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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 08:36 PM Original message |
Why do people get uptight over breastfeeding? |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 08:52 PM Response to Original message |
1. Envy n/t |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 10:35 PM Response to Reply #1 |
13. could be |
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Lost in CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:36 PM Response to Reply #1 |
28. I second envy... |
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Pool Hall Ace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 11:14 AM Response to Reply #1 |
61. Who would be envious of breastfeeding? |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 01:29 PM Response to Reply #61 |
66. I meant that men are envious of the babies |
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Pool Hall Ace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 04:57 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. Oh, I wasn't trying to pick a fight. |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 05:35 PM Response to Reply #67 |
70. I was thinking of this Alteon Networks Ad when I posted (warning graphic, funny picture) |
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Pool Hall Ace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 06:59 PM Response to Reply #70 |
72. Wow, that ran in the United States? |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 07:38 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. Magazines only; never broadcast |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
2. See, it's the "modesty" thing that bothers me about these discussions. |
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no name no slogan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 10:01 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. I don't believe in enforced modesty |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:29 PM Response to Reply #8 |
25. I think people shouldn't be so hung up on it |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 05:19 PM Response to Reply #8 |
68. Babies don't always do discreet very well |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 09:57 PM Response to Reply #68 |
85. LyricKid was one of those babies that, after the age of 4 weeks or so, |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:15 PM Response to Reply #68 |
88. you be funny MAP |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 08:34 PM Response to Reply #8 |
77. Thank you. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 10:36 PM Response to Reply #2 |
14. Okay modesty was the word that popped to my head |
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av8rdave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:33 AM Response to Reply #2 |
53. I always find it puzzling... |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 08:33 PM Response to Reply #2 |
76. Thank you. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 09:42 PM Response to Reply #2 |
83. Exactly eom |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
3. cuz they are dumb... |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 10:37 PM Response to Reply #3 |
15. good analysis |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 09:25 AM Response to Reply #15 |
45. usually I'm not that blunt, but I can't really think of a legitimate reason for |
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OwnedByFerrets (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 09:13 PM Response to Original message |
4. Regular people dont....Americans do. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:23 PM Response to Reply #4 |
17. point taken |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 09:48 PM Response to Original message |
5. Here I go. Because intimate, personal bodily functions are intimate and personal. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:23 PM Response to Reply #5 |
18. Well don't look then |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:02 AM Response to Reply #18 |
49. Answering the premise of the o.p., "Don't look" is the problem when |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:07 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. Oh poor you. |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:10 AM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Ah, how enlightened of you. Your contempt drips. n/t |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:13 AM Response to Reply #51 |
52. I am certainly more enlightened than you are, on this issue anyway. |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:52 AM Response to Reply #52 |
57. GASP!1 |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:57 AM Response to Reply #57 |
59. Dude, I give up. |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 12:40 PM Response to Reply #59 |
65. You can still yell, "HITLER!1" or keep on hanging on to the last word!1 n/t |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:40 AM Response to Reply #49 |
54. "Flaunted"? |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 09:26 AM Response to Reply #5 |
46. feeding one's child isn't something that needs to be private |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 12:14 PM Response to Reply #5 |
64. That's a social more derived from the belief that humans are not just one among many mammals. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
6. The woman at the next table was breastfeeding when my husband and I were out to dinner |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:24 PM Response to Reply #6 |
19. I like breasts and babies |
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HopeFor2006 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:31 PM Response to Reply #6 |
27. I always tried to be discreet |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 09:54 PM Response to Original message |
7. Because it causes duckasms |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 10:06 PM Response to Reply #7 |
10. NO, duckasms! I have toys, and AA batteries. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:29 PM Response to Reply #10 |
26. stay away from ducks |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 12:41 AM Response to Reply #26 |
33. That's a promise! |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 08:32 AM Response to Reply #10 |
