Ok, just when I think this week can't get any worse or difficult:

[bicentennial_baby]

My Mother is refusing the feeding tube, and it's on me to go to the hospital and to try to convince her to do it.

Jesus fucking Christ. I have no words, other than that I must have really pissed of some deity in a past life or something.

x(

[Left Is Write]

1. ...

:hug:

[Pierre.Suave]

2. I wish I could give you a great big hug

that would make everything better.

:hug:

[bicentennial_baby]

3. Me too...

Seriously. How much stress can I take?! I'm about to find out, I guess.

Let's just say that tomorrow's hangover should be epic. :crazy:

[Parche]

4. Its how we handle the tough stress in life

that makes us what we are

:hi: :hug: :hug:

[Blue Diadem]

5. Hugs

:hug:

It's really hard when a parent refuses a procedure/treatment.

[jonnyblitz]

6. is this the hospital an hour away from you guys?

oh yeah and, MAJOR ((((((( :hug:)))))))))

[bicentennial_baby]

7. Yes, in Worcester

I'm going to wait until Sniffa is home to go. I can't make that drive alone.

:hug: Thank you.

[jonnyblitz]

9. I hope she will listen to you.

what time does Sniffa get home?

[bicentennial_baby]

10. He'll be home soon, but first we have to go

to the hospital here, b/c he has lung tests scheduled for 1 pm. What a fantastic day. My friend dies, I have to convince my Mom that she needs to do something so she doesn't die...

:wtf:

I need a Xanax.

[jonnyblitz]

14. sigh. that is quite a load to handle.

you need more than a xanax. :( at least Sniffa is enroute. i was concerned you had to sit there by yourself alone all afternoon waiting and dwelling on all of this.

[tigereye]

18. aw sweetie

good prayers and vibes for your mom, you and sniffa.


It's very hard, my husband had to drive down to see his mom in the hosp about an hour or more from here many, many times.


:grouphug:

[Gormy Cuss]

8. Ugh.

:hug:

[easttexaslefty]

11. {{{Hug}}}} n/t

[bigwillq]

12. Hang in there.

Sending out my best vibes. Hope everything works out ok. :hug:

[redqueen]

13. Good luck...

:hug:

Try bribery maybe?

[NMDemDist2]

15. I'm sorry bi-baby. does she just want to let go?

is it time to say goodbye??

I'm so sorry :hug:

[bicentennial_baby]

16. No, I don't think so...

She's nowhere near dead, I think she just is resisting the idea of giving up more control. I have contacted her Neurologist, and he is meeting me there.

[NMDemDist2]

19. OK good

I have always said it's easier to be the sick one than to stand by helplessly and watch a loved one battle illness

:hug:

[Redstone]

17. Oh, BiBaby, I wish there was something I could do for you. Always remember, when you're

feeling down, that you are just about the best daughter your parents could ever have hoped for.

And I'm not just saying that because you're my friend. It's the stone truth.

And a pat on the back for Mr S from me as well, for hanging in with you during all your family troubles.

Redstone

[MissMillie]

20. When are you heading out?

do you need anything?

[Shakespeare]

21. Well, that's not good.

I'm sure it's a big step for her, psychologically as well as physically. You're a good daughter, and I know she'll listen to you.

Good luck (and to sniffa as well with his tests). :hug: :hug: :hug:

:loveya: