Man Kills Wife During Fantasy Sex Gunplay

[onehandle]

DECEMBER 28--An Oklahoma City man facing a murder charge told cops that he accidentally shot his wife while the couple was having sex and engaging “in sexual fantasy involving a gun.” Arthur Sedille, 23, called police last Tuesday to report that he “accidentally shot his wife in the head,” according to a court filing. Rebecca Sedille, 50, died from a single gunshot wound to the head.

Sedille top cops that he and his wife “often engage in sexual fantasy involving a gun,” and that he had “retrieved a handgun from a shelf beside the bed, racked the slide back causing the gun to cock and then placed the gun to his wife’s head.” The gun then discharged.

Sedille, pictured in the above mug shot, told investigators that he “did not realize the gun was loaded until the gun went off.” He is being held without bond at the Oklahoma County jail.

On his Facebook page, Sedille’s “likes and interests” include an assortment of pages devoted to weapons, gun sellers, and Smith & Wesson.

http://www.thesmokinggun.com/documents/sex/man-kills-wife-during-fantasy-sex-gunplay

[NewJeffCT]

1. may she rest in peace

I guess he was too randy to stop & check to see if the gun was loaded or that the safety was off?

[Katya Mullethov]

2. I always take the cylinder out

And set off a little FFFFg in an ashtray .

[spin]

3. "The gun then discharged" ...

why do people always say that. The gun discharge because the fool had his finger on the trigger.

A loaded firearm is not a sexual play toy.

[Travis_0004]

5. 100% correct

Even if its checked right before hand, its still a gun, and you should never violate any of the 4 saftey rules when handeling it.

If gun play is your thing, get a toy gun, and play with that.

[Euromutt]

37. Or alternatively...

...Blade-Tech makes a pretty nifty training barrel http://blade-tech.com/Training-Barrel-pr-1018.html in bright yellow, which replaces the weapon's regular barrel, but doesn't allow a round to be chambered (on account of not having a chamber).

[The Doctor.]

7. Even an unloaded one is not.

Anyone trained in gun safety (which should be everyone who owns/uses guns) knows that you do not ever point any gun, unloaded or otherwise, at someone or something you don't want dead.

Period.

This dipshit is better off locked up.

[hlthe2b]

4. what a horrific waste.... Damn I tire of these kind of gun deaths.

[PavePusher]

8. Why? This is simply evolution in action.

The saddest part is that the man only completed half the job.

Play stupid games in stupid ways, win stupid prizes.

Trying to protect grown adults from their own stupid is counter-productive and, ultimitely, futile.

[hlthe2b]

9. At least it was adults... unfortunatley, it is more often children...

who find the gun and "complete the job."

[PavePusher]

11. Got stats for that?

IIRC, that's not correct.

[hlthe2b]

12. Accidental gun killings in the home not usually children?

I'm not talking homicides or suicides. Show me the stats if you are arguing otherwise.

[pipoman]

19. No, they are not

In 2007 unintentional firearms deaths numbered 119 for people 0-18, they numbered 613 for all ages.

http://webapp.cdc.gov/sasweb/ncipc/mortrate10_sy.html

Oh, and the firearms accident rate has been in near constant decline for nearly 30 years even though every year there are necessarily more firearms in the public.

[hlthe2b]

20. You have to look at age-adjusted RATES, not numbers...

I don't have time to do so, right now. I will try to help you sort this out later after work if I can.

[pipoman]

21. ..

[hlthe2b]

22. Nope...just basic epidemiological and statistical principles.

which you can look up to prove to yourself, if you so choose.

[pipoman]

23. Nope...

I have already proven that the answer to your question, "(Aren't) Accidental gun killings in the home not usually children?" is a resounding 'no'. Now it is your turn to prove otherwise.

[hlthe2b]

24. Don't be obstinate

I said the principle of looking at rates (preferablly age-adjusted) rather than mere numeric counts (i.e., frequency) is established epi /statistical principle. I'm late for work tonight, so I can not search for the appropriate rates nor gather them from the CDC website, which undoubtedly can calculate those rates for you. Maybe later.

[X_Digger]

26. See post 25. Your talking point, it is busted. n/t

[SteveM]

45. "Late for work?" Sounds like the dog ate his homework. nt

[slackmaster]

31. Actual facts are easy to obtain - Roll your own query at WISQARS

http://webappa.cdc.gov/sasweb/ncipc/mortrate10_sy.html

Fee free to define "children" any way you wish, use the age-adjusting feature if you prefer, and post the results.

