I didn't get the job!

[crim son]

It's best I just say it. :P However I think the interview went well and I was encouraged to keep applying to positions there because "eventually" I'd be hired. In this case, my qualifications were not complete which is a huge problem for me... I've taken the classes but the hospital doesn't like the school where I was certified. Guess I'll be taking them again somewhere else. So, that's a downer but I hardly care because I didn't need those Depends!

Thank you for all your support, DUers. It was very, very helpful. :grouphug: :loveya:

[applegrove]

1. So sorry you didn't get it. Looking for work can be very frustrating.

[crim son]

6. It's the looking that's frustrating, yes.

I have friends better qualified than me to do everything, and they can't find a job either. It's really tough trying to get back into the workplace after years at home with kids.

[applegrove]

28. Yup. You've had the best job experience in the world being a mom.

And they don't let it count for much in the market. Strange.

[crim son]

29. There's something like a prejudice against us.

All of my long-term jobs from post-college to now, I've got through temping. The resume looks bad (apparently) and my demeanor inspires a desire not to hire... but give me the job and I'll kick ass and prove my worth. It's ever been thus. This time I was hoping to go the resume route but I think it's back to the temp office I go.

[Parche]

2. aw

But you knew it was a long shot, so not that dissapointing?
:hi: :hug:

[crim son]

7. I'm not sure it was a long shot, but I do know that probably

fifty candidates applied, at least, so I was lucky to be interviewed. The tone of the interview was very positive so I'm actually encouraged. Sorta. :hi: :hug:

[Guava Jelly]

3. Oh man..

Sorry crim son.:hug: You have the right attitude about it though.
Something will open up for you. :hug: :loveya:

[crim son]

8. I have a groovy attitude, yes.

Today was also my second hour at the psychologist. She mentioned my attitude as well. That's a good thing, right? :loveya: :pals: :hug:

[Dystopian]

48. groovy attitude!

Sweet.....haven't heard that word in a long time....feelin' groovy :hippie:
I think it's great that you're so upbeat, you don't seem to be dwelling on the strife of life...
There is a job awaiting you...you know that much.
I also see a psychologist...problem is, she's too much like me. I wish she'd be more objective...
When I tell her something she blurts, "Oh My God!" ...kind of funny, she is.
Best wishes, and I think hanging at the lounge makes for good vibes...
Really a nice place here, so am glad you're getting lots of love and support...:hug:

peace~

[Aristus]

4. Oh sweetheart, I'm sorry...

Keep trying. We're all here for you.

:grouphug::hug::loveya::*

[crim son]

9. I know you are. When I say you helped, I meant it.

The whole "working" and "wearing nylons" deal seems so foreign to me. DUer's responses and your friendship reminded me that, even in nifty wool pants, I'm still plain ol' Lisa. :hug: :hug: :hug: Thanks, Aristus.

[Aristus]

17. There's nothing plain about you...

:loveya:

[crim son]

20. Of course there is, and I cherish it.

The weird and wild me causes all my problems. :loveya: You're a dear friend, Aristus. :hug:

[DainBramaged]

5. Sorry, whish I could win the lottery to help

:hi:

[crim son]

11. Me too, DainBramaged.

I used to play regularly. Now, not so much but you never know! :hug: Thanks!

[Danger Mouse]

10. Keep on truckin'

:hug:

[crim son]

13. So I shall.

I tried new technique to get through the dreaded interview this time, and they worked. A little research goes a long way, for example. Anyhow, I need interviewing practice so it wasn't a waste of time. Hiya, Elrond. :D :hug:

[Danger Mouse]

16. Hey crimmy. How you doing otherwise?

[crim son]

18. Not badly. You?

I had my second therapist's appointment today and feel a little hope that she may be of some use. I can put the job search on the back burner for a day or two, I have a (n Old) Girls' Night Out scheduled for tomorrow and the boyfriend and I are interacting civilly again. Can't complain. :hug:

[Canuckistanian]

12. Neither did I

I just got an email yesterday informing me that I "had not been selected".

It was a long process (University job). I applied back in June. Got an interview in September. And waited while the decision was delayed time and again.

I consider myself lucky. Most places won't even send the email and ignore requests for a decision.

I need a new line of work.

[crim son]

14. I'm truly sorry, Canuckistanian.

Your ordeal was obviously worse than mine, because everything happened over just a month or so, and the monstrous medical complex I apply at is very good with keeping one updated on status of the application, etc. Right now I have about ten balls in the air, but this was only my second request for an interview (I declined the first). Here's to you :toast: May you find work in a line that intrigues and energizes you. :toast: :hug:

[Canuckistanian]

15. Thanks. You hang in there, too

I've been out since April, picking up temp work here and there.

But it doesn't compare to a solid contract or FT position.

