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Archae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:38 AM
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I'm crying so much here.
I had two cats.

My black one Salem, was yowling earlier, I got up a few hours later, and found her on the kitchen floor dead.

I loved her so much.

The vet, based on how I described her as I found her, (she had blood coming from her hind end, said she died from a urinary infection.

:cry:

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Bronco69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:39 AM
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1. I'm sorry!
My condolences. :-(
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:40 AM
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2. I am so sorry about your cat ...
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: The DU Lounge here for you .
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molly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:42 AM
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3. I am so sorry!
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Mikimouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:44 AM
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4. Very sorry about Salem...
it's awful to lose a friend. Tootsie, DC, and Pooky send their condolences too (imagine kitties pawing the monitor). Hugs!
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peacebuzzard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:47 AM
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5. Oh my God!!I am sorry, so sorry....
I love my animals....more than anything. I feel your loss.
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laruemtt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:48 AM
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6. i'm so sorry.
please be comforted in knowing there's a lot of us out here who care.
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SheWhoMustBeObeyed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:48 AM
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7. So sad for you
Poor kitty. Poor you. :hug:
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izzie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:49 AM
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8. I just hate the animals to die. They are such pals.
Sorry
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DeposeTheBoyKing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:53 AM
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9. Oh NO!
What a horrible thing! I am so sorry. I'm shedding tears for you, too. Give your other kitty lots of extra love because he/she will be looking for the lost kitty. Take care.
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Voltaire99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:56 AM
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10. Sorry to hear it
Terrible losing a pet.
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Sperk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 07:58 AM
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11. so sorry
:hug:
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dmr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 08:13 AM
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12. This is so heartbreaking
I am really sorry Archae. How awful for you. Many, many hugs to you.

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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NC_Nurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 08:14 AM
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13. I'm so sorry!
It's so tough losing a kitty!
:hug:
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 08:23 AM
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14. Oh Sweetie
Big hugs for you! I've been there too many times to count. :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 08:26 AM
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15. Aw, man...I'm really sorry to hear that.
:-(
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pansypoo53219 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 08:55 AM
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16. damn, so sorry
my cat is prone to them. so i kep a good eye on her pee balls. now if only the damn kittens would stay out of her box.
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nuxvomica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 08:56 AM
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17. I'm very sorry, Archae
They can go so quickly with little or no warning. :hug:
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:05 AM
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18. Oh, Archae...
I'm so sorry for you!
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RebelOne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:08 AM
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19. So, so sorry. Losing a pet is like losing a child.
My dog had a urinary infection about a year ago. Luckily, I noticed that she was peeing blood, and I caught it in time.
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Robb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:08 AM
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20. Oh, dear...
I'm so sorry to hear that! :(

:hugs:
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:09 AM
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21. Oh no Archae...I am so very sorry.
How awful. I wish there was something I could say. Just know that I am thinking of you today and your Salem.

Big :hug: Laura
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commander bunnypants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:10 AM
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22. Hugas and karma my friend


:hugs:

DDQM
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Archae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:14 AM
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23. My thanks to all of you.
I still have lucky here, and when my younger sister found out, she said a co-worker is going to give me a kitten.

But it still hurts so much... :cry:
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TXlib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:17 AM
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24. I'm sorry to hear that.
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:25 AM
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25. Oh how terrible for you
I know how you loved your Salem.. :cry:
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:35 AM
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26. I'm Sorry about your cat...
It's not easy to lose a pet. :hug: We're here for ya.
Duckie
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peekaloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:38 AM
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27. Poor kitty.
so sorry Archae.

RIP Salem

:hug:
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skippysmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:38 AM
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28. So sad
I'm so sorry for your loss. It is like losing a family member.
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grannylib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 10:10 AM
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29. I am so sorry for your loss....thinking of you
:hug:
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 10:12 AM
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30. I'm soooo sorry!
How horrible and shocking for you. :hug: Take care and know that I'm thinking of you. :hug:
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Kahuna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 11:57 AM
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31. So sorry, Archae. I know how much you loved Salem.
:cry:
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:01 PM
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32. Oh no!
My heart goes out to you. I'll be keeping you and Salem in my thoughts today. :hug:
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nini Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:03 PM
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33. I'm so sorry...
How awful to find her like that - makes me so sad to hear this. :-(

take care :hug:
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Westegg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:03 PM
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34. My deepest sympathies...
And my Fred and Daisy send their feline sympathies to you as well.
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bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:05 PM
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35. sorry to hear that...
wasn't there any way to tell this???

I am just curious..
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:05 PM
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36. Wow - so very sad, Archae
I'm sorry to hear it. What a sad way to lose a beloved pet.

Sympathies to you.
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ronnykmarshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:06 PM
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37. Archae, I am so sorry about your kitty.
:grouphug:
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Interrobang Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:09 PM
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38. I'm very sorry to hear that.
I don't know what I'd do if my cat Nero suddenly died like that.

My sincerest condolences (and from Nero as well). Take care of yourself!
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:10 PM
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39. What a shock!
I'm so sorry. It's hard to lose a pet.

