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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:07 AM
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Do/did you love college?
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Tommy_Carcetti Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:35 AM
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1. I "loved" college in retrospect, but probably only "liked" it while I was there.
Edited on Wed Mar-25-09 11:48 AM by Tommy_Carcetti
I had my share of stress while there, but looking back it was the golden years.

I'm actually going back there this weekend to visit. Staying at a hotel right across from my dorm room.
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:45 AM
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2. best years of my life...
I was a girl from NYC who went to college in Central Wisconsin - no safety issues per se, loads of freedom and tons of fun.

Oh, and I am the girl that most of my male friends' wives still let them hang out with because I didn't "ho around" :rofl:
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:47 AM
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4. Central WI
Where did you go?
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:48 AM
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8. Ripon College 1988-1991
Had a great time.

mcctatas also went there - but she was a couple of years behind me.
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:51 AM
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9. I applied there
and was accepted, but went to Hobart College in Upstate NY instead.
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:53 AM
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10. I also was accepted to Hobart but chose to go farther from home
:D
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 12:03 PM
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12. You mean William Smith?
Edited on Wed Mar-25-09 12:04 PM by geardaddy
Hobart is men. WS is women. :D

http://hws.edu/

That's why I chose Hobart - To go farther from home
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 12:03 PM
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13. yes - WS
Funny how things happen....
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 12:18 PM
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14. Yep.
Small world. :D
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TheMightyFavog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 12:43 PM
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18. EDIT
Edited on Wed Mar-25-09 12:43 PM by TheMightyFavog
Read further, then post. I keep forgetting that.
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Blue_Tires Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:46 AM
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3. hated college, loved grad school
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lutefisk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 05:25 PM
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32. Me too.
I think a small liberal arts college might be like grad school in some ways, but I never attended one of those...
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geardaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:47 AM
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5. I loved college
I had a lot of fun. :smoke:
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:48 AM
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6. Loved it, miss it, didn't finish
and am near giving up on trying to return.

:hi:
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bif Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:48 AM
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7. Loved going to school in the Cultural Center of Detroit in the 70s
There was so much going on. 3 or 4 film societies, dive bars, lots of live jazz. It was a cool scene.
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:55 AM
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11. In some ways, yes.
It was my first time away from home. It was many of the "firsts" in my life -- in good ways and some not-so-good ways, I guess.
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Lucian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 12:24 PM
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15. They were the best years of my life.
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 12:28 PM
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16. i like it a lot more in retrospect
i went to school in my hometown and lived with my parents for most of the time, which i regret a bit now. what i loved was the academics and i wish i could afford to go back to school now.
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 12:36 PM
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17. The first time around I loved the personal freedom for the first time in my life.
But it wasn't until I went back to finish that I began to appreciate the actual academics of it all. Youth is wasted on the young and all that.
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nomorenomore08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 01:06 PM
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19. Many aspects of it, sure. And overall it was a good experience.
Enough that, despite being less than two years graduated, I'm already nostalgic. :(

For the record, I went to the University of California at Santa Cruz, and while I wouldn't say that its reputation as hippie/stoner school is entirely undeserved (those beautiful redwood groves are quite conducive to drug experiences), I'm sure I would've gotten into most or all of the same stuff at another school.
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Dr. Strange Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 01:08 PM
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20. Best 23 years of my life.
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 01:09 PM
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21. I had a blast in college. I didn't care for the actual going to class
and studying part, but the rest was FUN!
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EastTennesseeDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 01:12 PM
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22. I like it. Don't love it.
This school is too damn big.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 01:13 PM
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23. Hated it. Had my worst mental breakdowns while there.
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KamaAina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 01:15 PM
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24. Not just yeah but HELL YEAH!!!
Edited on Wed Mar-25-09 01:15 PM by KamaAina
Both of 'em, actually, the University of New Haven (right where you'd expect to find it: West Haven, Conn. :P ), then that other school down the street, you know, the one that toughened its admissions standards for legacies after the embarrassment that was George W. Bush '68.

edit: I've often wondered why it is not possible simply to go back to college rather than specializing in only one subject as in grad school.
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Gidney N Cloyd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 01:20 PM
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25. Hated 1st 2 years at Illinois State. Liked 2nd 2 years at SIU. Grad at NIU was OK.
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surrealAmerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 01:24 PM
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26. Loved it.
For the first time in my life I felt like I was part of a community of (mostly) like-minded people, some even with similar values.
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kwassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 01:25 PM
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27. Didn't love college
had to do with the specifics of that college, took me years to realize what a poor fit I was for the culture there. A mixture of positive and negative experiences made it essentially a wash for me.

