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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:28 PM
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What would you do in this situation?
So I was supposed to go down south and spend two nights with my "friend" Rebe.

I rolled into Santa Barbara at 6:45 after 9 hours in the car. I'd had three hours of sleep the previous night. Rebe's staying with our mutual friend Shannon for a while, and they weren't there. I sat out on the lawn in front of Shannon's house for about an hour and a half, then I decided they might be at Elsie's bar, so I went down there, and I was pretty pissed when I walked in the door. I really just wanted to go to bed, and instead I had to go looking for them. Shannon came in about a half hour later, and she had no idea where Rebe was. Rebe wandered in around 9:15, and she said her mom was coming into town the next day so if we were going to go party it was going to have to be that night. Long story short, I didn't get to sleep until around 3.

I was pretty pissed at Rebe for not leaving a note, or at the very least e-mailing me about where and when she could be found.

The next day Rebe had some stuff to do, so I goofed off on the internet, and at noon I went and got tacos with Shannon, then went up to the botanic gardens, and spend about an hour goofing off on the internet while waiting for Rebe at Shannon's house. At 3:30 we went and picked up Rebe's mom, then Rebe had to get a hard drive from school, so we did that. At 5:30 Rebe announced we had to go to a barbecue later, but she wasn't feeling well and wasn't interested in going to that or having any dinner. I talked her and her mom into eating dinner, then we went back to Shannon's and Rebe took a nap while I goofed off on the internet. Then at around 8:30, Rebe announced that I needed to go over to this other dude's house to hang out with Shannon, or something. I went over there and made awkward small talk for about 20 minutes with whatsisname and Shannon (who didn't want to go anywhere). I left there and went back to Shannon's house, and Rebe and her mom were NOT there, there was NO note, and the door was locked.

What would you do?
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vadawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:32 PM
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1. erm, re-evaluate my life, and if its really worth living,
thats got to be the worst weekend story ever.......
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:34 PM
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2. Don't you guys have cell phones?
I didn't think this sort of thing happened in the cell phone age.

On a side note your friend Rebe doesn't seem like much of a host.
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:34 PM
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3. I don't have a cell phone
My friends have phones though.
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:37 PM
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6. huh, well then I would be sorely tempted to just go home
or find a good motel/hotel if I was too tired. Then I think I would follow the suggestion below this one.
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charlie and algernon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:39 PM
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8. yeah, i think I would've gotten a motel and made my own weekend in Santa Barbara
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:43 PM
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9. That's exactly what I did
I went and got Shannon, had her open the door, got my stuff, and left.
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 03:01 PM
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12. Good for you
:thumbsup:
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:34 PM
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4. find new friends nt
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:36 PM
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5. My thoughts exactly.
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:38 PM
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7. you should just hang out with me
i wouldn't leave you hanging.
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:46 PM
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10. I don't think
Rebe's your friend..................
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 02:52 PM
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11. Dude, people don't leave notes anymore
They text you. Or twit you. Or post on your wall.



If you don't have the iCoolest new iThing to get these iMessages in iTime... well, that's just your iFault.



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keroro gunsou Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 03:58 PM
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14. DuZy
nuff said.
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LynneSin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 04:00 PM
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16. Can I put those all on my iRack?
:shrug:
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jeff30997 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 04:01 PM
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17. iAgree.
:)
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marzipanni Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 03:54 PM
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13. I would try to get more sleep
and hang out with people who get more sleep. Your friends sound rather irritable and grumpy.
Were they enthusistic about your visit when you made the plans?
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 03:59 PM
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15. Rebe invited me down there
:shrug:
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 04:16 PM
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18. Leave and leave behind a passive aggressive note
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petronius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-15-09 05:53 PM
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19. Tell your friends to make some spare keys
Or just get new friends. :shrug:

At least you got to go to the bot garden - I remember it as being pretty nice...
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