Give your other kitty (kitties?) some extra love today, and I know you will comfort each other.
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Heyo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:10 PM
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40. I am so sorry.....
That is one of my worst fears, too.. my condolences...

If it helps at all, think of it this way... when a cat passes on, on that same day it's re-incarnated, and another person who really needs that companionship will get him/her and will love them as much as you do....

I know it's hokey supersition, but maybe it helps..

:hug:
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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:11 PM
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41. Poor kitty
I'll say a prayer for her. And you (heck, I'll throw one in for all Du'ers too :~) ).
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Susang Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:14 PM
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42. I'm so sorry, I don't know what to say
I have two cats as well, so I know how you must feel. You have our sympathy. :hug:
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Lorien Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:24 PM
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43. I'm so sorry Archae
losing a beloved pet is one of the toughest things any of us go through. I lost two kitties in the past year, and it was completely heart breaking.
We all enjoyed your stories of Salem, and I believe you gave us some photographs as well. She was such as sweet girl, and everyone could easily see that you loved her very much. I'm certain that she was grateful for the care you gave her over the years and loved you much in return.

Grief is the greatest evidence that we have loved, and loved well. For now, you must grieve, but someday-maybe only months from now-you may welcome another "fur child" into your life and bless them with the love and care you gave Salem. I did, I have two kittens racing around the room as I type this. They are not replacements, and I still greatly miss my Peewee and Jasper, but they, too, are loving and beloved.

May you reunite with your beloved Salem on the rainbow bridge someday.Until then, Peace. :hugs:
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indigo32 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 12:28 PM
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44. I'm sorry Archae
that is very hard.
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myrna minx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 01:41 PM
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45. I am so sorry . My deepest condolences, Archae.
((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Archae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 04:07 PM
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46. A friend sent me this poem. It helps, a little.
When we got home, it was almost dark,
Our neighbor waited on the walk.
"I'm sorry, I have bad news," he said,
"Your cat, the gray-black one, is dead.
I found him by the garage an hour ago."
"Thank you," I said, "for letting us know."

We dug a hole in the flower bed,
The lilac buhes overhead,
Where this cat loved to lie in spring
And roll in the dirt and eat the green
Delicious first spring buds
And laid him down and covered him up,
Wrapped in a piece of tablecloth.
Our good old cat laid in the earth.

We quickly turned and went inside
The empty house and sat and cried
Softly in the dark some tears
For that familiar voicem that fur,
That soft weight missing from our laps,
That we had loved too well perhaps
And mourned from weakness of the heart,
A childish weakness to regard
An animal whose life is brief
With such affection and such grief

If this is foolish, so it be
He was good company
And we miss his gift
Of cat affection while he lived
The sweet nature
Of that shy creature
Who gave the pleasure of himself
The memory of our cat, Ralph.

-Garrison Keillor
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southpaw Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 04:19 PM
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47. I once missed 3 days of work mourning for a deceased cat...
Her name was Sammy. My wife and I adopted her during our first year of marriage and vowed to raise her like she was our child. We both really loved that little bundle of brindle-black beauty.

She passed away of a wasting infection that the vets couldn't find a way to treat within six months after the birth of our daughter.

It was as if she had served her purpose as our surrogate child and was making way for Alexis.

sad.

my heart goes out to you.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 04:21 PM
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48. Am SOOOO Sorry! Have been in that situation, sort of. :(
A yowling kitty, whom we took to the vet. They operated on him for kidney issues, but he died.

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bubblesby2002 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 04:24 PM
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49. So sad
I feel so bad for you. The poem, which is beautiful, made me cry even harder. :cry: :hug:
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Whitacre D_WI Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 05:31 PM
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50. I'm terribly sorry, Archae.
:hug:
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Kathy in Cambridge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 05:36 PM
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51. I'm so sorry about Salem!
Reno and Noah send kitty hugs! Take care of yourself and give your other kitty lots of love tonight!

:hug:
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Jack_Dawson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 05:38 PM
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52. Condolences...
I have two cats and would be devastated if anything happened to them. I'm so sorry.
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 05:40 PM
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53. I'm so sorry Archae!
What an awful shock that must have been!
~hugggggggggggggggggggg~
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ewagner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 05:46 PM
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54. So, so sorry Archae
:hug: :cry: :hug:
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ncrainbowgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 08:17 PM
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55. I'm SO sorry.
My 2 fuzzy beasts send their condolences too.
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southerngirlwriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 08:20 PM
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56. Oh, no!
I'm so sorry, Archae. :cry: :cry: :cry:
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gristy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 08:27 PM
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57. Very sad.
I am so sorry. My nice longhair Misty sleeps on my bed every night.
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Pithlet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 08:30 PM
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58. Oh, I'm so sorry.
:hug:
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Spirochete Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 09:02 PM
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59. I'm sorry
It would be easier if the animals outlived us, I think.
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mvd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-27-04 10:44 PM
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60. Very sorry
It's extremely hard to lose a pet. My condolences go out.
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