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coloradodem2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 05:46 PM
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Why do you think people like porn?
Just a curious question. For me, I think that it is any one of two reasons.

1. They don't have a relationship and it fills a void.

2. Because American society is soo repressed by making it taboo.


I remember watching this Larry King With Dr. Laura on it. She said that people who watch porn watch it because they don't want a relationship. She said that they don't want any of the personal connection and porn is impersonal. That is such a stupid hypothesis from a stupid person who thinks she is an expert in psychology but does not even have a degree in it.
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Jack_Dawson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 05:48 PM
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1. To see Uninhibited Chix
:shrug:
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ProfessorGAC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 05:49 PM
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2. Completely Baffled
It does nothing for me, never has, and i admit i don't understand why anyone watches it.
The Professor
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Jack_Dawson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 05:50 PM
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3. Are you...male?
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 05:50 PM
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4. Dr. Laura should pay me a little visit then...
Not to point out what a hypocritical filthy whore she was, but because I am single, do want a relationship, but nobody likes me.

Porn doesn't fill a void. Not substantially. It just gets people through the night... uh, no pun intended...

What worries me are the braindead nitwits who blindly believe everything she says.
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MrSlayer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 05:50 PM
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5. I don't know. I was over the whole porn thing in my teens.
What fun is there in watching people do it when you could be doing it?
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mhr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 05:53 PM
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6. For Us Old Geezers, Definately Number #1
Have not had a date in years.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 05:54 PM
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7. naked people are arousing!
Edited on Thu Mar-18-04 05:55 PM by lionesspriyanka
i love porn and dont think its anything to be ashamed of...also in mycase its not in lieu of anything...its just an enhancement to my sex life...
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plcdude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 05:15 PM
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45. exactly
well said girl
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MAlibdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 05:56 PM
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8. uhhhh...boobs, heh heh
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:00 PM
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11. yeah!!
bring em on!!
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progressivejazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 05:58 PM
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9. Can I guess your gender?
Female, right? I've never heard a male ask for an explanation.

Your reason #1 doesn't explain why people in a meaningful, sexually satisfying relation choose to add to that satisfaction by looking at porn. They do, from my experience.

Your reason #2 doesn't explain why people in non-repressed societies where it is not taboo like porn. I'm talking about most of Europe, here.

I think people like porn because it stimulates them sexually and they get really good orgasms as a result. Simple as that.

Male or female, try looking at (seems best for most males) or reading (seems best for most females) some porn and see what it does for you. Loosen up.

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coloradodem2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:33 PM
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20. I am Male.
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Uzybone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 05:53 PM
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49. the simplest answer
is often the most correct. Well said.
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boobooday Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 05:59 PM
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10. What a load of crap
Lots of couples watch porn together. How does that wash?

I think people like to watch other people have sex. It gets them horny. And in America, violence is like porn, but we love porn and don't like to admit it, so we just keep it in a plain brown wrapper.

One of the hotel chains is the company that profits most from porn. Hilton, or Marriott, I think.



http://www.wgoeshome.com

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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:01 PM
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12. true
my gf and i watch porn together
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BayCityProgressive Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:07 PM
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13. I have nothing against it
I am a gay male and I cant stand watching it. I have a boyfriend..if I want sex I can get it lol. My BF on the other hand likes it..but usually only if he isn't getting the real thing.
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Uzybone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 05:56 PM
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52. I work with a major cable company
Porn is one of our top ranked money makers. And Im pretty sure its not just lonely people who cant get dates who watch it.
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citizen snips Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:07 PM
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14. Porn is addicting.
Edited on Thu Mar-18-04 06:11 PM by MATTMAN
I have seen it a lot at school and on pop up adds. I got addicted to it for a few weeks than I just got tired of looking at it.

I just got tired of seeing people fucking each other senseless.
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revree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:08 PM
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15. I am married, and me and me hubby like it a lot
because it is FUN!!!!!

God forbid we have fun anymore.
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plcdude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 05:17 PM
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46. same here with my wife
thanks
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fob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:08 PM
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16. There are people who DON'T like porn?
Like asscroft using $8,000 of OUR money to cover a METAL breast on a statue representing Justice?

Those kinda people?
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hippiechick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 07:13 PM
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30. No, people like me
... Who aren't turned on by naked bodies, fake moaning, cheezy music, emotionless interaction, and in some cases humiliation/exploitation of other human beings.


:eyes:


:hippie:


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fob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 04:09 PM
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40. I assume by "aren't turned on by naked bodies" you mean
pictures/movies of others? If you mean even live persons with which you have a relationship, that's just not healthy.

Again my satire level must have been too low to register, although I thought the ashcroft remark was plenty. (note to self - increase satire level of posts)

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Mountainman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:20 PM
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17. It turns them on
To many people that's a good thing.
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Shifty-Eyed Llama Donating Member (20 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:22 PM
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18. Uh...people watch it because it arouses our sexual fantasies.
That's why I watch it, anyways. I love porn, I'll always watch it, and no one will tell me otherwise.

Besides...I don't want a relationship right now, so it does fill a nice void I have. :)
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:28 PM
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19. Alternatively, sexual titillation
is a fairly natural response to seeing an attractive body (or bodies) in sensuous poses or situations.
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fameless Donating Member (236 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:37 PM
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21. cause its AWESOME?
extremely awesome.
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stopbush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:39 PM
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22. Most males are stimulated by visual images.
That's why porn excites most guys. It's different for women.
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Mass_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:40 PM
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23. because you can get off to it!
Edited on Thu Mar-18-04 06:43 PM by Mass_Liberal
Dude. Isn't it obvious? People like Porn because they can jerk off to it. It's not of special psychological significance. It doesn't prove jack shit about their character. Its just porn. Its been around for many centuries. God bless it!
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Whitacre D_WI Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:50 PM
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24. Good porn is good. Bad porn is bad.
Like any other aesthetic pursuit.

