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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 06:29 PM
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No one likes me.
:-(

I have like one friend, and I haven't talked to her since she moved out. She was staying with me temporarily, and I believe she's seen just how horrible I am and now even she doesn't like me. Damn.

:cry:

Will you be my friends?
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 06:52 PM
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1. .
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redwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 07:00 PM
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2. of course!
:hug:
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muffin1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 07:08 PM
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3. Absolutely!
:hug:
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 07:10 PM
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4. There are billions and billions of people in the world. I say: go meet more of them
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 07:12 PM
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5. I know.
I think college will do the trick friend wise. That and the program I am going to use to go there.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 07:19 PM
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6. My dear originalpckelly!
Of COURSE I will be your friend!

After all, I bought your star for you, didn't I?

I don't do that for just anybody, you know...

:hug:
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 07:31 PM
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7. It just seems like no one notices me when I post.
Edited on Wed Nov-24-10 07:31 PM by originalpckelly
I have family, although I've been in a place where they didn't even want me. I guess it's part of getting one's life turned around.

Thanks for being my friend! :P
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 07:41 PM
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8. I will always be your friend...
:hug:
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siligut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 07:46 PM
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10. Oh sweetie, no one notices anyone when they post.
:grouphug: You're just feeling a little down, it is easy to do this time of year. Make yourself a nice cup of tea and hang out in the lounge for a while. Or, if you have Netflix, watch a funny sit-com or two.
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Capn Sunshine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 08:29 PM
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14. Oh, join the club.
Most of us aren't the kool kidz.
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pgodbold Donating Member (953 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 07:43 PM
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9. Hugs to you.
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ornotna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 08:10 PM
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11. Of course I'll be your friend
But don't get too excited, my standards are pretty low.








:P
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guitar man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 08:16 PM
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12. I know how you feel
Ironically, I seemed to have more friends when I was a drunk asshole. Now that i've quit drinking, not so much :(
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 08:22 PM
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13. Look at it this way. The people who are still your friends are much more reliable friends.
They like when you're sober. That's gotta count for something.
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Curmudgeoness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 08:30 PM
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15. Who told you? We all tried to keep it a secret that no one liked you.
Just trying to cheer you up, dear. We all feel this way sometimes. Hell, my family hardly tolerates me sometimes, although they are all far away from me.

Just hold your head up and keep looking for new friends. You might want to ask your one friend if there is a problem, and what that is---ask for honesty. It won't matter if she really doesn't like you now that she knows too much. And it may give you help in what you are doing wrong, if you are doing anything wrong. It may not be you though. You have no idea how many people there are out here who have few or no friends, and it isn't anything they do wrong. Me, I am just too pessimistic for people to want to be around. They avoid me. But at least I realize this and could work on it. If I wanted to.

I love the people here in the lounge, they have so much empathy. We will all be here for you.

:pals:
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 09:11 PM
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16. Definitely!
Let me give you a friendly hug, :hug:

Like you, I need more friends. Feel free to PM me if you ever wish to chat about anything.
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MiddleFingerMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 09:12 PM
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17. I wrote you a pome.
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A POME ABOUT MY INCLINATION AND FERVENT DESIRE TO BE ONE OF THE BOUNDLESS MULTITUDE OF INTIMATE ASSOCIATES (AND EVEN HANGERS-ON) OF THE HITHERTO ALLEGEDLY "FRIENDLESS" PCKELLY IN A BI-METRICAL STYLE OF ALLITERATION
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pick me
pc
pick me!!!
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THE END
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Two statements above I have to mention, the first true and the second false
(at least false in MY case) -- that (from memory) "nobody pays attention to
anybody when they post" (true dat - kinda) and "none of us are the kool kidz" ---
BULLCRAP... ... I am one of the kool kidz... in fact, I happen to be THE
kool ki... ... um... ... oh geez... ... dang it... ...I just wet myself again.
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THE VAST MAJORITY OF THE TIME... I am THE kool kid.
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I'll be back after I change.
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And oh, yeah... this:
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eesNA_W44SU
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caitxrawks Donating Member (431 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 09:17 PM
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18. aw.
All my friends are online. It's tough being a SAHM.
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UTUSN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 10:22 PM
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19. You're KIDDING!1 aren't you?!1 You are an all time DU stalwart!1 n/t
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KT2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-25-10 04:57 AM
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23. That is my take too!
Hang in there PC - the holidays can be rough but better things are probably in your future.
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rurallib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-24-10 10:43 PM
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20. what's in it for me? (raised by republicans)
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astral Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-25-10 01:46 AM
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21. You can get through this time in your life.
Often when people live together they clash in ways they would never know being just friends who DON'T live together. It doesn't have to be all about you, but then only you know if have things you regret about it. You can get through that too, and forgive yourself and give yourself a chance to move on.

I have felt that way myself at times in my life, and I have somewhat felt alienated from my family but that was my doing. I don't like their selfish 'gimme gimme' greedy attitude and can never ask them for anything because I do not want anything to do with them. Not ALL my family, but my family is small.

Out of the billions of people on this planet today and through eternity, there isn't a one of us who isn't 100% human.

Holidays are hard for me, too. If I had no family left to care about I would prefer to skim through the holidays without really acknowledging them. But that's because it makes me sad. I try to pamper myself with lots of down-time and rest during this time. I feel less stressed when I am rested.

Hang on and don't beat yourself up. The lowest hardest times of our lives are the periods of time when we are growing stronger.

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denbot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-25-10 02:04 AM
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22. We are friends of the friendless (video included)
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-25-10 06:24 AM
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24. You know what that video reminds me of?
How their marriage broke up just a few years later due to his serial philandering. Also, you can see Fred & Ethyl in that clip. In real life Vivian Vance and William Frawley loathed each other.

Happy Thanksgiving, yall!
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Connie_Corleone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-25-10 08:43 AM
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25. I like you!
Edited on Thu Nov-25-10 08:44 AM by Connie_Corleone
I'll be your friend.
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clyrc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-25-10 08:49 AM
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26. I believe I'm already your friend
On that, you know, other place on the internet where people interact but you aren't there all that often. So just to let you know, you are my friend, of a sort, and I like you.
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