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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 04:57 PM Original message |
SCRUPLES! If you knew that a friend of yours was having an affair on his wife... |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
1. She'll find out soon enough |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
2. I wish someone would have told me sooner |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 06:20 PM Response to Reply #2 |
25. Me too |
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FloridaJudy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 09:01 PM Response to Reply #25 |
43. And I at least |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:01 PM Response to Original message |
3. nope. not my business. if you do, you will end up losing your friend and his wife |
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Sanity Claws (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
4. No |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
5. I sure wish somebody would have told me. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
6. OOOO that's tough |
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elshiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
7. No, not if you want to stay his friend. Also, a question, |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
8. No |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:13 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. Not gonna hurt her as bad if you tell her compared to her finding out a year later |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:21 PM Response to Reply #9 |
14. Well here's the thing |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:29 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. What about potential for disease? Possible pregnancy and child? |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 06:04 PM Response to Reply #16 |
22. Relationships are hard and when one partner strays there is a |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:15 PM Response to Original message |
10. I think telling is the honorable thing to do. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 06:26 PM Response to Reply #10 |
27. dear god, do you have any friends, do you even know what the word friend means |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 07:37 PM Response to Reply #27 |
35. Actually I agree with the poster you responded to. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 07:39 PM Response to Reply #27 |
36. I'm glad you chimed in! Now I know for sure that I'm right. |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 09:02 PM Response to Reply #27 |
44. Are you serious? He's exactly right. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 12:59 PM Response to Reply #44 |
68. snitches and rats are ugly things to be |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 02:55 PM Response to Reply #68 |
75. Oh, man, I'm crying tears from laughing! |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 03:32 AM Response to Reply #27 |
50. I do |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 12:30 PM Response to Reply #27 |
65. Wow. Just wow. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 02:18 PM Response to Reply #27 |
71. Coming from you, this is a hilariously funny post. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 02:18 PM Response to Reply #10 |
70. That is the right answer. Tell the friend you are giving him |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
11. I'd split from BOTH of them until the whole thing (marriage?) is over & settled!1 |
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RetroLounge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:19 PM Response to Original message |
12. MYOB |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
13. Slap your friend with a glove |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
15. Writer let me ask you a question |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:31 PM Response to Original message |
17. That's such a hard position to be in. |
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Inspired (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:35 PM Response to Original message |
18. Don't tell his wife and put a hold on the friendshipl |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
19. Personally, were it my friend, would tell him |
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last_texas_dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 07:08 PM Response to Reply #19 |
31. I agree with your post 100%. |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
20. No..No..No...Nobody else's Business. |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
21. Not my business. |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
23. They are big people |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 06:18 PM Response to Original message |
24. Yes, I would tell her--but anonymously. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 06:23 PM Response to Original message |
26. not if you care about the friend, if you hate and envy your friend have at it |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 07:42 PM Response to Reply #26 |
38. I love your posts! |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 11:03 PM Response to Reply #26 |
45. very sensible comment |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 12:36 PM Response to Reply #26 |
66. Just stunning. |
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Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 06:45 PM Response to Original message |
28. No |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 06:50 PM Response to Original message |
29. I don't know if I would tell the wife, but I couldn't stay friends... |
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billyoc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
30. Well, certainly not before I slept with her, that would be highly unscrupulous. |
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mokawanis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
32. No, but I would hate that situation |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
33. No. |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
34. There is no universally correct answer. Depends on who played what role to bring this about. |
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Dangerously Amused (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 07:42 PM Response to Original message |
37. Wait, is this the prof that was hitting on you? |
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Genevieve (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 11:58 AM Response to Reply #37 |
61. That's what I'm thinking. nt |
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Dangerously Amused (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 12:19 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. Right, if it is then that would change my answer. |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
39. yes |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 07:54 PM Response to Original message |
40. I think your friend sucks for putting you in this position |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 08:13 PM Response to Original message |
41. I would confront the friend, if he is a real friend. |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
42. Depends how much he'd be willing to pay for my silence |
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realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 06:57 AM Response to Reply #42 |
56. haha |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 11:06 PM Response to Original message |
46. Yes. As it could affect her physical health, I would tell ASAP. |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-18-08 11:19 PM Response to Original message |
47. Nope. |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 01:05 AM Response to Original message |
48. No |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
49. I might tell one of her close friends rather than telling her directly |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 05:57 AM Response to Original message |
51. I know for a fact... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 06:04 AM Response to Original message |
52. Hell no! I'd tell him that I know he's having an affair and say that it's probably not a good idea. |
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ferrferr (204 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 06:07 AM Response to Original message |
53. I was the wife who was being cheated on. |
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realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 06:57 AM Response to Reply #53 |
55. gasp |
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ferrferr (204 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 08:31 AM Response to Reply #55 |
58. Yeah .. you're right.. |
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realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 09:21 AM Response to Reply #58 |
59. wow |
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realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 06:56 AM Response to Original message |
54. Don't tell her, but tell your friend |
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fourvahl (147 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 08:15 AM Response to Original message |
57. Use it to your advantage! |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 09:55 AM Response to Original message |
60. So you do the right thing and tell the wife. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 12:55 PM Response to Reply #60 |
67. tattletales don't have good intentions |
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Genevieve (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 01:02 PM Response to Reply #67 |
69. 'SCRUPLES"?: ironic. |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 02:20 PM Response to Reply #67 |
72. I'm not sure if you meant your post as an answer to mine, but |
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Genevieve (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 02:27 PM Response to Reply #72 |
73. I'm in total agreement with you. |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 02:38 PM Response to Reply #73 |
74. Ah. I didn't realize. Thank you. n/t |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 12:16 PM Response to Original message |
62. How about what you tell your friend? |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
64. Absolutely. |
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Zavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
76. The only way I'd even CONSIDER getting involved in something like that would be if |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
77. Yes, because there's a chance she'll sleep with me to get even. |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-19-08 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
78. Been there, done that, wish I hadn't. |
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