43. Can we see? |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:24 PM Response to Reply #7 |
20. ducks don't mind |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 10:01 PM Response to Original message |
9. I could not breastfeed. My tits swelled up and hurt too much. I had to put ice bags on them. My tits |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:25 PM Response to Reply #9 |
21. That's fine, that's not what the thread was intended to address |
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lutefisk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 01:17 AM Response to Reply #9 |
36. Hey, that's not a bad poem! . . . n/t |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 02:02 AM Response to Reply #36 |
40. Why do I always see fleas when you post? |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 10:06 PM Response to Original message |
11. i have no idea, it didn't bother me before i had a kid or after i had one and did breastfeed |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:26 PM Response to Reply #11 |
22. Very true |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 10:10 PM Response to Original message |
12. Puritanical prudish douchebaggery. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 10:37 PM Response to Reply #12 |
16. yes indeed, same country where it's just fine and dandy to watch Saw but Milk, omg no! |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:27 PM Response to Reply #16 |
24. good point! |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:27 PM Response to Reply #12 |
23. True |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-16-09 11:41 PM Response to Reply #12 |
29. Agreed. I think a baby breastfeeding is a true beautiful wonder. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 09:13 AM Response to Reply #12 |
44. well stated. i thought you were rabrrrrr for a second! |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 09:50 AM Response to Reply #44 |
48. I thank you for that high compliment! |
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Prisoner_Number_Six (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 12:02 AM Response to Original message |
30. Uptight? I always considered it rather relaxing. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 12:14 AM Response to Original message |
31. It's part of the Mommy Wars. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 12:58 AM Response to Reply #31 |
34. Yep. I always feel sorry for those women who are militant about "natural" |
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cherish44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 01:12 AM Response to Reply #34 |
35. It's sad when the birth experience becomes all about the mother and not the baby |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 01:30 AM Response to Reply #35 |
37. I had to have a c-section too. |
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cherish44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 01:54 AM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Yes I think natural childbirth would have been nice |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 09:34 AM Response to Reply #39 |
47. I remember thinking, no the soothing bird sounds and the vanilla candle |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 06:07 PM Response to Reply #47 |
71. Yep, heavy drugs for me! |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 08:38 PM Response to Reply #34 |
78. Thank you. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 01:37 AM Response to Reply #31 |
38. Forget what you hear on DU. Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one. |
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cherish44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 12:38 AM Response to Original message |
32. Ya know what? Breastfeed or don't breastfeed...but don't judge other people's choices |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 08:40 PM Response to Reply #32 |
79. Thank you. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:14 PM Response to Reply #32 |
87. and you think I was judging you |
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JCMach1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 03:47 AM Response to Original message |
41. Dude feed the Chicken to Your Pitbull as you take him to be euthanized |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 06:30 AM Response to Original message |
42. Teh bewbs |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
55. Same reason people got upset about the Janet Jackson thing |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
56. I do not think it is a beautiful and wonderful thing. I do not think it is a vile and ugly thing. |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 08:41 PM Response to Reply #56 |
80. Thank you. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
58. jealousy (edit) |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 11:05 AM Response to Original message |
60. It reminds me of something I would rather be doing! |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
62. because americans are afraid of breasts |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 08:43 PM Response to Reply #62 |
81. Thank you. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
63. Deleted message |
RagAss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
69. Uh...because they have small peckers? |
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kentauros (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 07:04 PM Response to Original message |
73. You can thank the show "Little Britain" for the current-day's "revulsion" |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
75. I've barely gone anywhere in public with my baby |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 08:43 PM Response to Reply #75 |
82. Thank you. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:01 PM Response to Reply #75 |
86. congratulations! You shouldn't worry, I never had a problem and I fed my |
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Currently Unemployed (25 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 09:46 PM Response to Original message |
84. Because I'm a big guy and a gallon of cows milk lasts longer... |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-17-09 10:18 PM Response to Original message |
89. this is kind of funny |
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