What do you find are the sexiest parts, of the members of the sex you are attracted to?

[NJmaverick]

What do you find the sexiest?

[suninvited]

1. You might want to edit your title

or I am just completely misreading it.

Anyway, I find personality and a sense of humor to be what I am most attracted to in a man.

[NJmaverick]

5. OK, I fixed it up

[taterguy]

2. The honest answer is brain

And not because I have some freakish zombie thing going on

[applegrove]

42. Absolutely. But I so no looking and never really was.

[NewJeffCT]

3. I've read your subject 3 times

and am still not sure what you're asking?

[NJmaverick]

7. How about now?

[NewJeffCT]

20. It's all about personality with me

Over the years, I've dated women of all shapes, sizes and ethnic backgrounds. However, the one thing in common between women I've liked the most is that they have had outgoing, personable and energetic personalities.

[Richardo]

4. I understand all those words, just not in that order

:?:

[NJmaverick]

6. Sorry, not much sleep last night

[Mr. Ected]

8. Whatever that thing is that some people call the "soul"

Followed by her brain, her face, her butt, and her boobs.

Hey....you asked!

[Heidi]

9. Brain and spirit-or-whatever-it-is that makes people compassionate.

Physically, there's not really a "type" of anything that I prefer. If the brain and spirit are there, everything looks wonderful. :)

[Bunny]

10. I like big shoulders and strong arms.

Beards are a plus, too!



:loveya:

[RFKHumphreyObama]

11. Personality, empathy and compassion are three attributes I am attracted to

First and foremost -everything takes second place. Actually intelligence is another essential attribute

In terms other characteristics, I quite often am attracted to the eyes, a warm smile, a mature and well-dressed appearance and quite often curly hair

[Forkboy]

12. Physically, a woman's neck.

Hair pulled up will get me every time.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

13. heh...I am dubbing this as most awkardly phrased thread of the day.

you said member....heh :)

[Richardo]

14. You should have seen it before he fixed it

:crazy:

[Tuesday Afternoon]

15. I hate I missed it....

:D

[av8rdave]

16. That's not an easy question, even if it were worded better

I've always believed that physical parts we find attractive exist only to get you to notice someone in the first place. No matter how attractive any or all of those seem at first, they will cease to matter if there isn't compassion, thoughtfulness, tolerance and a sense of humor. Those are the attributes that REALLY matter.

For the purposes of this thread, for me the physical parts would be eyes, smile, butt, breasts.

[NJmaverick]

19. To be honest I think we all like to believe that we are attracted to personality traits

however, I doubt few of use are that above physical attractiveness. The physical is often the first thing we notice and often decides who we get to know well enough to find out if they posse the desirable personality traits.

[raccoon]

17. Their tonsils and appendices. nt

[NJmaverick]

18. So if someone has had both of them removed....

are they dead to you?:evilgrin:

[raccoon]

24. Not very interesting, for sure. nt

[backtoblue]

21. in this particular order (sometimes)

1. attitude
2. openmindedness
3. eyes
4. stance, posture
5. smile


I am totally attracted to someone who is interesting both physically and mentally.

[HopeHoops]

22. Her facial expressions.

Now, to be fair, she's pretty, has beautiful long hair, a petite slender and well toned body (she's a 2nd degree black belt and works out 5 days a week practicing), perfect breasts, and a firm tiny butt. She's also my best friend and has been since we met in Dec 84. But as far as what is "sexiest", that would be her facial expressions. One look can make me melt.

[datasuspect]

23. the pancreas and lower intestine

[Strong Atheist]

25. IBTL.

:blush:

[AngryAmish]

26. lemmie join you

[MajorChode]

27. I like the pussy on this one

[lazyriver]

28. The small of a woman's lower back. Love the curve.

[unpossibles]

29. the personality/brain/soul/spirit

followed by the eyes, a nice smile, and the legs/butt.

:D

[Hell Hath No Fury]

30. Hands and forearms.

If a man is wearing a white shirt with sleeves rolled up to his elbow, a nice watch, and has lovely forearmas and hands, that is a site that can literally make me swoon. :loveya:

[guitar man]

31. A pretty face, nice hair

and large natural breasts is the trifecta... and if she smells really good to boot I'll turn backflips!! :D

[redqueen]

32. Parts?

I'm weird. I've never had a 'type'. I just fetishize whatever I like about the person I'm attracted to at any given time. When I was crushing on a bald guy, I found bald heads attractive.