[cleanhippie]

40. So IOW, you are saying "I made an assertion that I can't or won't support with factual data"?

You originally made the claim, the burden is on you to support it.

[X_Digger]

25. It was right there in pipoman's link..

Select all age groups, and breakdown by age group..

It shows the rate..

The total rate for those under 18? 0.16 per 100,000

The total rate for those over 18? 0.21 per 100,000


Bogus talking point destroyed by actual data? Priceless.

[friendly_iconoclast]

29. Oops, *someone* needs to brush up on applied statistics!

Perhaps these will be referred to as "NRA statistics"...

[X_Digger]

52. *bump* .. see post #25. n/t

[cleanhippie]

39. Well, you said they were, so support that assertion with factual data.

[OneTenthofOnePercent]

28. "...tire of these kind of gun deaths." ??

Well then you must tire easily because I'm sure "this kind" of gun death (sexual play) is all but common. This is first time I have heard of someone killing another while using a gun sexually. I'd be surprised if it happens more than once a year.

[SteveM]

44. I tire of these human-on-human deaths. That improves your statement.

[The Doctor.]

6. That is not practicing safe sex.

:hide:


Seriously, WTF was this idiot thinking? I shudder to think of the number of untrained idiots with guns. Thankfully, the majority of gun owners know better.

[X_Digger]

10. Watch those knives, too..

http://www.thelocal.se/30670/20101207/

http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/historic/32841654.html

I'm sorry, what was your point, if any?

[damntexdem]

13. "I didn't know the gun was loaded."

That alibi has never worked; and adding fantasy sex to it doesn't make it any more palatable.

[Cirque du So-What]

14. Not saying this is the case...

but anyone could concoct a tale of 'sexual fantasies involving a gun' as a cover for premeditated murder.

[GKirk]

27. This is what I was

thinking too. He just thinks he'll get off (so to say) by saying
it was just a little sex game gone wrong.

[Euromutt]

36. Anyone could concoct such a tale, sure

Whether anyone would expect the public prosecutor and a jury to buy it is a different story. And even if you could avoid a murder charge with such a tale, you'd in effect be copping to manslaughter, which is still one of the more serious felonies around.

[madmom]

15. A very similar thing happened around here....

years and years ago. Only difference was wife killed hubby AND hubby was a deputy sheriff. Goes to show you, even people who are supposed to be smart about guns are dumb.

[BR_Parkway]

16. Perhaps the 23 yo had grown tired of the 50 yo wife

[PavePusher]

33. Need pictures of wife.

But your theory may have value.

[IamK]

34. photos here

http://www.kfor.com/news/local/kfor-news-woman-dead-man-shot-wife-story,0,3391099.story?track=rss

[TheCowsCameHome]

17. Ol' Artie really shot his load this time.

Idiots.

[toddwv]

18. At least she died free...

while tied to a bed.

[RSillsbee]

30. Ban sex it's the only way to be safe NT

[PavePusher]

32. Uh... No, thank you.... ;>) n/t

[RSillsbee]

35. But, it's forrrrr the chilllllllldrennnnn!!!!!! NT

[Euromutt]

38. If we ban sex, soon there won't BE any children!

Then, can we go back to living out nasty anime-type sexual fantasies?

[cleanhippie]

41. Was there a point you were trying to make?

Or just another hit and run?

[Pavulon]

42. Did he film it?

then it would be fucking epic. Else who cares, in other news someone dies while choking themselves and having a wank..

[one-eyed fat man]

43. Some one put the "bang" in gangbang? NT

[NaturalHigh]

46. I saw this on the OKC news site.

Kind of a strange deal all the way around. His wife was more than twice his age, and the husband sort of looks like he's bewildered by the world in general.

[Atypical Liberal]

47. Stupid.

Stupid on so many levels.

[Kennah]

48. What exactly was the fantasy?

I'm absolutely serious. The things humans do during sex play never cease to amaze me, but shoving a gun to your wife's head says to me this was an intentional, premeditated act of murder he was hoping to cover up by claiming sex play.

[PavePusher]

49. Rape fantasy, kidnapping fantasy...

the possibilities are myriad.

But they sure went about it in a really stupid way.

[GreenStormCloud]

50. I don't believe his story.

He is 23 with a 50 year old wife? Sounds like instant divorce to me.

[DissedByBush]

51. "You be him, and I'll be her"... n/t