I grew up in a college town, which I liked much better.
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 02:53 PM
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28. Absolutely LOVED college!
I was 27 when I went, so a bit older than the majority of students, but it didn't matter. Made friends with people of all ages, met some of the smartest people I've ever known, and totally thrived while I was there.

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mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 04:44 PM
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29. Loved it as an undergraduate...
being an English major was no work at all for me.
Absolutely hate the graduate education classes I am now taking. Mind numbing bullshit.
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 04:45 PM
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30. First one, not so much.
This time around it is going a bit better. :)
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 05:19 PM
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31. I think I did
I certainly loved that time. What an interesting time of one's life. So many things are new.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 06:09 PM
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33. Loved, loved, loved it.
I had so much fun, and I learnt some things too. :P ;) :)
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 06:18 PM
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34. EVERY. SINGLE. MINUTE. 1967-71 in a dorm on PSU's Main Campus: Great football, gymnastics, and
Edited on Wed Mar-25-09 06:20 PM by WinkyDink
concerts (Janis, Jefferson Airplane, Ravi Shankar, Chicago, etc., etc.,!)!
*Waves to Robyn, Ann, Jackie, Marcia, Gayle, Dr. Karen (and Earl), David, Howie, Jerry, Roger, all of East Halls, and Drs. Arnold, Weintraub, and Rosenberg!
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Rising Phoenix Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 06:20 PM
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35. hell yeah!
However if I did it again, I would like to think I would take better advantage of all the great amenities
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mentalsolstice Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 06:56 PM
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36. I loved the 2nd half.
I hated high school, so college was an improvement. I transferred after my soph. year to an upper level university (they only had Jrs., Srs. and grads). It was the best move of my life, as I was finally able to grow comfortable in my own skin.

OTOH, after 4 years of working after college, I went back to law school. I can't say it was a positive experience, it was like regressing back to jr. high. To balance it out I also worked on a masters that I had started previously, and that was good, as I was in classes with REAL adults, and I met my SO in one of those classes.
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Lilith Velkor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 07:03 PM
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37. It was OK.
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nickinSTL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 07:51 PM
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38. liked it...as much as I could at the time...
I had some issues I was dealing with.

However, I met some great people, and an amazing woman I still have very strong feelings for...although we went our separate ways after college and are now married to other people. Having met her made college great :D
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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 07:55 PM
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39. I was overwhelmed by college.
I loved HS, but was totally unprepared for college. I had a rough first year.
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Fire1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:33 PM
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40. Those were the days!! Absolutely!!
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 08:41 PM
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41. College was wonderful for me
I really wish that I was there again.
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AwakeAtLast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 09:21 PM
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42. I loved college
Real life sucks. x(

:D
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DeepBlueC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:42 PM
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43. I loved everything about college
The big step up in academic offerings, fascinating professors, beautiful campus, great friends, social latitude. Honestly the further I went in school the better I liked it.
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Skip Intro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:43 PM
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44. To me, college = free money and free time. I loved it. nt
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Neoma Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-25-09 11:57 PM
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45. Haven't had good experiences there.
Don't get me wrong, I liked the learning stuff part. But the first semester I had, I got double pneumonia, a severe allergic reaction to an antibiotic, and I carried a 20 pound backpack every day for my classes. The second semester I didn't finish, my aunt was the dean, I lived with her, and she was my adviser. Conflict of interest. I also still wasn't in good health and a few disasters came around.

I want to go back to college, but it almost gives me panic attacks to think of going back.
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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 07:00 AM
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46. 'Liked' it so much
that I persuaded Dean of Women to allow me to spend Jr. Year abroad. I was the FIRST at my school to do it. Had a GREAT year, of course, which did all the things for my perspective that one would imagine.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 06:46 PM
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47. Loved my 2nd and 3 year. My 1st year and last 1/2 term were a little quiet. But I like that too.
Edited on Thu Mar-26-09 06:47 PM by applegrove
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