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mreilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-27-10 11:42 PM Original message |
So, my marriage is basically going down the tubes... |
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flying rabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-27-10 11:55 PM Response to Original message |
1. Best wishes |
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A HERETIC I AM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-27-10 11:55 PM Response to Original message |
2. This fellow settles into his airline seat chuckling quietly to himself.... |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-27-10 11:55 PM Response to Original message |
3. I'm so sorry to hear this... |
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Broken_Hero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 12:02 AM Response to Original message |
4. I'm sorry that you |
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mreilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 12:08 AM Response to Original message |
5. Thanks |
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liberaltrucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 12:08 AM Response to Original message |
6. Been there, done that my friend |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 12:35 AM Response to Original message |
7. I just feel sorry for your kids. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 12:39 AM Response to Reply #7 |
10. yeah after reading the whole thing I agree |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-01-10 08:27 AM Response to Reply #7 |
48. Totally agree. Staying in a loveless marriage teaches children that marriage is loveless. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 12:36 AM Response to Original message |
8. ... |
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mreilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 12:50 AM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Thanks but.. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 01:07 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. you sound like you are toxic to each other |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 01:18 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. pretty much what I was thinking |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 07:43 AM Response to Reply #13 |
23. and have kids |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 03:52 PM Response to Reply #23 |
35. it's prob. the having kids that caused it in the first place |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 04:04 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. lol, some of us manage to not only like our kids, but get along AND have sex |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 07:00 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. I know the post wasn't directed at me.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-01-10 08:13 AM Response to Reply #41 |
47. i totally agree with individual choices. i dont agree |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-01-10 09:12 AM Response to Reply #37 |
49. lol, and some of us still have GREAT sex |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-01-10 09:22 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. agree. |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-01-10 10:46 AM Response to Reply #35 |
54. What a load of steaming shit. |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 11:02 AM Response to Reply #13 |
26. I think it's a mistake to look for a concrete, rational "why" in situations like this |
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leeroysphitz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 12:39 AM Response to Original message |
9. Hey, I know that girl... n/t |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-01-10 09:29 AM Response to Reply #9 |
51. Girl? Sounds like she's nearing 40. nt |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 01:24 AM Response to Original message |
14. It's seldom all one person's fault in the marriage. |
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Ikonoklast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 11:35 AM Response to Reply #14 |
28. I'm willing to bet his wife would be unwilling to attend more than one session. |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 01:50 AM Response to Original message |
15. This is a terrible situation. |
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Sultana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 01:51 AM Response to Original message |
16. Awww, so sorry |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 01:53 AM Response to Original message |
17. . |
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MrMickeysMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 02:13 AM Response to Original message |
18. You have 3 kids, you're 40ish, and experience, and that's gonna carry you through. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 03:29 AM Response to Original message |
19. I stayed too long in a verbally abusive marriage |
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travelingtypist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 03:37 AM Response to Original message |
20. You need a swift kick in the ass. |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 11:38 AM Response to Reply #20 |
29. Good advice |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 04:26 AM Response to Original message |
21. I take issue |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 04:27 AM Response to Original message |
22. COUNSELING. What the hell could you possibly have to lose by giving it 6 months? |
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Mudoria (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 08:07 AM Response to Original message |
24. Time to move on |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
25. Pick your partners wisely folks: |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
27. Every deserves a good relationship. Time to find it. Will be good for the kids, too. n/t |
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AwakeAtLast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 11:43 AM Response to Original message |
30. I'm so sorry |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
31. I've been there both as a child and in a marriage |
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Raven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
32. I tried to resist replying to you, but... here goes: |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 12:32 PM Response to Original message |
33. Quit whining and feeling sorry for yourself..... |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 01:25 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. The marathon remark, just imaging that whole scene just broke my heart for that kid. |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 03:56 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. You picked up on some very salient points |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 09:33 PM Response to Reply #33 |
44. IF my hubby felt this way about me, i would want him to have the guts to be honest |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 10:08 PM Response to Reply #33 |
45. *I'm* glad you don't practice anymore. n/t |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-01-10 12:30 PM Response to Reply #45 |
55. Oh, I do practice, just not family law. Had a few too many cases |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-01-10 09:33 AM Response to Reply #33 |
52. Well thought out post, especially what you said about the marathon remark. nt |
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Demoiselle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
38. See a counselor by yourself. |
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coyote (900 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
39. I don't know... |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
40. I am sorry you have to go through this. I am also sorry for your children. |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
42. Have you tried marriage counselling? Because being blamed as wrong all the time |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
43. You actually don't have real communication in your marriage |
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Qanisqineq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-28-10 11:47 PM Response to Original message |
46. I feel bad for you and your children |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-01-10 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
53. My $.02 worth. Try marriage counseling, if your spouse will. |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-01-10 12:39 PM Response to Original message |
56. Wow, you're going through a rough time... sorry |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-01-10 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
57. There are patterns that form in relationships. Most are pretty common and take work to avoid. |
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