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Edited on Thu Mar-24-05 09:16 PM by calimary
Terri apparently had weight issues that led to an eating disorder. I'm guessing bulimia - all that purging leads to such things as potassium imbalances - which is what set off her cardiac arrest. But the term "eating disorder" has come up again and again in more extensive coverage of her case. I've also read that she didn't have the greatest relationship with her parents when she was younger, and that her family razzed her about her weight. If she wound up with an eating disorder trying to deal with her self-esteem collapse (being put down for a weight issue you're probably already over-sensitive about), then perhaps deep-down, her parents have some guilt feelings about this. Probably on the surface they don't, because I'd bet they think they've never done anything wrong to her or been abusive or cruel, and this eating disorder stuff is just some fancy-schmancy excuse thing that some northeastern liberal made up. Or maybe it's "junk science." I've seen posts here speculating that they'll need serious counseling after Terri dies (if indeed they don't need it NOW), but they probably won't seek any. They're the "victims" here, hurt because they aren't getting their way. Why on earth would THEY need any therapy?
I've seen denial do some awfully twisted, illogical, unreasonable, irrational things. And considering the eating disorder factor, I'm not terribly sympathetic to these people. I mentioned to my husband just this morning that - if Mrs. Schindler has any awareness of having contributed to Terri's condition by exacerbating (or provoking) her eating disorder, she's got a hell of a way to show she's sorry for it.
And now, they've not only refused to bow gracefully to all these many court cases - all of which go against them - and they insist on making these misleadingly edited videotape moments parading Terri all over the airwaves all over the country (and the world, frankly), at her worst and most vulnerable, then I can't help it - I think they're pretty low. I would no more make a spectacle of my daughter or son in such a stage, just to win an argument. Terri's lost any possibility of a death with dignity. Making a sideshow act out of her and dragging out her suffering for 15 (!) years has robbed her of whatever dignity she may once have had. They've made her into a freak, and they're exploiting her to make themselves feel better and to put off having to face a very hard reality. They need to let go and let her die in peace. Something they probably should have done long ago, but couldn't - mainly because this was NEVER about Terri. It WAS, however, about them. And now that they've brought jackals like Randall Terry and those other opportunistic infections into this, it's become a pig-fuck. Gee thanks, mom and dad. You really protected your daughter, alright.
It's a disgrace. Especially when they testified that they were indeed willing to have arms and legs amputated, limb by limb, if diabetes and gangrene set in, and subject her to radical heart surgery if need be, just to keep her carcass viable. No wonder Michael Schiavo never agreed to give them a divorce. I wouldn't subject my spouse to people who were willing to do that to him. They insist she's still living. You call her present condition LIVING? It's horrible what happened to her. And they're only making it worse. They're only prolonging her agony - and their own, also.
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