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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 03:02 PM
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Wow, this dumbass "therapist" thinks us folks with Asperger's make bad spouses and parents.
Edited on Sun Oct-25-09 03:02 PM by Odin2005
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 03:09 PM
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1. depending on the severity of any mental illness it can be very hard on the spouse
the writing seems to be talking in generalities of one what may/may not expect. i think when you dont have aspergers warning one of what to expect is not entirely a bad idea.

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vadawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 03:16 PM
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2. +1 your probuably right, any mental illness or disability can cause issues in a marraige
or for ones kids, think it seems pretty self evident.....
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KamaAina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 04:07 PM
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3. It's debatable whether autism and Asperger's qualify as mental illnesses
we exist in the place where psychiatric, cognitive and neurological disability intersect. Kind of like a town that's right where three counties meet: which fire department do you call, etc.?
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 04:12 PM
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4. Um, that's a stretch of illogic if there ever was...
As for spouses, its all about synergy and chemistry. If their Sig Other brings out the best in them, then its a good marriage.

As for parents - I've known quite a few aspies in the tech industry who have kids. In most cases, not only were they good parents, if their kids were aspies too the parents knew what it was like.

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surrealAmerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 06:05 PM
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5. When you come right down to it, most people ...
... make bad spouses and parents. Why should you be any different?
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