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Bossy Monkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 09:30 AM
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Let's take a moment to remember, too, the mothers we've lost
Edited on Sun May-10-09 09:55 AM by Bossy Monkey
Anne Salmonsen Dantzler, June 18, 1923 - July 1, 2003
You were a great one, and a sweetie, and funnier than the rest of us put together.



And may I just say how much I hate senile dementia? (or Alzheimer's, though in her case I suspect it was an outcome of celiac sprue)

PS: Probably best not to follow my example; just omit the maiden name. (I never use it to answer security questions, but I know a lot of people do.)
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Swede Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 09:40 AM
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1. Amen,to that.
Cecille Gertrude Englund,August 21,1931 - August 8,2006.

I love and miss you mom.
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abq e streeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 11:22 AM
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2. Mine died Jan 27 , 1969 of breast cancer
I was a teenager, and have spent much time and energy as an adult hoping and praying for forgiveness for not being there for her more when she was suffering and hoping for some sort of miracle to save her life. I'm very happy to see the advances made in the treatment of cancer and to know and be able to assure others that its not an automatic death sentence anymore; an example being the woman my dad married afterwards, who beat breast cancer about 20 years ago. I loved her dearly also. She passed away at the age of 90 on January 10th of last year. I pray nightly that both their souls are at peace, and I believe they are.
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old mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 11:49 AM
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3. My mom died in '83 of heart disease, my mother in law in '07 of
complications after lung cancer surgery. Both were very sweet to me, Mom was a librarian, MIL a college prof. Both smoked.
(I really hate cigarettes - recently my wife successfully quit after many attempts.)

They were the best.

mark
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Kajsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 12:07 PM
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4. To Lynn,

my mother-in-law
( there was no 'ex' there, even though she was my ex's Mom)

who was like a second Mor to me.

( Mor-Swedish for mother; Lynn was first generation Swedish-American like me)

I love you and miss you.

:hug:
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BuelahWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 12:18 PM
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5. Ten years ago was the last true Mother's Day I had with my mother
The next year she was in a nursing home and didn't know who I was. She died Dec. 5, 2000. I agree with you 100% about dementia, Bossy Monkey. :hug:
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Bossy Monkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 07:42 PM
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19. We were unlucky/lucky in that the same thing had happened to her mom
So we were prepared in a way. When her mother could no longer recognize her, she (my grandmother) would say, "I don't know who you are, but you're a nice person." And Mom thanked her and as far as I could tell was grateful for whatever interaction they could have. When her time came and she was saying the same sort of stuff to us, we felt the same way. I treasure some of the times we spent together at the nursing home, even though she didn't know me from Adam by then. (I've already told the story of when I took pictures of her hometown of Charleston and showed her one of me with long hair and a dark coat in front of her mother's house and she said, "Who's that nun in front of mama's house?":)):hug: back
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Dyedinthewoolliberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 12:25 PM
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6. Here's to my mom.
Donna Jean McAlpine 7/14/30-6/10/03
Died from a disease called PSP (Para Supranuclear Palsy). I know its better now that you don't suffer but still.......... :cry:
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Pool Hall Ace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 12:45 PM
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7. Remembering my mom, who had many nicknames
Edited on Sun May-10-09 12:45 PM by Pool Hall Ace
the most popular being "Muggles" and "McGee"
October 12, 1927 - October 12, 2001

She was taken by bladder cancer.

Everyone, please quit smoking, and please don't be stubborn about going for checkups! :cry:
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yellowdogintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 01:29 PM
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8. my wonderful Democrat Mother who raised me to be the yellowdog that I am today
her nickname in the family was 'Tuffy'

she died Oct 28 2004 of Alzheimer's but we were losing her by pieces for at least 6 years before.

I missed her so much this election year. She would have loved watching the Republicans go down.
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blogslut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 01:37 PM
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9. I miss you, Mom
1931-1995
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JitterbugPerfume Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 01:49 PM
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10. Willie Mae Ziglar
1918--2000


I will never forget hearing her late at night when she thought everyone was asleep crying for my brother who died at age 33 in a terrible accident .She was the sweetest , most loving and kind person in my world.
I love her and miss her more than I can say.

senile dementia took her from up one little piece at a time. Little by little she quit crying for David, and forgot her daughters names.
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 01:51 PM
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11. My mom passed on February 9, 2008.
I miss her so much.

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sarge43 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 01:53 PM
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12. Margaret Jane 18 Aug 08 - 14 Nov 02
RIP Mom. You were a wonderful mother and my best friend. I miss you.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 01:55 PM
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13. Kathryn "Bettie"
Edited on Sun May-10-09 01:55 PM by supernova
Mom died in July 1996, one of the many casualties of breast cancer.

She was courageous, strong and lived by her convictions ... and she taught her daughters well. :-)

It's from her that I get my drive to live out my ideals and try to change the world for the better while I am here. It's what made me a liberal.

I love you and miss you mom. I picked some roses from your rosebush today, it's overflowing and we had them as a centerpiece at brunch today.

:loveya: :hug: :loveya: :hug:
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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 02:45 PM
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14. My mother Edith, 10/53; my mother Cecily, 11/08,
Edited on Sun May-10-09 02:46 PM by elleng
both results of breast cancer.


My dear Dad is alive and well, at 95.
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Dark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 03:28 PM
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15. Barbara Lynn March 29, 2005
RIP mom.
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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 05:09 PM
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16. My Mom (1924-2007)
She was a wonderful, amazing, and accomplished woman. I miss her every day.

:cry:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 05:14 PM
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17. Miss ya mom! (When I get my star back, I'll have her avatar up again. :^ ) )
Edited on Sun May-10-09 05:14 PM by GreenPartyVoter
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 05:47 PM
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18. RIP Mum
May 7 1946-May 25 2007

You are missed very much by all of us each and every day. You loved life so much and you lived every day to the fullest. You were an inspiration and you will always live on in the hearts and minds of those who knew and loved you.
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 10:04 PM
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20. My mom died a little over a year ago.
I'm having a harder time handling it this year than I did last year. I miss her so much. :cry:
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gardenista Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 10:08 PM
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22. Here.
:hug:

I miss my mom, too.
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gardenista Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 10:06 PM
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21. February 2, 2009
Kathrine Margrethe Gough

A good Democrat and a great mom.


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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 10:11 PM
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23. My mother....Florence (she hated her name).
Jnuary 4, 1912 - December 28, 2005.

A very fast heart attack. Just six days. Yes, she had other problems in between. But she went very fast. Probably not bad at that age. And she was with it right up until the end.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 10:12 PM
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24. My mom died Valentine's Day 1983
Edited on Sun May-10-09 10:12 PM by Whoa_Nelly
Brain cancer. 61 years old.

I didn't see her for two years before she died.
Long story, and one I would change if I could go back in time and be more of an adult about ife at the time.

Happy Mom's Day, Mom!


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many a good man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-10-09 10:39 PM
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25. Mom passed away August 2001 after battling MS for 23 years
Mother-in-law died this past January. I still have my Grandma left. She's still kicking at 102!
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Digit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-11-09 12:22 AM
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26. I miss you mom
January 1998
It hurts just as much as it did then...
:cry:
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