many who are much worse. It's like sending one guy to prison for murder but letting 10 others go free.
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LiberalEsto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:00 PM
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16. I went to college with DeForest Soaries
Back then he was called Buster, but I don't remember anything else about him. This was at Livingston College, one of several small colleges that constituted Rutgers University in the early 1970s.

I knew he was involved in some Rethug election issues in recent years. I wonder how and why he got involved in Imusgate. I was a bit shocked to hear his name mentioned during the team's press conference a few days ago.
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erpowers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:18 PM
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22. Stringer, I think
The coach of Rutgers women's basketball team is C. Vivan Stringer, who is a member of Soaries' church. That may be why he got involved. He may have had other reason, but his connection to Stringer might be the reason he got involved. Maybe she asked him to be involved, or maybe he just volunteered.
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LiberalEsto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:23 PM
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25. Lincoln Baptist Church in Somerset, NJ
DeSoaries is pastor there, and it's one of the biggest African-American congregations in the New Brunswick area.It would make sense that a Rutgers faculty member would live and go to church close to campus.
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mzmolly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 12:43 PM
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27. He's the pastor of Vivian Stringer from what I've read?
Soaries was chosen by Coretta Scott King as the keynote speaker at the 2000 Martin Luther King, Jr. celebration in Atlanta. He has also worked for the Urban League and Operation PUSH.

http://www.answers.com/topic/deforest-soaries
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ProSense Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-13-07 02:29 PM
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29. Soaries on Hardball last night.
Edited on Fri Apr-13-07 02:57 PM by ProSense
Hardball transcript (Guests: DeForest Soaries, Carolyn Cheeks Kilpatrick, Elijah Cummings, Eugene Robinson, Pat Buchanan, Tom Oliphant, Chris Dodd):

GREGORY: Yes. And I think—the issues of comedy, of civility, of decency are very important issues, but we cannot get to the larger discussion until we focus on the very specific but unfortunate acts of Mr. Imus last week aimed at some very specific people. We are concerned about the global issues and all of those philosophical—the things that need to happen. My concern is that a member of my church who coaches 10 fine athletes was attacked and defamed by someone without regard to the impact it would make on their lives. These young women will have to wrestle with these issues.

And so they happen to be African- American. They happen to be female. But when this kind of very focused and targeted bigotry is aimed at specific people, not large groups of people, but specific people, then I think you‘ve got to—you‘ve got to respond in kind.

GREGORY: Reverend...

SOARIES: I‘m a Christian. I believe in forgiveness, but I also believe in justice, and justice requires that consequences are attached to our behavior.

GREGORY: Reverend, have you spoken to Don Imus?

SOARIES: I have not spoken to him in the last two hours. I expect to speak to him within the next two hours because when I left him last night, the question that I had posed to him was this: Now that NBC has dropped you, if CBS also drops you before the meeting with the Rutgers women, are you still interested in having a meeting? And his response was that he definitely wanted to meet with the Rutgers women and there was nothing that could happen to prevent him from wanting to do that. And I want to confirm that before the evening ends so that I can proceed with the plans that we had agreed to just two or three hours ago.

GREGORY: Will that meeting happen today?

SOARIES: Pardon me?

GREGORY: Will the meeting between Imus and the women happen today?

SOARIES: Well, the next step for me is to talk to Mr. Imus about his desire to meet and then to talk to the team about the status of the meeting in their minds—I‘m certain that the team still wants to meet—and then take it from there. Needless to say, we have committed to this being both a private meeting and a secret meeting. We don‘t want to turn it into a public spectacle. And so when the meeting takes place and whether it will take place will not be disclosed. The fact that the meeting takes place will be announced after it‘s done.

GREGORY: There‘s going to be a lot of people, Reverend, who ask this question. They‘re going to say there has been so much hysteria about this and that the hysteria took Imus down, not specific injury against these young women, many of whom didn‘t even know who he was, some of whom, including Coach Stringer, had a much more muted reaction when this first came about. You even said in our conversations previously you waited several days until speaking about this from the pulpit. Has Don Imus been caught up in an overreaction?

SOARIES: Well, Don Imus himself said to me last night words that I think all of us should remember, and that is this. Had he not said the words, none of this would have occurred. I can‘t be more concerned about the response to the words than the fact of the words themselves.

Granted, whenever a media frenzy begins, whenever the stories begin to become indistinguishable from rumors, there‘s no doubt there are probably some things that Imus has been accused of doing that are untrue. There are probably some accusations that are unfair. But again, personal responsibility is really foundational for a mature individual, and Imus in his maturity confessed that he had brought this on himself. Now, that does not excuse people from stooping to the level of accusations that are unfounded, et cetera. But we bring things on ourselves, and the Bible says you reap what you sow.

I would hope that now that this specific focus on his status has been resolved, and once the meeting with the Rutgers women has taken place, that we can let the Rutgers women go back to school, we can pray that Imus will grow (INAUDIBLE) from this experience. And then those of us who have a sincere desire to enhance the quality of life in our communities can (INAUDIBLE) in serious dialogue away from the public eye, without the glare of the TV camera, and really attempt to build a more genuine community.

GREGORY: Reverend Soaries, as you are busy trying to put this meeting together as soon as tonight, after CBS has announced that they have now fired Don Imus, one last question for you. What do you think is—what do you think? What is your conclusion—having dealt with him and been in the middle of this, what do you think about Don Imus?

SOARIES: I think Don Imus is a professional. I think he is a mixture of comedy and satire and politics and punditry. I think he has established a brand that is in some ways genius but in other ways dangerous. And he is not likely to change. I don‘t think Mr. Imus will suffer financially. The ego will be bruised.

And my prayer is that he will seek to understand exactly what happened because he touched a nerve in this country that I have not seen since the assassination of Martin Luther King, Jr. And I‘m not trying to be over-exaggerating, but I‘ve never seen this kind of response come from such a broad (INAUDIBLE) of people who agree on the basic proposition and who are so focused on and sympathetic for these 10 young ladies.

And so I think Mr. Imus is deeply apologetic, truly regretful, and will be seeking strategies to really figure this out and to find the next chapter in his life.

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