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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 10:46 PM Original message |
Poll question: So, I need some advice about an old flame. |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
1. drop it and him |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 10:59 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. +1 |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 11:15 PM Response to Original message |
3. Nope |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
4. Run, don't walk. |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 11:56 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. What she said. |
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dixiegrrrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 11:37 PM Response to Original message |
5. You can never go home again. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:00 AM Response to Reply #5 |
9. speak for yourself, girl |
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WilmywoodNCparalegal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 06:39 AM Response to Reply #9 |
33. Ditto... |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 07:19 AM Response to Reply #33 |
36. I'm happy for you! This guy was never my life's great love. |
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LaydeeBug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 07:31 AM Response to Reply #9 |
39. I think I'm with you...he's just ACHING to be flipped... |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 11:32 AM Response to Reply #9 |
46. Thanks for the story! |
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evlbstrd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
6. No way. |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 11:46 PM Response to Original message |
7. Walk away from him. Right the fuck now. |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:06 AM Response to Original message |
10. Who said yes? |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 05:58 AM Response to Reply #10 |
25. Slap me! I had an ulterior motive. I knew he had some old pix |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 11:45 PM Response to Reply #25 |
66. ha |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:10 AM Response to Original message |
11. I don't know, I just started a friendship with my old high school girlfriend |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:20 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. In a shocking turn of events never before seen on DU nor anywhere else... |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:22 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. Damn. |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:25 AM Response to Reply #12 |
14. That's pretty good. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 05:51 AM Response to Reply #11 |
22. I'd love to be able to be friends with him--even if he has become a rw follower-- |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:25 AM Response to Original message |
15. Do not go meet a right wing stalker |
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Richard Steele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:40 AM Response to Reply #15 |
19. Thank you so much for expressing that in words. |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 01:21 AM Response to Reply #15 |
21. +1 |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 05:54 AM Response to Reply #15 |
23. See, this is exactly my fear. I have recognized that he's still trying to make me feel |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 11:54 PM Response to Reply #15 |
67. I agree with this post. |
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Richard Steele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:30 AM Response to Original message |
16. Where's the "Oh holy shit HELL NO!!!" option? |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 05:54 AM Response to Reply #16 |
24. You're right. I should have included that one! |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:32 AM Response to Original message |
17. I'm always up for adventure, |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 01:00 AM Response to Reply #17 |
20. +1 N/T |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 06:08 AM Response to Reply #17 |
27. You are so right. You always are! See, this is why I posted this little story/poll. |
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travelingtypist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:39 AM Response to Original message |
18. You don't say, but did you discuss this with hubby? |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 06:12 AM Response to Reply #18 |
29. Very astute observation. I already know--having been married to hubby for 24 years-- |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 06:47 AM Response to Reply #29 |
34. I notice that you still didn't quite say whether you've discussed this with your husband. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 06:04 AM Response to Original message |
26. I generally try to avoid collisions of the galaxies. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 06:12 AM Response to Reply #26 |
30. Good advice. See, that's why I love DU. |
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peacefreak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 06:11 AM Response to Original message |
28. If he really cared for you, he wouldn't put you in this situation. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 06:18 AM Response to Reply #28 |
31. After sleeping on this overnight, I've decided there is no way I'll meet him alone. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 06:23 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. I'd still mention the situation to my husband before any meeting, |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 07:28 AM Response to Reply #32 |
38. I will definitely run this idea by hubby. My French friend might get |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 07:34 AM Response to Reply #38 |
41. If she's anything like my French girlfriends, |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 07:37 AM Response to Reply #41 |
42. Yes. I don't want to put her on the spot, either. Both she and hubby |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 07:40 AM Response to Reply #42 |
43. I wouldn't even worry about what Mr. Teabagger wants. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:07 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. Your mom sounds like my husband. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:17 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. My mom's straight up honest. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 11:18 AM Response to Reply #31 |
44. I don't understand why you want to see him. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 03:21 PM Response to Reply #44 |
55. See, this is why I put this up here. I think the guy's harmless, just wanting |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 12:11 AM Response to Reply #55 |
68. It was a long, long time ago. |
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mikeytherat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 06:59 AM Response to Original message |
35. Sounds like you have a real Mark Sanford after you. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 07:21 AM Response to Reply #35 |
37. I was watching Bill Maher last night--repeat from previous Friday. |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 07:32 AM Response to Original message |
40. You guys are drifted too far apart |
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regularguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
45. I don't care about the political/religous stuff, but |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 03:22 PM Response to Reply #45 |
56. Thanks. I'm now leaning towards not seeing him at all, even with my friend from France. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
47. You're both married now? He's a right-wing Repub, and listens to Glen Beck? |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 03:25 PM Response to Reply #47 |
57. My brother in law listens to Rush, believe it or not! And we just |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:09 PM Response to Original message |
49. Oh my I was leaning to voting yes |
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frogmarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:20 PM Response to Original message |
51. Even if he |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
52. tell him your hubby is coming, too |
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dixiegrrrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 01:10 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. Oh..that idea I could go for. Do bring hubby, and suggest he bring his wife. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 03:26 PM Response to Reply #53 |
58. LOL. Great idea. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
54. wow run for your life |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 03:30 PM Response to Reply #54 |
59. A lot of people have given me some great advice, here, but your coment |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
60. Thanks, everybody. See post #59 |
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dixiegrrrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. Be sure to tell us the rest of the story ...I hate loose ends. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 08:18 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. I sent him a one sentence e-mail today saying I didn't think getting together |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 08:45 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. It's not about him keeping his distance - |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 08:42 PM Response to Original message |
63. No. No, No, No. BAD idea. Don't do it. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-21-09 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
65. It's up to you, of course, but since you asked... |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-22-09 02:38 AM Response to Original message |
69. Only see him if you want to cheat and don't care about your husband's feelings. |
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