Anybody out there know about Mexican Culture (babyshower)?

[RamblingRose]

We live in an area with a VERY large Mexican population. I have been invited to my daughters' friends' sisters' babyshower (hope I got that right). They are from Mexico, and speak almost no english (except for the 7 year old), and I speak no spanish (but am trying to learn). I did speak with her sister on the phone, and she spoke enough english to say I was invited. I will probably be the only gringo there. The babyshower is tonight at 6pm, which seems to go against our culture's view of babyshowers (afternoon brunch with the girls). If I remember correctly, for a child's one year birthday, they shower the baby with one dollar bills. Also, from my experience, birthday parties are a big deal for Mexican families (not to over generalize), and the parties go on all day and into the night. Any thoughts or gift suggestions???

This is her 2nd child. Her first child is a boy and she is expecting a girl. I don't know the due date.

(Sure am glad I took 6 years of German. I have yet to meet a single person from Germany at my daughter's school!)

[SlavesandBulldozers]

1. Mexicans are typically not doctrinaire

and in times of celebration, they just appreciate good company and good times. the key is socializing, no matter how little of Spanish you actually know- at least make the gesture of attempting to speak in their 1st language. That way they will feel comfortable speaking to you in their 2nd language. Don't be afraid to have a drink or two, either, because they just want everybody to be having a good time. To them, you are not a gringo - youre just another friendly face.

I don't know much about the actual traditions of Mexican baby showers, but I do know that Mexicans, and Mexican immigrants, love American traditions as well (much as we love Mexican traditions), and will view your gestures as an expression of your own culture.

[Cuban_Liberal]

2. I'm 1/2 Mexican, and here's the low-down:

They will be honored by your presence, so please try and remember that fact; if you do, it will be much easier to enjoy yourself, and it will also put them at ease, even with the language barrier.

The party will be large, noisy and very light-hearted, with plenty of good food, drink and music. Try to eat a little bit of everything, and if you like it, make that fact obvious, because Mexican women like to be complimented on their culinary skills as much (if not more) as any one else.

As far as a gift goes, don't go overboard; anything useful or pretty will be much appreciated, and your thoughtfulness in bringing a gift will be welcomed.

Mexicans do love to party, and they will make every effort to be congenial hosts to you, and to see that you enjoy yourself, so relax and do so. I predict you'll have a wonderful time.

:D

[RamblingRose]

3. Thanks. I'm really looking forward to it!

[RamblingRose]

4. Anybody know if the party will be for women/girls only?? n/t

[blondeatlast]

5. Just relax, do your best to speak Spanish (they probably understand more

English than they can speak); they appreciate anyone's effort in that regard.

Expect lots of people dropping by, lots of talking and lots of dancing.

No need to stay that long, but expect the celebration to go loooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnggggg into the night.

I'd rather go to one of those than the traditional "Anglo" version any day.

!Arribe!