Add all the car accidents, addiction /overdose, sickness,suicide,etc.etc.
Mouths also die,and the dead have need no feeding,
Regarding population growth ,
I wish people would quit trying to seek eternal life or emotional soothing through having children and soothing their loneliness with kids,puffing their egos up through kids and denying other baggage through having children.
Think of the children not the ones you want or have from the parents perspective..but from the child born NOW look at the future you the parent will not be around to see,a kid you chose to birth trying to make it in a world of famine, hardship, death and suffering..because of..why? Because mommie and daddy had issues and didn't want to look at them.So they had a baby.
My god that's sick.It is cruel to bring a baby into this mess.
How is it possible to be so fundamentally selfish and yet be so transformed in your own perceptions and that of your culture into a paragon of unselfishness? How is it possible to believe your acts to be so virtuous when they are transparently motivated by the lowest form of self-interest?
http://www.punkrockacademy.com/stm/essay/selfishness.htmlIf people thinking of having kids would stop and think,get out of themselves and what they want,and took efforts to empathize with the not yet born,to realize what potential horrors these kids they have will face if things do not change in this world and fast.
Their children may very well grow up and be furious at what kind of world they got dumped into.Unspeakably and righteously angry at all the past generations of selfish parents that kept on denying what their selfishness was costing to this world .It will be severe the fury the next generations will have for all parents for making THEM foot the bill of their consuming and breeding without caring ,a legacy of a dead planet to try to fix,and the heavy price of generations of selfish short sighted parents having kids to ignore their insecurity and facilitate denial.I don't blame future generations for hating this generation if we are too busy denying reality to think of them and the life they will face if we do not change..
Child free is an option and sometimes not being a parent makes you a better person..a more radical and risk positive citizen.
The reason why many parents choose the path of self-sacrifice is because they want to take their focus away from themselves. If their lives are not going so well, or if they haven’t achieved what they hoped to achieve in their lives, they can forget about all those problems by directing their attentions to their own kids. To be more accurate, they are not self-sacrificing; they are self-denying. They are using their kids as an excuse to be in denial. And, I must say, it’s a great excuse because it sounds so noble to say, “My kids come first.” But, what the kids are getting in reality are parents who are in denial about their own shortcomings.
http://dyske.com/index.php?view_id=855And adult shortcomings denied generation after generation by a self serving denial of parents using kids as a reality buffer/distraction from the unpleasant realities of civilization and the human condition.That denial is what got us all into this mess collectively.
Adults with no kids would be able to fight against the demands of bosses and the corruption easier if picketing and solidarity did not mean the kids might suffer,Would adults be bolder in fighting corruption with no children? Could more adults without kids make it easier for us all to hold the state's feet to the fire?
The threat of Losing a job or going to jail implies your kids would not have a parent to tend them. So parents are risk aversive on fighting social issues if it means job loss or jail or death..so kids in effect do make a significant amount of
adults less willing to risk for activism and social justice , less radical if it means possible risk to themselves.
That is why the political agenda of limiting contraception and choice is such an issue for the authoritarians,because they WANT as many adults as possible to be risk aversive,tied up with children so they won't fight the state or business or political tyrants because they gotta do what they gotta do to protect the kids they brought here..
And if Parents still cannot face the fact of their lives being the way they are, the dissatisfaction bad relationships,stress and the struggles are painful.Politics becomes far away and so does the destruction of the planet,and so fighting it in a radical risky way is not worth the risk,because of the children,Kids are a great distraction from the responsibilities of being a human being sharing a planet..Just look at the diapers in landfills they are a symbol to me of this selfish denial parents have and highlights the disconnect between their choice to have kids and how it effects the world we all need to share and keep clean to survive here, kid or no kid.