And ANYTHING that pisses off Asscroft is GOOD.
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Shifty-Eyed Llama Donating Member (20 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 06:59 PM
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25. I"m sure Ashcroft gets off on porn...
if he says he doesn't, then he's a liar.
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burythehatchet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 10:32 PM
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37. ...and Candy Stripers is out on DVD
all is right with the world
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 07:02 PM
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26. Ummm... seeing hot guys all naked, maybe?
:evilgrin:
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zanana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 07:08 PM
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27. I'm an old married lady and I like porn.
They always concentrate on the female body too much, though. You like big boobs, huh? Well, how about us dirty old women who would like to see something else large? By the way, is there any plastic surgery for that? Maybe an implant?
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 07:10 PM
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28. I'm gay.
So I probably share your tatses more than you realize. ;)
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skypilot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 04:56 PM
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42. Have you noticed...
...that BEDS seem to be disappearing from gay porn?:shrug:
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 10:06 PM
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34. There is an alternative...
Gay male porn has no female bits involved whatsoever! Of course, depending on what the men do might still turn you off, but nobody's perfect...

Actually, I've seen some straight porn that shows more of the man than of the women. They're either catering to women, bisexuals, closet gay men, or are trying to get straight men interested in other men... :shrug: :eyes:
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absyntheNsugar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 07:12 PM
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29. Men are all about new and old
As Bill Maher put it, Hugh Grant had Elizabeth Hurley at home still went to a hooker (he said it better...I can't do him justice.)

Women are the same way IMHO, but they don't always admit it.

Porn lets you get the release, without the sin if you will....
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Dogmudgeon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 07:28 PM
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31. It all depends
And what it depends on is so idiosyncratic that it's impossible to give a definitive answer.

Sorry.

I'm not a big pornophile myself, but every now and then, I'll see something I like. And sometimes it's not even in porn.

--bkl
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WoodrowFan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 09:51 PM
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32. ask Dr. Laura
about her old boyfriend who took the porno pics of her why he did it and why she posed. She can answer the question from 1st hand (double meaning intended) experience.
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Bridget Burke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 04:42 PM
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41. Does Bartcop still have the Naked Dr. Laura pix?
Perhaps it's time for them to be re-distributed.

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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 09:54 PM
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33. Because sex is fun
This makes you want to have sex and sex feels good, so it's fun to watch. Other than workers rights issues, I have no inherent problem with porn involving consenting adults. I'm sure it could get out of hand with some people who get obsessive about it, but as with many things, in moderation, it can be fun. I am, for the most part, in a relationship and I'm not repressed, so neither of these apply to me.
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fujiyama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 10:12 PM
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35. Regarding reason #1...
Edited on Thu Mar-18-04 10:12 PM by fujiyama
That's probably true in most cases, however, there are many people in relationships that like porn too.

Porn is sexually stimulating. That's all there is to it.

Granted, I myself will never understand the infatuation with outrageously sized fake breasts. I want 'em natural all the way!

:evilgrin:
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lucidmadman Donating Member (551 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 10:21 PM
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36. The return of the repressed...
...Capitalism asks us to ignore the promptings of the libido so we can work.
Mainstream 'porn' is mostly crap. It's pictures of people working. Ironic, huh?
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VOX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 10:36 PM
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38. "The Passion of the Christ" is #1 box office...
Serious s&m and snuff porn that a fundie can feel righteous about.

You make that movie with anyone else but JC in that role, you get an X rating.

Sex = bad. Violence = good. Our country is so twisted!

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IronLionZion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-18-04 10:40 PM
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39. to fulfill fantasies your girlfriend won't do
:evilgrin:
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sarahbellum Donating Member (58 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 04:59 PM
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43. to see barely legal asian teens?
i know how insightful i am, you needn't tell me.
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TEXASYANKEE Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 05:01 PM
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44. Because of the orgasms.
I enjoy porn (not all of it, but some things definitely do turn me on). I find a nicely-put-together male body to be visually stimulating and nice orgasms usually follow.
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plcdude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 05:54 PM
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50. sam here
except a nicely put together female body does the same for me
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 05:21 PM
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47. I have a great sex life and I love porn.
For one thing, I'm bi and porn is part of my fantasy life with women as I'm not interested in cheating on my husband.

But to put it most simply, I like porn because it gets me off. So does sex, so do toys, so do lots of things. Why limit myself?
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plcdude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 05:49 PM
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48. Amen
Sister we have to continue to speak out about this both male and female.
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President_G_W_Bush Donating Member (253 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 05:55 PM
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51. Obviously because Pickles and Barb are taken
The twins are still available though.
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geniph Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 07:24 PM
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53. My husband happens to like to look at pictures of attractive people
partially or completely unclad. I see no problem with that. I occasionally like watching a reasonably well-made hardcore flick myself, although most of the photos on the web don't do much for me. Why place value judgements on it? People like what they like; it doesn't have to be some horrid evil thing.
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Redleg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-19-04 11:55 PM
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55. 'Cause it makes me tingle down there.
Edited on Fri Mar-19-04 11:55 PM by Redleg
Ha ha ha.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-20-04 12:03 AM
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56. Because there is nothing good on cable?
:shrug:
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bearfan454 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-20-04 12:04 AM
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57. Because it is fun to look at.
Especially the mpegs.
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regnaD kciN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-20-04 04:11 AM
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58. Beats me...
:evilgrin:
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