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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 10:48 PM Original message |
ok well, let me just spill it right here, my BF got out of rehab today |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 10:50 PM Response to Original message |
1. I am sorry. I really don't know what to say. |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 10:55 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. thanks - I just have to let go of some of this |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:12 PM Response to Reply #3 |
15. I don't understand your use of BF best friend, boyfriend? |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
2. A bully drunk and a bully sober... |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 10:57 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. That says something to me. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:11 PM Response to Reply #4 |
14. Good. I'm glad I could deliver that gently. |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:25 PM Response to Reply #14 |
23. I think you got it in a nutshell |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
5. I'm sorry. |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:05 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. the smoking weed part is just weird |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:08 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Forgetting is not a part of forgiving. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
6. Before I sign off, I just want to let you know... |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:11 PM Response to Reply #6 |
13. thanks for sharing |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
7. I don't have any answers for you... |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:27 PM Response to Reply #7 |
24. that helps, Thanks |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
9. What kind of rehab place was he in? |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:16 PM Response to Reply #9 |
18. I agree. He shouldn't be smoking pot if he is clean and sober. |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:17 PM Response to Reply #9 |
20. thanks - this was an in-patient detox and rehab facility near Philadelphia |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:23 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. Letting go of the anger may take awhile. I know it did for me. |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:32 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. thanks |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:08 PM Response to Original message |
10. Let me get this straight... |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:23 PM Response to Reply #10 |
21. our dog died of cancer and he went on an extended major league binge |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:31 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. I don't think you've forgiven, nor will you do it anytime soon. |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:40 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. thanks - part of the crisis tonight is that he left rehab to come home for |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:42 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Listen to your heart, it won't steer you in the wrong direction. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
12. Kurt, I am so sorry. |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:45 PM Response to Reply #12 |
31. Hi Thom |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:13 PM Response to Original message |
16. If he came home from rehab, lit up and was mean to you |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:43 PM Response to Reply #16 |
30. well he was kind of cold, like tough love then after he had me leave |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 12:00 AM Response to Reply #30 |
34. People in rehab for alcohol don't smoke pot. Edit: |
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Drunken Irishman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:14 PM Response to Original message |
17. Is it worth it? |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
19. Kurt. Take care of yourself. |
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Barack_America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
27. My advice (that I am not qualified to give)...don't take his actions too personally. |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:58 PM Response to Reply #27 |
33. thanks for your level headed response |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-17-09 11:47 PM Response to Original message |
32. Kurt, Google Alanon in your area and there's usually a list of meetings and schedules |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 12:00 AM Response to Original message |
35. Thanks to all for listening - I'm going to call it a night but will read any other |
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mockmonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-18-09 01:27 AM Response to Original message |
36. Maybe |
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