Now that I'm mad about my best friend, I think black hair and blue-grey eyes are the sexiest thing ever.

What I'm most attracted to in a strictly objective sense is kindness, intelligence, and a sense of humor. And an appreciation for football. Real football. And a sexy ass doesn't hurt a bit... but that's more of that fetishizing things about my best friend. Damn he's got an amazing ass.

[NewJeffCT]

34. that sounds like me

I had never noticed a woman's feet before dating this nurse about 9-10 years ago. Then, one day, while giving her a foot massage, I noticed that, "Wow, she's got really nice feet." And, then it was something I noticed on her, and I started liking it when she wore open-toed shoes and/or something that exposed her feet.

Similarly, I've dated women where I liked their legs - especially the calves; or their big blue eyes or big brown eyes; or their arms; hair; chest; back; butt; etc

[redqueen]

35. Yep.. I never thought men's lips were a big deal before.

But now...

[NJmaverick]

36. What do you consider "Real Football"?

[redqueen]

37. ...

[NJmaverick]

38. wimps?!?!?!

American football rules! :mad:

[redqueen]

39. Yes, wimps!

[rockymountaindem]

46. On the other hand, you don't see other "football" players being taken out at the knees

by a 350-pound linebacker. If Beckham, Messi et. al. were facing that possibility, they'd probably put on some knee pads. As it is they wear shin-guards, which protect the part of the body most at risk in the type of game they play. This whole "which football is the real/better football?" argument is comparing apples and oranges.

[redqueen]

47. Ahem... footie came first... so it's throwball that deserves the quotation marks.

As for fat guys... well that's a fair point... but since footie came first, IMO throwball is throwball and it always will be.

[azmouse]

33. A man's eyes.

[kwassa]

40. The private parts. The naughty bits.

[applegrove]

41. Arms. I like men's arms.

[KamaAina]

43. Mostly, she must have a soul

I have been made acutely aware of this in the past couple of months, having met -- and been promptly shot down by -- one who has as much of it as any ten or twenty of you. :cry:

As for physical parts, really almost any one will do. As long as there's at least one part I can sort of key on, the rest of her tends to grow on me. All inside my own head, of course. :(

[TrogL]

44. women, boobs - leg men are perverts; men, ass

[theNotoriousP.I.G.]

45. Eyes,

face and nose. I like big noses.

[Juche]

48. The hips

A decent ass and tapering thighs in a tight pair on jeans is always good.

Of course (stating the obvious here) if a woman has a horrible personality she quickly becomes unattractive, and women with great personalities who don't have good butts are more attractive. But that is pretty much obvious. Nobody wants to spend their lives with someone who they are uncomfortable around or who they feel doesn't understand or respect them. I think research by David Sloan wilson has found that is ia consistent among both genders that the most important thing in a mate is someone who listens to, understands and cares about you.

[LostInAnomie]

49. 1. Face

2. Boobs
3. Butt
4. Nice skin
5. Neck
6. Hands

That being said, it's possible for someone to have such a fine quality of any one of those parts (except hands probably) that it would over-ride that particular order.

[Sisaruus]

50. The mind.

For both sexes.

[pitohui]

51. assuming someone i don't know, so it's physical and not hokey bullshit like "personality"...

i assume you actually want to know the answer and when you use a word like "parts" you are asking about the body and not about oh their intelligence, wit, personality, etc

if it's a fair test (i don't know the person hence can't be swayed by their wit, intelligence, personality) then it's the ass

however, i like a nice tight ass on a male, a big thick ass on a female -- female can or should be chunky, the male can or should be skinny

i do not know why but that's the way i feel

but at least i didn't give you a bullshit answer like "their brain"

if i'm checking out some dude/chick at the bar, i'm not looking at their fucking brain!

[Parche]

52. Legs, fukin Legs

:woohoo: :woohoo:

[Parche]

53. Boobicles

:woohoo::hi: