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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 02:14 PM Original message |
The economy's tanking, and so is my marriage. |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
1. Oh that's awful |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 04:48 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. Not offended. That's how I feel, too. |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
2. I'm sorry, I wish I knew what to say.. |
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blueraven95 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 03:04 PM Response to Original message |
3. ... |
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NJmaverick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
4. Very sorry to hear that |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 04:49 PM Response to Reply #4 |
9. He's refusing. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
5. I'm sorry. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 04:49 PM Response to Reply #5 |
10. Yeah. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
6. Am I alone in thinking that housekeeping reeeeeally isn't the issue here? |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 04:50 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. No, you're not. |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 05:23 PM Response to Reply #11 |
21. Go and mess up the guest bedroom |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 07:41 AM Response to Reply #21 |
37. Maybe that's what he wants. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 11:21 AM Response to Reply #37 |
41. There are SO MANY like that out there |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 08:59 AM Response to Reply #41 |
78. Maybe that's what it will take. |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 05:57 PM Response to Reply #6 |
88. Yep...You're right, Redqueen...there's something else going on that he.... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
7. I am so sorry |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 04:51 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. I don't get it either. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
12. thats is majorly mean and inconsiderate of him |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 04:52 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. It sure feels that way. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 04:54 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. yes, very selfish. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 04:54 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. You know, he even admitted that last week. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 04:57 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. well i am sorry you feel like you are no prize. if i were you, i would look into |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 08:00 PM Response to Reply #17 |
24. Just started up again this last week. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
18. He's an asshole. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
19. Isn't your husband a doctor? Or am I confusing you with someone else? |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 08:01 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. Yeah. He's never been the same since med school. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 08:17 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. I wondered that when you mentioned your health problems. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:31 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. Oh, he's sympathetic with his patients, just not me. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 09:47 PM Response to Reply #27 |
66. Not uncommon in the helping professions |
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AspenRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
20. I'm sorry. |
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rubberducky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
22. I have always thought that once the "D" word is spoken, it`s only a matter of time. |
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grannylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-02-08 06:17 PM Response to Original message |
23. I'm so sorry. I hope the counseling works out, if you want to keep |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 08:33 AM Response to Original message |
28. I'm sorry to hear this, Knitter. Is it possible he's involved with someone else? nt |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:13 AM Response to Reply #28 |
29. I thought this, too. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:43 AM Response to Reply #28 |
32. I don't think so. |
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ThatsMyBarack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:23 AM Response to Original message |
30. That stinks! |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:39 AM Response to Original message |
31. So he wants to call it quits because you won't conform to a gender stereotype. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-03-08 09:44 AM Response to Reply #31 |
33. I think it is something like that. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 06:49 AM Response to Original message |
34. Deleted message |
Pale Blue Dot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 07:25 AM Response to Reply #34 |
35. knitter, can I ask you a question? |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 02:36 PM Response to Reply #35 |
47. I love him. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 03:39 PM Response to Reply #47 |
52. Ask yourself, seriously, though...what is there to love about this person? |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 05:17 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. My next session's on Monday. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 07:13 PM Response to Reply #53 |
63. "(P)etty and small"? Of you? The one who didn't cheat for six years sans protection |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 03:14 PM Response to Reply #63 |
79. Ph.D. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 10:37 AM Response to Reply #34 |
38. Sorry to hear you're going through this, knitter |
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TroglodyteScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 11:04 AM Response to Reply #34 |
39. I don't understand... |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 02:37 PM Response to Reply #39 |
48. His heart's in it, though. |
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TroglodyteScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 03:03 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. I hope you're right... |
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KatyaR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 08:21 AM Response to Reply #48 |
77. Sadly, his heart may be in it now simply because he got caught. |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 11:09 AM Response to Reply #34 |
40. I am so sorry, Knitter. You are a better person than I am, that's for sure. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 11:25 AM Response to Reply #34 |
42. Best wishes for the counseling. |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 11:29 AM Response to Reply #34 |
43. Oh Jesus. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 11:47 AM Response to Reply #34 |
44. This is almost too much to digest |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 02:39 PM Response to Reply #44 |
49. Got tested for everything today. |
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MasonJar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 11:50 AM Response to Reply #34 |
45. Forgive but move on |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 12:23 PM Response to Reply #34 |
46. I can't believe that you are even THINKING of staying married to him. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 03:36 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. For real. PLEASE leave him. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 05:21 PM Response to Reply #51 |
54. I appreciate your concern. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 09:53 PM Response to Reply #51 |
67. I don't have a hard time believing this story |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 09:54 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. It's knitter4democracy's flat affect in relating this story, |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 09:56 PM Response to Reply #68 |
69. Well, I've known her on another forum for years |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 03:26 PM Response to Reply #69 |
86. Thank you. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 03:16 PM Response to Reply #68 |
80. Um, okay. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 06:31 PM Response to Reply #34 |
57. Even if you want to make it work, you should talk to a lawyer now. |
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fed_up_mother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 06:34 PM Response to Reply #34 |
58. Sweetie, let me tell you something |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 06:36 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. That's a very good point. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 06:52 PM Response to Reply #34 |
60. You need to leave him. There's no way that someone who's cheated for six years will ever change. |
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bluethruandthru (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 06:59 PM Response to Reply #34 |
61. Good for you for trying to make it work. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 12:08 AM Response to Reply #61 |
75. staying together for the children does more damage to them than divorcing, imho |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 12:03 AM Response to Reply #34 |
73. Sweetie |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 07:39 AM Response to Original message |
36. Housework is no longer something trivial. It can ruin a marriage. |
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latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
55. I understand why you need to to give it one last shot |
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fed_up_mother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
56. Do you work outside of the home? |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 03:20 PM Response to Reply #56 |
81. Not really. |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 07:01 PM Response to Original message |
62. I echo much of the sentiment |
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InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 08:19 PM Response to Original message |
64. I can't help but wonder why you would do this to yourself... |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 09:30 PM Response to Original message |
65. what bothers me most is that he tried to make you the bad guy... |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 03:21 PM Response to Reply #65 |
82. That's what bothers me the most, too. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 10:01 PM Response to Original message |
70. Knitter, know that you did nothing wrong |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 03:23 PM Response to Reply #70 |
83. Even our priest told me in confession that he'd understand if I left. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 03:43 PM Response to Reply #83 |
87. Sounds good to me |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
71. I'm so sorry |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-04-08 10:04 PM Response to Reply #71 |
72. Good point! |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 03:24 PM Response to Reply #72 |
84. Got the bank account already. |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 12:08 AM Response to Original message |
74. I'm not qualified to give marriage advice... |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
76. I have to ask: did you put him through medical school? |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 03:25 PM Response to Reply #76 |
85. Yeah. I even took a crappy teaching job to do it. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
89. I hope Elle goes quietly. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 08:54 PM Response to Reply #89 |
91. He'd deserve it if she doesn't. |
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UndertheOcean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 08:47 PM Response to Original message |
90. Listen , I don't know you , but I can feel that staying with the bastard is not good for you |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
92. Reading this thread has made me incredibly sad. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
93. *hugs* |
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OhioChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-05-08 10:55 PM Response to Original message |
94. You're in my thoughts and prayers.... |
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mizzuzmojorizin (126 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-06-08 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
95. You know the situation better than any of us |
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