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My mother, who lives a couple states away, would like to have a baby shower for me in the town where I live about 4-6 weeks before my due date. She would like me to include people who I know from the local area. I work at a small privately owned company with 10 other women, which make up about 25% of the employees at the company. Only one of them works in the same department as me. We both work under the same supervisor, but she is considered a lower position than me. The other women are also lower positions than me. I am not friends with any of them outside of work. With one exception, who is new, they are all over 10 years older than me. A few of these women are downright hostile to me. A couple of others are compulsive gossippers including the woman in my department. I really don't want some of these women there with my mother, possibily other family, and friends from outside of work. There are a couple that I would like there, but I feel that it would make things a lot worse for me with the other women if I didn't invite them all. I cannot trust any of them not to let it slip that they were going or went to the shower. I think that I would be better off to invite none of them and not mention that I was having/had one. My husband disagrees, but he doesn't have to work there.
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