Cheers! :toast: :hi:

[crim son]

19. Oh no kidding.

I'm going back to the temp agency either tomorrow (maybe not... I've earned a break) or soon. I need money! :toast:

[elshiva]

21. Sorry.

:( :hug: I'm here if you want me. Okay? :hug:

[crim son]

22. Thanks, my Lovely.

I'm really doing okay. I spoke with the STBE husband last night and he told me to assume I wasn't going to get the job - to do my best but not expect the world - and then I'd do okay. I did okay, and my failure was actually out of my hands. I asked the interviewer why my application had been chosen and she was very encouraging. So it wasn't a lost cause.

Still, it's nice to have friends like you around. :hug:

[elshiva]

23. It's good that you can be so positive about this.

:hug:

[crim son]

24. Laughing.

It's a small blip on the dark screen of my current life. At least that's how I feel this evening.

[elshiva]

25. It's great that you are laughing?

What's so funny? :)

[crim son]

26. I didn't say it was great that I was laughing and in fact I haven't

analyzed it. But to clarify: you praised my attitude and my thought was, I have no choice. Why not be positive. Then there came a small twinge of pleasure, to know that I have evolved thus far that the smaller setbacks cause minimal pain, and that's why I laughed. Not at you, but at living. Better? :hug:

[elshiva]

31. Don't worry, I KNEW you weren't laughing at me.

:hug: I understand.

[crim son]

33. I didn't see this response, only the "DUPE"

and I thought, "why is elshiva fucking with my brain tonight?" :rofl: :loveya:

[elshiva]

32. DUPE

[SalmonChantedEvening]

27. Keep the faith crim son

I'll be keeping it right along with you. :hug: :loveya: :)

[crim son]

30. You've endured more than I have lately, and are an inspiration.

I truly appreciate your post. :loveya: :pals: :hug: Truly.

[SalmonChantedEvening]

34. I have been blessed

With strong shoulders to lean on and love from family and friends all over the world.

All I know to do is give as I have been given :hug: :loveya:

[crim son]

35. Not wishing to be trite yet I feel compelled to say,

perhaps you have learned to live the most meaningful life of all. Thank you, SalmonChantedEvening. :loveya: :pals: :hug:

[SalmonChantedEvening]

37. Not trite at all

As kind a thing as has ever been said about me. :hug:

Time to turn off Malloy and watch the Series as I drift off to sleep.

Peace be with you :loveya:

[crim son]

39. And you, Friend.

:loveya: Good night to you.

[fizzgig]

36. keep on plugging, sweetie

i know how hard it is :hug:

[crim son]

40. I know you do.

My parents (I am 45!!!) decided to send me some money each month to help with heat. It's the oddest feeling... they did pay for college but since then I've been entirely on my own. Now they recognize my situation and are responding with kindness. It's humbling, and sort of wonderful, and rather terrible. You know? Hope not. :hug: Thanks, kagehime. I'm out of the loop. Have you found work that you like? :hug:

[fizzgig]

nothing yet

took a cruddy market research job to keep some money coming in, but nothing real yet.

i haven't had to ask my dad for money much, but my boyfriend is helping me with my bills until i get the pet deposit for the new place taken care of and i hate having to ask him to do that

:hug:

[crim son]

43. Gawd I hear you!

I didn't ask my parents for money, or anybody else either. Your boyfriend sounds like a good man who views the two of you as a team. I envy you that. :hug:

[snailly]

38. Well, freaking poop

I was thinking about you today and hoping it went well but you know what? YOU DID IT! You went in there and they took you seriously.
You know how to proceed now and you have the interview experience. I think you know you can do it again!
Just really rooting for you!

[crim son]

41. snailly, I'm not lying when I say that

I took the energy from you and other DUers and applied it this morning. It made a huge difference and though I'm disappointed about the job I'm pleased about my personal performance. That's something.

Thank you! for rooting. It matters. -Lisa :hug:

[Generic Brad]

42. Taking the first step is always the hardest

The secret is to take another step. And then another. And then another. And then eventually you will no longer be thinking about taking the next step. You will be walking to work instead.

Don't give up.
:thumbsup:

[crim son]

44. You're right, Generic Brad.

I've taken your words, and your code, to heart. You have been a tremendous support.

[Generic Brad]

45. Thanks!

:blush:

[crim son]

46. De nada.

Why don't you dance while I watch? :P

[Generic Brad]

47. OK

[GalleryGod]

49. Good luck to you, Sweetie!

PM me when you can,Kid!:loveya: :hug: :loveya:

[BarenakedLady]

50. Sorry sweetie.

Next time.

:hug:

[demnan]

51. I'm sorry you didn't get it

but you will get a better one, that's what usually happens. And look at it this way, one more interview gave you just a little more experience for next time.